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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. |
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why assume women want men in the first place. o.O gppd point I want MAN not MEN one is enough trouble I don't think that was quite the point she was making. 
possibly not - just my spin and typing errors to boot 
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. Why are woman always so fast to make men seem controling. In any relationship neither party can expect their partner to let them do anything they want. both people are going to have concerns about things and there is going to be things they are going to want them to do and not do. Now "in general" some men might not want their woman going out without them or some woman might feel this same way. Its all about pleaseing your mate. There will be things you have to do that you might not want to do, and things you much give up to make things work. Thats just the way it should work. Work together to make things work, the overall goal is to make things work together, nothing else in the world should ever get in the way of that. Friends, family etc take a back seat to this. I think a lot of people both men and woman have forgotten this today |
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A million dollars, Twizzlers, and somebody who doesn't want to change her but she'll usually settle for the last two.
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i'll take that guy. If he is out there. Ha. But if any girl sets the bar that high to be with someone, she needs a reality check and doesn't deserve the man willing to do those things.
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A million dollars, Twizzlers, and somebody who doesn't want to change her but she'll usually settle for the last two. most times you have to change a little in time to make things work, refusing to change anything about your life but still want to share it with someone else is just crazy |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? Well, when I actually gave a crap about dating; I wanted a guy that would treat me like an equal, a human being. I don't want him taking care of me; protecting me, fixing my car or house; coming to my rescue and certainly don't want him solving my problems. I just want to be treated with respect. I get tired of hearing this tripe that women want men to take care of them. That maybe so with some women but I am not one of them. |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. Why are woman always so fast to make men seem controling. In any relationship neither party can expect their partner to let them do anything they want. both people are going to have concerns about things and there is going to be things they are going to want them to do and not do. Now "in general" some men might not want their woman going out without them or some woman might feel this same way. Its all about pleaseing your mate. There will be things you have to do that you might not want to do, and things you much give up to make things work. Thats just the way it should work. Work together to make things work, the overall goal is to make things work together, nothing else in the world should ever get in the way of that. Friends, family etc take a back seat to this. I think a lot of people both men and woman have forgotten this today Actually, it sounded more lazy than controlling. |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. Why are woman always so fast to make men seem controling. In any relationship neither party can expect their partner to let them do anything they want. both people are going to have concerns about things and there is going to be things they are going to want them to do and not do. Now "in general" some men might not want their woman going out without them or some woman might feel this same way. Its all about pleaseing your mate. There will be things you have to do that you might not want to do, and things you much give up to make things work. Thats just the way it should work. Work together to make things work, the overall goal is to make things work together, nothing else in the world should ever get in the way of that. Friends, family etc take a back seat to this. I think a lot of people both men and woman have forgotten this today Actually, it sounded more lazy than controlling. lol your are entertaining me to no end tonight. |
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why assume women want men in the first place. o.O Nice anwer.
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why assume women want men in the first place. o.O Biology and the natural urge for each human to want another human with whom to share their life. In most cases, a woman will choose a man as her mate. In a much smaller number of cases, a woman will choose a woman as her mate. In an even smaller number of cases, a woman won't desire a mate. In those cases, there is even a smaller minority of women who don't desire a mate through some quark of her nature, verses women who don't desire a mate due to some mental trauma in her life. |
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 I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. I believe that a major impediment to communication between men and women is that women speak with and listen for subtext, while men are direct and expect directness. Men are direct? Where in Disneyland? I don't meet men who have a clue what they want and dance around subjects so much; they could be on dancing with the stars. So, where are you getting being direct from? |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. Why are woman always so fast to make men seem controling. In any relationship neither party can expect their partner to let them do anything they want. both people are going to have concerns about things and there is going to be things they are going to want them to do and not do. Now "in general" some men might not want their woman going out without them or some woman might feel this same way. Its all about pleaseing your mate. There will be things you have to do that you might not want to do, and things you much give up to make things work. Thats just the way it should work. Work together to make things work, the overall goal is to make things work together, nothing else in the world should ever get in the way of that. Friends, family etc take a back seat to this. I think a lot of people both men and woman have forgotten this today Well, I disagree that family will take a backseat to any relationship. I still believe blood is thicker than water. |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. I believe that a major impediment to communication between men and women is that women speak with and listen for subtext, while men are direct and expect directness. Men are direct? Where in Disneyland? I don't meet men who have a clue what they want and dance around subjects so much; they could be on dancing with the stars. So, where are you getting being direct from? Maybe that's why some men don't like women to be direct and to the point.
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Men are direct? Where in Disneyland? I don't meet men who have a clue what they want and dance around subjects so much; they could be on dancing with the stars. So, where are you getting being direct from? Men are direct, it's part of their nature. It's "maleness". Your experience is with "nice guys" who desire to please you so much that they annoy you. her: "What do you want for dinner?" him: "anything is fine with me, you pick" her: "okay, how about Chinese?" him: "Anything but Chinese, I don't like that." her: "but you said I could pick and that you would eat anything!" |
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Men are direct? Where in Disneyland? I don't meet men who have a clue what they want and dance around subjects so much; they could be on dancing with the stars. So, where are you getting being direct from? Men are direct, it's part of their nature. It's "maleness". Your experience is with "nice guys" who desire to please you so much that they annoy you. her: "What do you want for dinner?" him: "anything is fine with me, you pick" her: "okay, how about Chinese?" him: "Anything but Chinese, I don't like that." her: "but you said I could pick and that you would eat anything!" Oh I call bull. Its got nothing do with a guy being nice; not all men are direct; just like not all women are nuturing. That is a generalization. |
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A million dollars, Twizzlers, and somebody who doesn't want to change her but she'll usually settle for the last two. most times you have to change a little in time to make things work, refusing to change anything about your life but still want to share it with someone else is just crazy ah clue for the clueless....if at 41, you think I am going to change please call my ex husband on the 15th and 31st of the month as he writes my check and ask if after 20 years, I changed. |
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I have always heard woman saying how they want a nice guy who will love them the way they are and bla bla bla. I just don't get it. For example a guy cooks, cleans, works, pays bills, washes cloths, takes care of kids, wants to spend all his time with her, even takes care of he kids from other baby daddis, fixes her car, etc etc etc. On top of that he is decent looking, good in bed, and affectionate. What the H more could a woman ask for? In another thread, weren't you just saying that you wanted a woman to keep a clean house for you? So while she's doing that, you're still cleaning and cooking and washing clothes? Uh huh... ugh here we go again. reading with woman eyes again. That other post was me speaking in general, maybe you should read it again for what it says in plan english instead of turning things around or skipping every other word. Ah, I thought you were speaking for yourself, rather than in general. Sorry, my mistake. Why are woman always so fast to make men seem controling. In any relationship neither party can expect their partner to let them do anything they want. both people are going to have concerns about things and there is going to be things they are going to want them to do and not do. Now "in general" some men might not want their woman going out without them or some woman might feel this same way. Its all about pleaseing your mate. There will be things you have to do that you might not want to do, and things you much give up to make things work. Thats just the way it should work. Work together to make things work, the overall goal is to make things work together, nothing else in the world should ever get in the way of that. Friends, family etc take a back seat to this. I think a lot of people both men and woman have forgotten this today Well, I disagree that family will take a backseat to any relationship. I still believe blood is thicker than water. Ah yes, again not thinking things through enough. Blood is thicker than water, yes but how does blood become blood? You are a mix of you mother and father, you "blood" with them. But your mother and father are not blood with each other, so they much be water right? No? They are family? Blood? Hmm not making much sense around here. Case and Point, you and your bf/husband whatever are seen as water, yet in the future your kids will see it as blood. So this is how you should see it too |
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Men are direct? Where in Disneyland? I don't meet men who have a clue what they want and dance around subjects so much; they could be on dancing with the stars. So, where are you getting being direct from? Men are direct, it's part of their nature. It's "maleness". Your experience is with "nice guys" who desire to please you so much that they annoy you. her: "What do you want for dinner?" him: "anything is fine with me, you pick" her: "okay, how about Chinese?" him: "Anything but Chinese, I don't like that." her: "but you said I could pick and that you would eat anything!" That doesn't have anything to do with being nice. It's just a guy being indecisive. I have no patience for men like that. |
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A million dollars, Twizzlers, and somebody who doesn't want to change her but she'll usually settle for the last two. most times you have to change a little in time to make things work, refusing to change anything about your life but still want to share it with someone else is just crazy ah clue for the clueless....if at 41, you think I am going to change please call my ex husband on the 15th and 31st of the month as he writes my check and ask if after 20 years, I changed. lol you just proved my point, this is why you have an ex. And get up and get a job and stop living off him, no man should be writing you a check for anything |
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