Ahhh but there is proof my dear...I'm one of them

that is not proof of HOW you became 'one of them'

But I never "became" I already was and so was many others. We are just variations just like some were born left handed or green eyes or albinos ect.

I also want to thank everyone for being opened minded about different orientations. Namaste!

yes, we should let everyone make up their own minds what they want in life,,,where relationships and sex are concerned,,,

Nope, not attracted to other women myself. I just wonder if women may be attracted to other women as they understand them better. For example; they can communicate better with another woman or express their feelings openly. Those have always been difficulties with men. Could this be the reason they turn to other women? I guess you would have to ask these women personally.

I'm comfortable admitting it, if i feel attracted to another female. I'd never even dream of wanting another woman just to get a guys attention. It happens a lot though. :shrug:. You see women kissing/making out with each other just to impress the guy they're attracted to. This kinda irks me, as then, it isn't true female attraction, and is only some show. It doesn't bother me whatsoever, if anyone is bi/gay/alien. But being someone else other than yourself just to win someone over is a no-no in my book.

whoa back up...she won't want it over & done with if he knows what he's doing...



but to be fair she has to be open to him and his ideas - I think one big hang up guys have is fear that a woman won;t accept a little kink

the best situation is two partners who are open and not afraid to talk about sex, trying different things, and not afraid to develop it as an art within their relationship

just a thought

Well so far, this doesn't appear to be holding true for minglers. Like other posters here, I can admire/appreciate another woman's physical beauty, but I have never been sexually attracted to one.

Yeah, I have to agree with you that not being true to yourself is not the brightest thing a person can do. I am wondering too if this isn't part of the game playing that people do.

I don't know..I've never been with a woman..but I can't say I wouldn't ever. I agree with the poster above who said something along the lines of accepting love if it came around, no matter the sex. I've totally had girl crushes before. And to be honest, if Gina Gerschon came around and wanted me...well, it'd be on. lol

I love men..but am not completely closed off when it comes to the idea of a woman.

just no

I have never known women I dated to be attracted to other women.

<------ half German-half shepherd

Yes, this is one reason for some, however not all. There are various reasons why people adopt the homosexual name. Some think it's the "in" thing to do, some enjoy the excitment, some are confused, some cannot even stand within a close range of the opposite gender without being replused,some enjoy the emotional and/or sexual connection because of familiarity, some have suffered trama by the opposite or sometime same gender and it stems from a result thereof, some are wired neurologically, biologically or both from birth. It's like you said...you would have to ask that person specificly.

Unfortunately most people have been taught to generalize homosexuality and believe it's just a choice or preference. Yes, there are some who choose it for their own personal reasons but they are not homosexuals, they are just behaiving in a homosexual manner.

Homosexual tendencies can also become fluid over the course of a life time. True homosexuals have no choice just as true heterosexuals have no choice.

I hope this can shed some light on the subject a bit. As for the original question...I believe the percentage is much higher than what statistics show's. If we didn't have the negative stigmatism that society and religion attach to same gender attraction, I assure you there would be more people steppin up! Commin out of the closet would be more like commin out of the auditorium!

Well I am Lakota by religion and my God loves ALL with no stipulations or restrictions!!! I truly cant see how some people can believe God loves U ONLY if U follow the bible!!!My religion loves and worships nature and ones sexxual preference has NO bearing on what kind of soul U are,Im not knocking the bible, just those that uses it to try to rule our way of life by words. Im strictly straight but that does NOT make me any better or worse than someone else but the way I live my life does!!

It's unfortunate more people can't seem to see that God/creator has no issue with loving anyone, but man does and proceeds to project his/her own dictatorships on others like the pharicee's. We are all in the same boat, to go through life the best we can with what we got. I never understood why people can't just live and let live.

I agree and I read the bible at times - we are commanded to love one another and treat others as we would like to be treated there are no exclusions spelled out

I have also wondered about that regarding many things not just sexual orientation, some folks just need to get a hobby or something

I'm guessing this is largely due to mingle being a rather conservative site when it comes to sexual orientation!!!

I am in the attracted to other women half & agree that most men are lousy lovers!

I wonder if men more often tend to fear intimacy. I have had both wonderful lovers and 1 or 2 so inept that I just said no because I didn't feel that being the "instructor" was my chosen fantasy

and this was not a matter of the man's age either