Topic: Heart Matters
flosspie's photo
Wed 11/30/11 02:15 AM
How can you tell genuine love in a distance relationship? What are the signs to spot true love ? Remember-,its someone u have not seen physically.

joy4gud's photo
Wed 11/30/11 03:43 AM
How can you love someone you have not meet physically?

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 11/30/11 10:43 AM
Humm makes me wonder why love from a distance would be any different then if they were closer?.....whoa

ShannonMarie21's photo
Wed 11/30/11 01:17 PM

Humm makes me wonder why love from a distance would be any different then if they were closer?.....whoa


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pyxxie13's photo
Thu 12/01/11 09:13 AM
Well what time frame we talking here? And has this "true love" really made a effort to come see his true love in physical form. If not... maybe the answer is starring you in the face. ohwell flowerforyou

wux's photo
Thu 12/01/11 09:44 AM

How can you tell genuine love in a distance relationship? What are the signs to spot true love ? Remember-,its someone u have not seen physically.


Do not ask if he loves you and from how far. Ask, instead, how much you love him, how far your eternal love radiates into the distance in all directions in the universe, how many people have a better than average day just becasue they see your glow, and revel in how happy and excited you are knowing that you love someone.

wux's photo
Thu 12/01/11 09:46 AM
Never mind how much he loves you. Be happy with your own excitement and feelings, and run with it. Don't let his deception, if any, kill the moment for you. Sing with the birds and soar with them... drop a bird-bomb on poopie people who envy you and want to bring you down, and that includes your own insecurities and fears.

wux's photo
Thu 12/01/11 09:50 AM
Today you are happy and elated. Tomorrow you will be heartbroken or ecstatic.

Don't let the fear of today of the letdowns of tomorrow destroy the feeling you have now. Abandon yourself in walking on air, and see how blue the sky is and how green are the trees. Concentrate on the good that is now, instead of worrying about the possibilities of tomorrow. Keep doing this and the emotions of good energy will accumulate in your blood, in your soul.

no photo
Thu 12/01/11 01:51 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Thu 12/01/11 01:53 PM
Yes, it is possible.

If you have formed an emotional relationship with that person, then yes, I believe it is genuine.

no photo
Fri 12/02/11 08:43 PM
love at a distance wid someone u haven't met....difficult to say its love...mayb for a short time it can be carried on...but love is sharing ur daily life together and being together don't it.....now friendship and care at a distance.....dats totally possible....which one are u? :)

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/11/11 03:07 PM

How can you tell genuine love in a distance relationship? What are the signs to spot true love ? Remember-,its someone u have not seen physically.


I just take their word for it. However, here is the problem I have run up against in LDR's. The person you think you are falling in love with may not be who they say they are. I am completely open to an LDR if that's where love is....but, after a very bad experience I am not going to commit to anything until I have met him in person.

It's too easy to hide things like wives, drug addictions, serial killer tendencies...in an online relationship.

msharmony's photo
Sun 12/11/11 03:09 PM
love, when you want anothers happiness as much as your own

would you compromise or sacrifice towards that end ? to what degree?

its easy to tell if you love them, but much more unpredictable to know if they love you,,,

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 12/11/11 03:32 PM
Edited by Ruth34611 on Sun 12/11/11 03:33 PM

love, when you want anothers happiness as much as your own

would you compromise or sacrifice towards that end ? to what degree?

its easy to tell if you love them, but much more unpredictable to know if they love you,,,


13 years as a cop and I always believed everyone was telling the truth (yeah, I wasn't a very good investigator....more of a first responder type of cop). After 3 years online I now assume everyone is lying. ohwell

no photo
Sun 12/11/11 03:35 PM

How can you tell genuine love in a distance relationship? What are the signs to spot true love ? Remember-,its someone u have not seen physically.


In order to be genuine love, you need to actually meet in person first.

no photo
Sun 12/11/11 03:36 PM


How can you tell genuine love in a distance relationship? What are the signs to spot true love ? Remember-,its someone u have not seen physically.


I just take their word for it. However, here is the problem I have run up against in LDR's. The person you think you are falling in love with may not be who they say they are. I am completely open to an LDR if that's where love is....but, after a very bad experience I am not going to commit to anything until I have met him in person.

It's too easy to hide things like wives, drug addictions, serial killer tendencies...in an online relationship.


I feel the same. Getting to know each other long distance is fine, but for there to be an actual relationship, you have to meet in person. Otherwise, it's just getting to know each other.