I am referring to Rejecting Jesus as Saviour when He

comes knocking on

EACH one of our hearts door......which He will do after God

FIRST DRAWS EACH one of us unto Him ...and PREPARES EACH one of


our hearts to RECEIVE Him , by

gently CONVICTING EACH one of our hearts of our NEED of

JESUS as SAVIOUR in our lives.......


God DRAWS EACH one of us UNTO HIM FIRST.... and gently

CONVICTS EACH one of our hearts of sin in our lives( meaning...

EACH and EVERY ONE OF US have sin in our lives)........that is HOW

we get

Saved......and God

EXCLUDES NO ONE from being SAVED.

Having listen to many discussions about what attracts people to others I tend to believe it is an inborn choice and has very little to do with experience or social education.

If trauma and or finess had much to do with it I doubt the human race would have survived.

I know for myself what sexually attracts me is pretty specific but what I can "love" and or enjoy is a much wider base.

As far as "older" women's choices I have to question how much of that is the desire to escape going from being lover to caregiver/servant to a man they love again. A very disconcerting experience.

this sounds reasonable

I think my choices and what "does it" for me hasn't changed much from when I was young. I still like decisive & postive men

I'm an older woman and I don't feel that way. There's no way I would want to be with another woman. She has the same parts as I do, I might as well do myself. I have my female friends for emotional support if I needed that. Men are just so sexy.

I am attracted to threads which say "Women Only"

I am talking mainly about Homosexual men. A genuine Homosexual man I believe would have no sexual interest in women no more than a Genuine Lesbian woman would have a sexual interest in men. IMO Bisexual is just curiosity.

Well, you said you could see women being attracted to men and women, but not men being attracted to men and women. That's the part that was confusing.

Nice to see that you have faith in the six inch (on average)piece of flesh and bone that men have extra to women...

nope, negative - I am in the group that's very much attracted to man

I find other woman sexually attractive. It doesn't mean I'd sleep with them, but there's nothing wrong with looking, and maybe fantasizing.

The vast majority of women on here seem to be of the same opinion. That bodes well for the men on here..

I don't understand this. You find women sexually attractive. I can look at a man and comment to someone that the man in Question is a Good Looking Man but I wouldn't be sexually attracted to him and I certainly wouldn't fantasize about him.. JMHO

You may be surprised how many men are attracted to other men and are on the down low.

I know men are attracted to men ...that surely must make them homosexual. What does "on the down low" mean

Let me clarify...I was just stating that I am in the camp of women that is attracted to other women and agreed with an earlier post about men in general being lousy lovers.

I am attracted to both men and women, but my experiences with men have led me to be extremely choosy about sexual intimacy. IMO most men lack passion in the bedroom! Good sex isn't rocket science & if I can please myself better than he can then what's the point of having sex with him? I have had the pleasure of having some very good male lovers, but I still feel most men are not inclined to put forth much effort. I'm sure some men can say the same about women.

I am also attracted to women & admire the beauty of female's body! Can't say I've ever had a bad sexual experience with another woman.

yes. I have found myself attracted to women, men, single people, and married people. I am able to see beauty across gender or marital lines. I do draw the line at pre pubescent though,, just NOTHING attractive about it to me,,,lol

I think you can appreciate someone's attractiveness regardless but it does not mean you want to sleep with them. Like yes, I can see a beautiful Playmate and go, "Yes, she is a attractive". Do I want to have sex with her? No. But likewise, I often see men who are gorgeous but I am not into them but I can see them and go "They are gorgeous". Like I have male model friends who are all waxed up and stuff which does not appeal to me sexually but I can see that it is attractive aesthetically.

the definition of 'sexual attraction' is a whole other debate

when I Was young, I can honestly say I didnt merely look at a person and think in terms of wanting sex

my first time was TERRIFYING, and I didnt necessarily want IT as much as I thought it was a 'natural' part of bonding.

so I never really know what people mean specifically by 'sexual attraction', maybe that makes me asexual?...lol

I do look at people and think 'wow he/she is beautiful' and I have an awareness of the human body to know any one can stimulate the human body and mind if they take time to get to know the person and communicate. So I have a conscious awareness that my sexual satisfaction is not attached at all to gender or marital status. IT is about communication which I Cant merely look at someone and know I will have.

nah

not at all into the girl on girl action

exactly - I am so glad to see u say this - I sooo know what u mean - a lot of the guys who are over the top cut & are what the media considers sex gods, I'm kinda like ... meh