ok this guy message me on another dating site and we have probably sent 4 or 5 message back n forth and hes asking for my number.

i feel its kinda fast to be asking for my number already and i dont have a cell phone so i cant just block him if he gets too annoying!

or am i just being too paranoid?and would it be rude if i asked him if he had some type of messenger instead?

just do what ever makes you comfortable.or just keep writing
on here.

If he's that pushy, there's probably something wrong.

im fine with talking to him thro yahoo or on the site but i think its kinda pushy [personally] to be asking for my digits already

I'm definitely picky about who I give my number out to. No need to give it to someone I just started chatting with if I don't feel comfortable.

thats y i asked.im trying to avoid all things ive done in the past!

Its your number and he needs it now. Instant anything can get one into trouble except maybe air to breathe with. Paranoia can destroy ya we use to say. Fear can get a bad rap sometimes. But imagine if you had no fear. Wouldn't that be scary? Having your number isn't going to make you any more ready than you already are.

It doesn't really matter what others think, though. It's up to you to decide what works for you.

well i really dont know they guy and hes asking for my number and wants to meet me somewhere..like so down dude u could be a freaking serial killer!

i did he gave me his yahoo id :) i didnt want to have another stalker on my hands

OK,,OK,,I'msorry already,,,YOU can just WRITE me dang-IT....lol

First lesson of YOUR the queen,,,THIS IS YOUR CALL,,,NOT HIS,,,be seductive,,vague,,and caring,,,yet reflect a shyness and a small fear as you both really don't know each other that well yet?
Do it when you feel you have nothing to worry about...and messenger never worked for me to go to,,as i just HATE totype,,when I could be in a real conversation? But maybe it might be good with him?
Good luck and keep um guessing,,,,,

nothing like a good ole' pep talk from iam4u!lol

A number is a personal thing. I know. They used to call me a bogarter. I used to know this dude. He was a chain toker. He would be rolling one; passing one and toking one. He got so good and so fast at rolling that there would be seven coming back at him. He just amazed me. He could roll them left handed, right handed and even backwards. He reminded me of that song, "Ricky, don't lose that number. Its the only one I own. But it will be ready when you get back home." I always thought a good number should be savored but then I don't live in the fast lane any more.

So do you like Steely Dan?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rbIIwH9VsjM

I think the edit button has become my favorite friend.

back in my day,,I had a friend who could roll a joint on his tongue,,he'd wipe his tongue off well,,then place the paper on it,,spread the weed on it,,and curl his tongue back and in about one minute,,a perfect doobie came through his lips,,,,it was a sight,,,,

DAMN,,,,I'm feeling like grampa 4 U here,,,lol
HEY DAMN IT,,,,,You are SPECIAL if I give you advice,,,

He wants your phone number so soon? Sounds like he has sex addict written all over him.

To be addicted to sex. That must be a horrible disease. I pity the fool.

I bet he doesn't bite any hand that feeds him, so to speak.

Asking for a phone number means he's a sex addict?