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Topic: Lights are on but nobody’s home
Karma_09's photo
Mon 11/07/11 10:10 AM
a. make sure to post a good pic and change it up every once in a while

h. other
1} get out of stealth mode since it limits how many views you get

2) start posting in the forums more frequently

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Mon 11/07/11 12:47 PM

a. make sure to post a good pic and change it up every once in a while

h. other
1} get out of stealth mode since it limits how many views you get

2) start posting in the forums more frequently



I think the posting in the forums is really important for generating interest from the opposite sex.

Some profiles tell the reader very little about the author and IMO places more emphasis than necessary on visual appearance e.g. if the profile’s crap but the person is attractive, that might get generate a nudge or an email. If there is no pic and a crap profile...

Contributing to discussions on the forum gives prospective partners another way of getting to know you. People are interested in your opinions and what you have to say, not how well you can spell – that stuff’s not important!

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:49 PM
So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated

msharmony's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:50 PM

So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated



how long since you responded? I know sometimes I dont really look at my mails for several days,,,let alone reply

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:52 PM


So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated



how long since you responded? I know sometimes I dont really look at my mails for several days,,,let alone reply


He read it more than 24 hours ago. I don't really care....I just thought it was funny that I finally repsonded to the one line email and got nothing. slaphead

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Mon 11/07/11 08:54 PM


So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated



how long since you responded? I know sometimes I dont really look at my mails for several days,,,let alone reply


If someone is interested in getting to know me and I take the time to respond to them, I will lose interest if they don't respond for several days.

msharmony's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:54 PM



So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated



how long since you responded? I know sometimes I dont really look at my mails for several days,,,let alone reply


He read it more than 24 hours ago. I don't really care....I just thought it was funny that I finally repsonded to the one line email and got nothing. slaphead



nothing,,,,,yet

patience flowerforyou

consider that he did say hello, maybe he is having a hard time thinking of what to say next 'nice to meet you' is more of a statement than a question and some folks arent good conversationalist,,,lol



Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:56 PM

nothing,,,,,yet

patience flowerforyou

consider that he did say hello, maybe he is having a hard time thinking of what to say next 'nice to meet you' is more of a statement than a question and some folks arent good conversationalist,,,lol





laugh I'll be sure and come back and let you know when he thinks of another sentence to write. :wink:

msharmony's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:57 PM


nothing,,,,,yet

patience flowerforyou

consider that he did say hello, maybe he is having a hard time thinking of what to say next 'nice to meet you' is more of a statement than a question and some folks arent good conversationalist,,,lol





laugh I'll be sure and come back and let you know when he thinks of another sentence to write. :wink:



laugh laugh

haaaaaa

I will try to check the thread between now and another 24 hours...:tongue:

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/07/11 08:57 PM



nothing,,,,,yet

patience flowerforyou

consider that he did say hello, maybe he is having a hard time thinking of what to say next 'nice to meet you' is more of a statement than a question and some folks arent good conversationalist,,,lol





laugh I'll be sure and come back and let you know when he thinks of another sentence to write. :wink:



laugh laugh

haaaaaa

I will try to check the thread between now and another 24 hours...:tongue:


laugh :thumbsup:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/08/11 06:27 AM
UPDATE: Still no email. yawn

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/08/11 06:32 AM

UPDATE: Still no email. yawn

He is trying to cut the most gorgeous
woman on Mingle2 from the herd.
Give him some rope.

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Tue 11/08/11 06:40 AM


I think your interesting Lex, you have a young Victor Meldrew (a character from a British tv programme called ‘One foot in the Grave') attitude that makes me smile whenever I read one of your post...


Thank you, it's nice to know that someone notices....!

Not familiar with Victor but of course I will have to investigate....!!

shades




oh that is so cute!

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Tue 11/08/11 06:41 AM


UPDATE: Still no email. yawn

He is trying to cut the most gorgeous
woman on Mingle2 from the herd.
Give him some rope.


do u think he's making her wait on purpose ...to build the tension....excite the sexual frustration?drool

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/08/11 06:55 AM



UPDATE: Still no email. yawn

He is trying to cut the most gorgeous
woman on Mingle2 from the herd.
Give him some rope.


do u think he's making her wait on purpose ...to build the tension....excite the sexual frustration?drool


laugh


Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/08/11 06:58 AM


UPDATE: Still no email. yawn


I for one am encouraged to see that there are still emails floating by, with capitalization, appropriate punctuation, and even an apostrophe when warranted. Where is his spaceship?


Yeah, that's partly why I answered. I saw potential for an actual conversation based on his proper use of grammar and punctuation. I guess that's the only sentence he knows how to write though.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/08/11 06:58 AM


UPDATE: Still no email. yawn

He is trying to cut the most gorgeous
woman on Mingle2 from the herd.
Give him some rope.


Sorry, but this is a BYOR party.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/08/11 07:06 AM

Sorry, but this is a BYOR party.

Rodeo is on!!!!!

msharmony's photo
Tue 11/08/11 10:50 AM
Edited by msharmony on Tue 11/08/11 10:50 AM
laugh laugh laugh


yall so silly,,lol
(sorry for the improper grammar, I sometimes use it with folks when I get 'comfortable')

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Tue 11/08/11 11:32 AM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Tue 11/08/11 11:35 AM

So, I got an email from an attractive guy who lives close by yesterday. All it said was, "I thought I'd say hi". Of course, usually I will just delete that, but I decided to give the guy a chance and maybe start a conversation. So, I said, "Hi, nice to meet you." He reads it and then never emails me back. frustrated


Maybe his momma gave him a 'timeout' and banned him from using his computer for the rest of the week laugh

Seriously though, don't understand it...Men are mysterious beings!

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