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Topic: Hw do i find my perfect match
Lizyjones20's photo
Thu 11/10/11 09:08 AM
Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

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Thu 11/10/11 12:16 PM
That's one of those 'how long's a piece of string' questions...

Don't give up hope! :smile:

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Thu 11/10/11 12:19 PM
I keep looking for the girl of my dreams, but since I don't sleep I'm never gonna find her. indifferent

Monier's photo
Thu 11/10/11 03:08 PM
Stay true to yourself and never settle for less than what you want.

micuzi007's photo
Thu 11/10/11 03:51 PM
hope does not disappoint us. ROMANS 5:5

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Thu 11/10/11 03:52 PM
perfect match? never gonna happen gf. comprimises will have to be made or you will grow old with a houseful of cats.

skywisper's photo
Fri 11/25/11 12:40 PM
Im not sure there is such a thing.I'm also not sure what is on that dogs head? a couple of pictures up & why do you never sleep? if you dont mind me asking.Martin

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Fri 11/25/11 01:45 PM

Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me


Hi Lizy!...How Do I Find My Perfect Match?

Take the word perfect out of it, there is no such thing...There is, however, true love..flowerforyou

Good luck to you!smile2

wux's photo
Sat 11/26/11 06:55 AM

Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me


Ya no... I been in your shoes at your age.

I lissen to dis song in 1973:

JULY MORNING
by Uriah Hip

"I was there on a July morning
I was looking for love
I left to find a girl
And left a home behind me
In the beautiful sun

"On my way there were birds
Got chirping
I was looking for more
With the home and a life behind me
On the road on my own

"With the day
Came the resolution
I was looking for love
La la la lala la la la lala
Lalala

"It was then on a July morning
I went looking for love
I looked and looked, I was really searching
Left no stone unturned...

La la la... etc."

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I remember how this song really pissed me off. It starts how the guy starts out to look for love, to find love. So I figured, all I'd need to do to steal his trade secret and learn how to find love, is to listen to the lyrics.

The lyrics, however, don't tell you zit all. The lyrics don't even say if he found love.

The hardest lesson in life is this:

You have hopes
You don't know the future
You can't calculate probabilities
If you can calculate probabilities, they mean nothing, as the slightest chance to win may win you the game (like one in a billion chance still wins a body a lottery game) and the slightest chance to lose may net you no success
You never know which way love, the game, job hunt, etc. will turn out for you
And sometimes they turn out, sometimes they don't, and there is very, but very little that you can do about it, if IF! if anything at all.

So it's nice to hear others tell you that you will find love if you are patient, and keep looking and the loverboy will appear, etc. etc, but this type of advice is not based on any evidence, or on any reasonable thought; they are well meant, and warm, and wishing you well, but they do nothing else.

So... the hardest lesson is...? Anyone?

the hardest lesson is that you have the prospect of not finding love, ever, and the prospect that you will find true love.

You won't know until one or the other happens:
1. You find true love, in which case you are a winner, and
2. You die without having found love.

There are no other outcomes. You have to face this. Hope helps, but hope kills. There is nothing YOU, personally, can do about this; there is no reason for you to blame yourself or blame anyone else regarding this.

This is what we are: we're just lost souls, running around, aimlessly, randomly, like a fish swimming in a fish bowl. Running over the same old ground, what are we going to find? the same old fears, the same old hopes.

miniboy91's photo
Sat 11/26/11 07:02 AM
Chillax dudette!! Just hope for the best, I am sure mingle2 will help you out... ;)

skywisper's photo
Sat 11/26/11 10:20 AM


Im not sure there is such a thing.I'm also not sure what is on that dogs head? a couple of pictures up & why do you never sleep? if you dont mind me asking.Martin


it was a bit of a laugh ol bean. Dreams...no sleep...cant find...

He likes a bit of humor. Thats a crab on the dogs head, i think.
Oh ok i was kind of thinking it was a giant spider,i was thinking if there is a spider that big living around i'm going to live on a ladder lol.

pyxxie13's photo
Sat 11/26/11 02:16 PM

Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

Maybe it's me but the grammar alone would turn me away. frustrated

Seakolony's photo
Sat 11/26/11 02:30 PM
Edited by Seakolony on Sat 11/26/11 02:59 PM

Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

Love is a two way street that takes alot of work and compromise. Everyone wants love unconditionally, but the life partner deserves the same. That takes compromise.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sat 11/26/11 02:48 PM
Just strike up a conversation. I am sure he will burn for you soon.:smile:

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Sat 11/26/11 02:52 PM

Just strike up a conversation. I am sure he will burn for you soon.:smile:


It will happen when you least expect it. When a person is searching they may give off a vibe. If you relax and keep all your options open you will give off an air that will have them flocking to you! Join clubs and societies, don't pass by any opportunities to be in a gathering of like-minded people to yourself. Even make more friends of the same gender as you as you will then have a wider social network to find someone special.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sat 11/26/11 02:59 PM
Rainbow Fire

Go back, Go back the ice maiden said.
Liberty has a crush; Heroes are dead.
The petals of the dandelion are blown.
The rose is beautiful and is grown.
You are just the vanity of the stem.
Angels fly away and you're not like them.
But angel I know that you still care.
I know the beauty of the ocean glare.
Oh, my statue of liberty that cries.
I see you look across the blue skies.
You have life, liberty and the pursuit.
Just lift me up and that will do it.
Hold me in your hand my lovely grace.
I will show the night your cute face.
Take me out of this funeral pyre.
I will shine for you in rainbow fire.

RainbowTrout's photo
Sat 11/26/11 03:28 PM
Yeah. You get a makeover and they start shooting missiles. Critics. Who needs them.

skywisper's photo
Sat 11/26/11 03:34 PM


Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

Love is a two way street that takes alot of work and compromise. Everyone wants love unconditionally, but the life partner deserves the same. That takes compromise.
I believe in compromise and i believe in love, does this make us a team?lol.Martin

Seakolony's photo
Sat 11/26/11 03:43 PM



Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

Love is a two way street that takes alot of work and compromise. Everyone wants love unconditionally, but the life partner deserves the same. That takes compromise.
I believe in compromise and i believe in love, does this make us a team?lol.Martin

LOL

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Sat 11/26/11 03:54 PM


Av been searchin 4 quite sumtime nw nd i avnt find d one dat truly loves me

Maybe it's me but the grammar alone would turn me away. frustrated


she prolly posted from her phone

as far as the topic? what IS a perfect match? if he's hot and thinks I'm cute...I'm in

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