Topic: Are you happy?
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Wed 08/10/11 10:00 AM





For me, yes and no.
Yes b'cos am making some money from it.
No b'cos it is not where i want to be.


Where do you want to be?

i want to be married and have my kids, then whatever iam doing i wil know iam doing it for somebody. Now it's just me and me alone frustrated


Are you one of those people who thinks that getting married/being with someone will automatically make you happy? If you're not happy on your own, it's probably not going to automatically happen just because you're with someone.

iam just hoping, but two good heads are better then one.


I hope you find what you're looking for. :smile:

ybcat1's photo
Wed 08/10/11 10:44 AM

Are you happy with your life as it is right now?

If not, how come? Are you doing anything to make yourself happier?




I'm happy with my life as it is now. Sure there's room always for growth in certain areas, which I work on all the time. When ever I go into one of those oh, woe is me pity party types of moods I try to remember there is someone worse off than I am. Just looking at all the things that are going on in the world now makes me count my blessings. But when ever I'm unhappy about any given situation I'm in I always try and find a positive way to solve it some way or other.


joy4gud's photo
Wed 08/10/11 12:46 PM






For me, yes and no.
Yes b'cos am making some money from it.
No b'cos it is not where i want to be.


Where do you want to be?

i want to be married and have my kids, then whatever iam doing i wil know iam doing it for somebody. Now it's just me and me alone frustrated


Are you one of those people who thinks that getting married/being with someone will automatically make you happy? If you're not happy on your own, it's probably not going to automatically happen just because you're with someone.

iam just hoping, but two good heads are better then one.


I hope you find what you're looking for. :smile:

thank you :smile:

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Wed 08/10/11 01:51 PM
I'm happy but I'll be much happier next march.....RETIREMENT :banana:

soufiehere's photo
Wed 08/10/11 01:53 PM

I'm happy but I'll be much happier
next march.....RETIREMENT :banana:

That's not just 4 new tires is it?
And you misunderstood?
Again..

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Wed 08/10/11 01:55 PM


I'm happy but I'll be much happier
next march.....RETIREMENT :banana:

That's not just 4 new tires is it?
And you misunderstood?
Again..
nO !!
huh?
agin..

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Wed 08/10/11 02:27 PM

I am a happy person.
Always have been.
While many bad things have happened
in my life, as everyone's, I think
I have the mourning period down.
I mourn it (whatever it was) then
a new day starts, with all of its
possibilities.

However your disposition, happiness
is simply not dependent upon anyone
except yourself.

Take the blame, take the glory.
Live it like it matters.




beautiful!

Sometimes I think you and a few others here should put together a book of wisdom.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:43 PM



I'm happy but I'll be much happier
next march.....RETIREMENT :banana:

That's not just 4 new tires is it?
And you misunderstood?
Again..
nO !!
huh?
agin..

You shouldn't sell your meds.
They keep you happy.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:47 PM
I just realized I am always happy. Does that count??


Disclaimer: Except when congress is in session.

no photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:51 PM




I'm happy but I'll be much happier
next march.....RETIREMENT :banana:

That's not just 4 new tires is it?
And you misunderstood?
Again..
nO !!
huh?
agin..

You shouldn't sell your meds.
They keep you happy.
I nO bigsmile

newarkjw's photo
Wed 08/10/11 02:53 PM
My great aunt Gracie always said to be happy if you have chickens in the barn. I don't have no barn or no damn chickens.......smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 08/10/11 04:16 PM
My belly is full.

I have a roof over my head

and a big screen television.

What is there not to be happy about?

delilady's photo
Wed 08/10/11 04:19 PM

My belly is full.

I have a roof over my head

and a big screen television.

What is there not to be happy about?
But do you have beer, ice cream and cookies?

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 08/10/11 04:23 PM


My belly is full.

I have a roof over my head

and a big screen television.

What is there not to be happy about?
But do you have beer, ice cream and cookies?


As a matter of fact I do.

But she was asking about happiness not ecstasy.

axl_rose40's photo
Thu 08/11/11 01:34 AM

Are you happy with your life as it is right now?

If not, how come? Are you doing anything to make yourself happier?


I am happy most of the time because I try to look at the brighter side of every aspect of my life. Yes, I have some "down time" but I share laughters with my loved ones during those times. For me, laughter releases my mind from depression and turns it toward goals,dreams, and triumphs.

It also helps me thinking that my God is always there helping me face every challenge I got making me a better person each time.

josie68's photo
Thu 08/11/11 03:20 AM
Edited by josie68 on Thu 08/11/11 03:21 AM
Yes, I am very happy.
Always have been, and dont ever want to change.
There are things in my life I need and could use,
There are people I would like here not in America.

But I love life, and every little bump just makes the ride a little more fun.
:wink:

If I ever stop smiling I hope its because i am dead and the worms have eaten me, cause I dont plan on stopping for any other reason

illumastorm's photo
Thu 08/11/11 06:25 AM
50/50, the good seems to level out the bad, but right now it's bad and i hope the future will turn to good. i keep getting up every day and doing what i can to try to make it good so i guess that counts. still somedays are bad and ready to throw it all away.

navygirl's photo
Fri 08/12/11 10:18 PM
Nope, not happy with life but I guess things could be worse. Just wish I could find a good paying and challenging job and wish people would stop pestering me to have a man in my life. grumble

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Sat 08/13/11 12:00 AM
I'm pretty dag gone snappie happy thanks!

winterblue56's photo
Sun 08/14/11 07:58 PM
Happiness IS a state of mind...and always changing and reshaping itself. God reminds us to look 'inwardly' ...not 'outwardly' for that state of mind.


"THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS IS TO MAKE OTHERS BELIEVE THEY ARE THE CAUSE OF IT"

"HAPPINESS IS A JOURNEY...NOT A DESTINATION"