Topic: ridiculous question
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Sun 11/13/11 11:18 AM
I had a bf who was crazy about football, even though I don't like the game I enjoyed some times where we had good foreplay during a game,and some good halftime sex. blushing

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Sun 11/13/11 11:34 AM
I have no problem with guys watching sports. I'm not into NFl, but if it's a hockey game, or college basketball or football, I'd be happy to watch.

Otherwise, not giving him a hard time about wanting to watch his team is the best way to go in my experience. If you let them enjoy what they like to watch, they're much more likely to be happy to spend time with you before or after the game.

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Sun 11/13/11 11:35 AM


women & men should have their separate hobbies. The last thing I need is some stressed out guy ruining my shopping trip! agree to have your own separate hangouts! bigsmile


I think that is true sometimes

but I would not be happy in a relationship that invoves an obsession with being a spectator to the extent that many men are

been there done that in relationships & it didn't work

again because of the no compromise obsession factor

and I know Ima challenge because I am also not interested in a man who feels that he is compromising to be with me

I prefer someone who truly doesn't care that much one way or the other about pro sports - an attitude similar to my own. I find a shared compatibility to be the healthiest approach

all jesting aside:wink: flowerforyou


What qualifies as an obsession to you? Watching all the games their team plays? Watching several teams? Watching each week? What is it?

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Sun 11/13/11 11:40 AM

I had a bf who was crazy about football, even though I don't like the game I enjoyed some times where we had good foreplay during a game,and some good halftime sex. blushing


That's pretty much the way I'd look at it as well.

Actually, I'd probably be grateful for the time to go watch what I wanted to on the other TV. happy

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Sun 11/13/11 11:43 AM


I had a bf who was crazy about football, even though I don't like the game I enjoyed some times where we had good foreplay during a game,and some good halftime sex. blushing


That's pretty much the way I'd look at it as well.

Actually, I'd probably be grateful for the time to go watch what I wanted to on the other TV. happy


Yeah, I never saw it as a problem if a guy wanted to watch a game I wasn't interested in. There's always something else to do.

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Sun 11/13/11 11:46 AM

is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious


Sure for sex and steak - always can watch it on tape delay!

drinker

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Sun 11/13/11 12:06 PM

is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious





yep me....I don't watch any games ....none of them no to football, basketball, hocky, none of them.................

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Sun 11/13/11 12:17 PM

is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious
I try to watch Texans games but other than that I don't watch much football.....but if we're taking MMA :banana:

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Sun 11/13/11 12:33 PM
Why not watch the game with them?:angel:

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Sun 11/13/11 12:53 PM

is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious
Me Get N-kedbigsmile

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Sun 11/13/11 12:54 PM

Why not watch the game with them?:angel:
finally, a sinceable woman whoa

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Sun 11/13/11 01:03 PM

Why not watch the game with them?:angel:


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Sun 11/13/11 03:27 PM


is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious


I have absolutely no use for football. I love baseball and hockey but football, to me, is pointless -- mainly because the scoring system makes no sense, and they don't play enough games to establish a valid statistical hierarchy of teams.

I would much rather spend time with a woman than watch a football game. Well, unless, we're talking about any of my exes. Then it's sort of a tossup.


rofl rofl

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Sun 11/13/11 03:30 PM

Does Chess, apply in your list???


actaully your question leads into the larger scope of compatability - personally no I would not be happy with someone obsessed with chess either - not if he was obsessed with chess the way my man friends at work are obsessed with football

the larger issue is being with someone who values the same amount of togetherness you do - even if all of your interests aren't the same

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Sun 11/13/11 03:30 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 11/13/11 03:43 PM

Why not watch the game with them?:angel:


I don;t care for it really, and at the level of obsession where it's all he talks about it is a total turn off

noway

it bores me to no end & I'd rather be doing something

that's a fine solution for those women who enjoy watching it, but that would not be me

it wouldn't be so bad except that then it is all they want to talk about 24/7 351 = (minus the last 2 weeks of january after the bowl and before the draft) which just adds to the total boredom

don;t get me wrong some of my most admired athletes are football players.....it's the obsession thing that is a total turn off, not the occasional fan

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Sun 11/13/11 03:37 PM
I'm still wondering what qualifies as a sports obsession? If they like a team and want to watch all the games, is that an obsession? What about season tickets? Or, is it an obsession if they like to watch sports every week? Or only if they watch football all day on Sundays?

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Sun 11/13/11 03:44 PM


Does Chess, apply in your list???


laugh laugh laugh


R u planning to make her mad??
laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 11/13/11 03:47 PM

is there a man out there who doesn't watch football? or at least is not totally obsessed by it? who could - miss a game (yes I uttered those words)??? to spend time with a woman?

just curious


Honestly couldn't name 3 players in the entire sport. Never really enjoyed watching other people play games, I'd rather go out and do something myself. Don't see the attraction at all. So Yes there is and you found him. laugh

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Sun 11/13/11 03:48 PM

I happen to love football!!.. All sports actually.

But, I'd miss a game anytime to hang out with my girl if I had one...


good man

nice bike

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Sun 11/13/11 03:49 PM

I have no problem with guys watching sports. I'm not into NFl, but if it's a hockey game, or college basketball or football, I'd be happy to watch.

Otherwise, not giving him a hard time about wanting to watch his team is the best way to go in my experience. If you let them enjoy what they like to watch, they're much more likely to be happy to spend time with you before or after the game.


you have totally missed my point, I agree with you

however, I prefer someone who does not have that issue