Absolutely Agree .

I don't think anyone should be harassed for making choices that are right for them.

I know myself better than anyone can or ever will and I accept that while the choices I make may not be everyone's cup of tea, they're mine to make and mine to live with.

To date, I haven’t been out with anyone with children and being totally honest, if my future long term partner has children, I am not relishing interacting with his kids anymore then I’m relishing him interacting with mine.

My rational self knows that trying to maintain a relationship without, at some point, factoring in his/my kids may be an unrealistic expectation and/or a deal breaker (on his side), but that would be my best case scenario.