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Topic: Should love ever give up?
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Fri 09/09/11 04:09 PM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 09/09/11 04:20 PM
I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them. Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you

lilott's photo
Fri 09/09/11 04:27 PM
Love is overrated.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Fri 09/09/11 04:32 PM
i think looking for love is a waste of time... you'll find someone, they'll tell you they love you... they'll tell you EVERYTHING you want to hear... then they'll leave...

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Fri 09/09/11 04:37 PM
Love is not something outside of us to be attained. Loves is created. It can exist even if it's not mutual but in order for the relationship to exist and function effectively it has to be mutual.

When someone hurts me it's easier to let them go. But regardless of anything and everything, I won't stay unless it's mutual.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Fri 09/09/11 04:53 PM
Love
The weakness at heart
The Woe to man
The man to be "Woed"
The needle in our palms
and the feel like nothing other

Love is not just one
Once
Or one time only
Find it again
But not till it finds you

gl

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Fri 09/09/11 05:21 PM
I think there are times when we miss our exes (except for me. I don;t miss any of them really - but I like most ofthem. It's just been so long since I've seen any of them that I got over missing them ages ago - why my "no contact" policy - I am READY baby to move on!!!)

anyway, ya from what I can tell most people sometimes miss exes - except for me

and no love is not always mutual- oh well - unless you can hypnotize them into submission - another disadvantage of online dating - difficult to hypnotize online....

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Sun 09/11/11 01:27 PM

Love is not something outside of us to be attained. Loves is created. It can exist even if it's not mutual but in order for the relationship to exist and function effectively it has to be mutual.

When someone hurts me it's easier to let them go. But regardless of anything and everything, I won't stay unless it's mutual.

Is love really overrated? I believe it does exist and can work if the people involved agrees to make it work

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Sun 09/11/11 01:28 PM
love is a verb. love needs action its not just something you say

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Sun 09/11/11 01:33 PM
Oh yes i like ur poem, find love again, not until it finds you. There's no giving up

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 09/11/11 01:36 PM

love is a verb. love needs action its not just something you say


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Sun 09/11/11 01:46 PM
I married my ex twice. What's that line? Do me once shame on you. Do me twice shame on me.laugh I am so happy that she found someone that she is happy with. She is even on my Facebook. I think her new husband is so good for her. I see her having good times with the kids we had. The love isn't dead. She is just with the person she should have been with to begin with. I really believe she found her soul mate. Its all good.:smile:

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Mon 09/19/11 11:24 PM

love is a verb. love needs action its not just something you say

It's a verb but sometimes it act as a noun....lol, I know someone who is called love

navygirl's photo
Tue 09/20/11 09:32 AM

Love is overrated.


Only if it is for a relationship but not over rated for family and friends. flowerforyou

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Tue 09/20/11 11:27 AM
love grows towards the sun,
lasts through to pouring rain,
waiting through long hours of darkness,
until it finds the sun again.

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Wed 09/21/11 04:52 AM


Love is overrated.


Only if it is for a relationship but not over rated for family and friends. flowerforyou

But should love ever needs to be conditional? Regardless of whoever we're sharing it with

joy4gud's photo
Wed 09/21/11 05:09 AM

love grows towards the sun,
lasts through to pouring rain,
waiting through long hours of darkness,
until it finds the sun again.

nice poem flowerforyou

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Wed 09/21/11 05:45 AM

I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them.

If you truly love them you will let them go.

Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you

due to my little experience in relationships, before your partner will call it quit you already know.
Sometimes, we just hold on to what we know is not there.
Iam tempted to say love don't exist, definitely not for me. happy people love you for what they want to get from you, they love you b'cos of comfort, and once they gets better one out there their "love" change.
So i don't bother my head over a lost relationship, i just conclude i could not meet your need. flowerforyou

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Wed 09/21/11 06:00 AM


I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them.

If you truly love them you will let them go.

Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you

due to my little experience in relationships, before your partner will call it quit you already know.
Sometimes, we just hold on to what we know is not there.
Iam tempted to say love don't exist, definitely not for me. happy people love you for what they want to get from you, they love you b'cos of comfort, and once they gets better one out there their "love" change.
So i don't bother my head over a lost relationship, i just conclude i could not meet your need. flowerforyou

It was never love in the first place, if it was love it wouldn't turn out that way. Most people mistaken other kind of emotional feelings (infatuation, crush, lust,etc) for love, at the end they say love don't exist or is wicked. Love is unconditional to me, and it doesn't have to be mutual

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Wed 09/21/11 06:28 AM



I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them.

If you truly love them you will let them go.

Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you

due to my little experience in relationships, before your partner will call it quit you already know.
Sometimes, we just hold on to what we know is not there.
Iam tempted to say love don't exist, definitely not for me. happy people love you for what they want to get from you, they love you b'cos of comfort, and once they gets better one out there their "love" change.
So i don't bother my head over a lost relationship, i just conclude i could not meet your need. flowerforyou

It was never love in the first place, if it was love it wouldn't turn out that way. Most people mistaken other kind of emotional feelings (infatuation, crush, lust,etc) for love, at the end they say love don't exist or is wicked. Love is unconditional to me, and it doesn't have to be mutual

i think we are saying the samething, poeple can't meetup when it comes to LOVE. happy

navygirl's photo
Wed 09/21/11 05:33 PM



Love is overrated.


Only if it is for a relationship but not over rated for family and friends. flowerforyou

But should love ever needs to be conditional? Regardless of whoever we're sharing it with


Just my way of saying that I wouldn't waste me effort falling in love with anyone but certainy would give love unconditionally to family and friends.

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