Topic: Do you have the guts...?????
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Fri 08/26/11 06:23 PM

I think most people are scared of the initial phases of dating and relationships more than fearing too much to fall in love.

Not everybody's the same but I think I can speak for many people when I say that it becomes difficult to BEGIN relationships when you're closed up or have had a recent unhealthy, painful or tumultuous relationship.

Hell, Ive been on this for weeks now and not one person has said hello to me out of the blue and out of the women I have written an introductory email to, two wrote back and both were up to no good, obviously not being serious. Maybe just kids fooling around or fake profiles, idk, but here's the same old junk with simply trying to begin a conversation. It used to be pretty simple, is everybody THAT paranoid and damaged?


Ive had terrible things done to me in a couple relationships and I wasnt always the best I could be but Im definitely not going to throw away a new chance out of fear.



Sad.


laugh I think I must need glasses

at first I read that as

"I think people seem to be just plain afraid of FUN or GUINESS these days!!" (as in stout)


well that's where my mind is and seeing you're irish and allslaphead drinker laugh

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Fri 08/26/11 06:26 PM
I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..

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Fri 08/26/11 06:31 PM


I am soooooooooo ready. I'm not afraid regardless of the past. Each day is a new beginning, and all I need is a man who is unafraid too.


I like your attitude. This is so important.

You cant live life through your rearview mirror. I always live by the motto "Today is the beginning of the rest of my life?" haha. However it goes. When i was younger, i was kidnapped and assualted as a very young child, my parents became deceased as a result and I had no choice to but to look up in life.

Live with ambition and hope and you will find joy and happiness. Everyday is a new beginning. We cant change the past but we can control the future by our decisions emotionally..


glad u r here toughie:heart: {{{{hugs}}}}

krupa's photo
Fri 08/26/11 07:54 PM

I think most people are scared of the initial phases of dating and relationships more than fearing too much to fall in love.

Not everybody's the same but I think I can speak for many people when I say that it becomes difficult to BEGIN relationships when you're closed up or have had a recent unhealthy, painful or tumultuous relationship.

Hell, Ive been on this for weeks now and not one person has said hello to me out of the blue and out of the women I have written an introductory email to, two wrote back and both were up to no good, obviously not being serious. Maybe just kids fooling around or fake profiles, idk, but here's the same old junk with simply trying to begin a conversation. It used to be pretty simple, is everybody THAT paranoid and damaged?


Ive had terrible things done to me in a couple relationships and I wasnt always the best I could be but Im definitely not going to throw away a new chance out of fear.

I think people seem to be just plain afraid of FUN or GENUINENESS these days!!

Sad.


You have posted three times among the active people...If you really got it all figured out after three tries....

Who am I kidding?...you ain't got if figured out by a long shot.

Hang out and have another Guinenessesses. You might accidentally meet some pretty cool people.

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Fri 08/26/11 07:57 PM


I think most people are scared of the initial phases of dating and relationships more than fearing too much to fall in love.

Not everybody's the same but I think I can speak for many people when I say that it becomes difficult to BEGIN relationships when you're closed up or have had a recent unhealthy, painful or tumultuous relationship.

Hell, Ive been on this for weeks now and not one person has said hello to me out of the blue and out of the women I have written an introductory email to, two wrote back and both were up to no good, obviously not being serious. Maybe just kids fooling around or fake profiles, idk, but here's the same old junk with simply trying to begin a conversation. It used to be pretty simple, is everybody THAT paranoid and damaged?


Ive had terrible things done to me in a couple relationships and I wasnt always the best I could be but Im definitely not going to throw away a new chance out of fear.

I think people seem to be just plain afraid of FUN or GENUINENESS these days!!

Sad.


You have posted three times among the active people...If you really got it all figured out after three tries....

Who am I kidding?...you ain't got if figured out by a long shot.

Hang out and have another Guinenessesses. You might accidentally meet some pretty cool people.


It's a valid point. I've posted 30,000 times, and I'm as dumb as I was when I started....!!

shades

txmomof2's photo
Fri 08/26/11 07:58 PM

I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?

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Sat 08/27/11 01:18 AM


I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?
it depends...

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:19 AM



I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?
it depends...


on?????

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Sat 08/27/11 01:25 AM




I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?
it depends...


on?????
what love looks like whoa

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:28 AM





I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?
it depends...


on?????
what love looks like whoa
slaphead

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Sat 08/27/11 01:32 AM






I think I'll pass. been there and all that crap. butt, if love jumped up and bit me on the azz I'd give it a shot..


is that you would shoot the biter or give it a drink?
it depends...


on?????
what love looks like whoa
slaphead
well...ohwell

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:35 AM


well...ohwell


what if love looked like me

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Sat 08/27/11 01:37 AM



well...ohwell


what if love looked like me
then love would look to young, so I'd have to shoot it...

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:40 AM




well...ohwell


what if love looked like me
then love would look to young, so I'd have to shoot it...


what if it looked like krupa?

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Sat 08/27/11 01:42 AM





well...ohwell


what if love looked like me
then love would look to young, so I'd have to shoot it...


what if it looked like krupa?
that aint gonna happen laugh

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:44 AM






well...ohwell


what if love looked like me
then love would look to young, so I'd have to shoot it...


what if it looked like krupa?
that aint gonna happen laugh
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Sat 08/27/11 01:49 AM







well...ohwell


what if love looked like me
then love would look to young, so I'd have to shoot it...


what if it looked like krupa?
that aint gonna happen laugh
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
sorry Krupa laugh

txmomof2's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:54 AM
oops

msharmony's photo
Sat 08/27/11 01:57 AM
I dont know

I dont know if I dont have the guts, or if I dont have the energy

or if I have just completely forgotten how....laugh

winterblue56's photo
Sat 08/27/11 05:20 AM


I am soooooooooo ready. I'm not afraid regardless of the past. Each day is a new beginning, and all I need is a man who is unafraid too.


I like your attitude. This is so important.

You cant live life through your rearview mirror. I always live by the motto "Today is the beginning of the rest of my life?" haha. However it goes. When i was younger, i was kidnapped and assualted as a very young child, my parents became deceased as a result and I had no choice to but to look up in life.

Live with ambition and hope and you will find joy and happiness. Everyday is a new beginning. We cant change the past but we can control the future by our decisions emotionally..


That's nice Simone. I'm sad for your past and sorry for your loss. I'm happy that you became a better person through all that. flowerforyou