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Topic: Do you put in the effort?
krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 08/01/11 06:15 PM
Besides..you will be in New York. If you really want to get laid, there are hookers everywhere. Remember...you ain't paying for sex. You pay for them to leave after the sex. :)

Alibobs Joined Wed 01/05/11 Posts: 32	Mon 08/01/11 06:28 PM
hehe funny...I didn't understand a word of that command except for foreign shores.....I think you may be quoting English from the 1800's and thanks for your comments....takes more than one bloke to keep me down ;)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 08/01/11 08:35 PM
Don't blame me that you can't speak the Queen's English. She is hot too....I would do her.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 08/02/11 12:02 AM
my current situation only allows the online friendship Until I am 'legally' divorced, I dont wish to risk putting myself or anyone else in a situation of temptation. But I do believe the best relationships HAVE to start off from great friendships,, so its still a 'potential' start to something beautiful in the future,,,

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10912	Tue 08/02/11 12:19 AM
When you find someone on here, or similar sites, do you put in the effort to actually meet them? Or, do you prefer to keep it to online friendship/relationship instead? This could be for friends you've met here, or for someone you're interested in as more than friends. I have many wonderful friends I have made on here, that were just too far away for anything more than friendship. If they were closer or I traveled their direction I would love to meet them, just to give them a hug and tell them thanks for all the great conversations and their freidnships. I think any good relationship starts as friendship. Like the old saying goes "Love is frienship that has caught fire. I have recently found (Well he found me)a man I get along great with and things are going quite well.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 08/02/11 06:01 PM
my current situation only allows the online friendship Until I am 'legally' divorced, I dont wish to risk putting myself or anyone else in a situation of temptation. But I do believe the best relationships HAVE to start off from great friendships,, so its still a 'potential' start to something beautiful in the future,,, Wait a damned minute? You are "FORBIDDEN" fruit? How tempting is THAT? Why not just put on a T-shirt with a target on it?!?!?!~?!?!

mbcasey Joined Wed 02/14/07 Posts: 1805	Tue 08/02/11 06:11 PM
Met many and they were all very nice.

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Tue 08/02/11 06:14 PM
"Love is frienship that has caught fire." I love that!

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Tue 08/02/11 06:15 PM
my current situation only allows the online friendship Until I am 'legally' divorced, I dont wish to risk putting myself or anyone else in a situation of temptation. But I do believe the best relationships HAVE to start off from great friendships,, so its still a 'potential' start to something beautiful in the future,,, Wait a damned minute? You are "FORBIDDEN" fruit? How tempting is THAT? Why not just put on a T-shirt with a target on it?!?!?!~?!?!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 08/02/11 06:17 PM
Sure, the wench who is laughing teases us with her toes.......

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Tue 08/02/11 06:17 PM
I ain't kidding. She is fine and seriously likes em short dark and swarthy.... Your sister is very pretty.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 08/02/11 06:57 PM
I ain't kidding. She is fine and seriously likes em short dark and swarthy.... Your sister is very pretty. I know! if she wasn't related to me I woulda put "the Moves" on her years ago! You ain't related to me are you?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Tue 08/02/11 07:34 PM
When you find someone on here, or similar sites, do you put in the effort to actually meet them? Or, do you prefer to keep it to online friendship/relationship instead? This could be for friends you've met here, or for someone you're interested in as more than friends. Put in the effort? Why should I when no local woman wants me to?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/02/11 08:55 PM
When you find someone on here, or similar sites, do you put in the effort to actually meet them? Or, do you prefer to keep it to online friendship/relationship instead? This could be for friends you've met here, or for someone you're interested in as more than friends. Put in the effort? Why should I when no local woman wants me to? How's that attitude working for ya?

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Wed 08/03/11 04:04 AM
I want to meet everyone, but everyone i talk to is sooooo far away, but when I am in America next time, i am going to meet as many people as i possibly can... Hmmm might have to just pick a city each week and have everyone who lives there meet me somewhere.. but not the great big towns..LA was humungus, hmmm maybe I will just meet peole in the airports then I wont get lost. Hmmmm and as for puttingin the effort if I liked someone, and thought they where for me... Definately I would travel for miles and miles for that... OH WAIT I did.. And it was definately worth it..

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Wed 08/03/11 04:08 AM
He sure did.....still in shock over it but hey...that's life I guess. I just wish there was a beach near by ...I could have chilled out there everyday and recharged my batteries. Now I guess I'll just have to put the effort in and shop in NYC all day, every day DTHRomeo is in jersey. maybe you can met up with him instead. he is a super cool dude and will probably be more than happy to show you around. send him a message girl http://mingle2.com/user/view/165162 I know this Dude! Are you sure you know him

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 08/07/11 10:48 AM
When you find someone on here, or similar sites, do you put in the effort to actually meet them? Or, do you prefer to keep it to online friendship/relationship instead? This could be for friends you've met here, or for someone you're interested in as more than friends. if they ask to meet I will - usually - not always. I have to believe there is the possibilty of something developing before I agree to meet, and to continue dating- I must also believe in that possibility the men I have met online who live a distance - it has stayed an online thing I try not to set hard & fast rules...just take things as they come

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Sun 08/07/11 11:48 AM
I have met a few people on here.As friends or for romance. As far as romance goes. Most definitely I could not stand the idea of missing out on something beautiful weather its across the street or cross the country.

exxman Joined Tue 08/02/11 Posts: 468	Sun 08/07/11 11:55 AM Edited by exxman on Sun 08/07/11 11:57 AM
I have not met anyone from here since i have not been here but for under a week. How ever i have known people from other venues where i have met them, and still have friendships with them today. So yes i am willing to meet someone if that is where the road lead's us too. Woo Hoo Krupa's sister

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sun 08/07/11 01:56 PM
I haven't found it to be an effort....I have found it to be the opposite....effortless...because it is what both of us want. Logistics are the same irregardless of going off to visit a lifelong friend, or a potential new one...the word effort feels like it is a chore, or hard work...not my thing at all...when meeting new people.