I don't want to be married period, whether it's to the right or wrong person, and I sure the hell don't want to be unhappy, in marriage or otherwise, so I guess I'll choose the alternative.

Actually, for me it's an easy choice since I have plenty of experience with being single and I'm quite comfortable with it (I've been alone most of the last 17 years!). I don't need a husband to feel complete and I don't think being single for life necessitates being lonely for life. I have family, friends, and my pets to keep me company so bouts of loneliness are usually short-lived at most. I'd be happy to find a man to care about, to spend time with, and to screw the hell out of, but marriage isn't an option for me personally. I'm pretty sure a silly piece of paper doesn't make two people love each other more. Commitment to a relationship comes from the heart, not from the state! I'll be single for life most definitely, but I highly doubt I'll be lonely for life.

And so it goes in my little world...

I would rather be single than married and unhappy. at least being single I can date and have male companionship when I want ...

Yeah, me too!! NON OF THE ABOVE!!! haha!! what the heck!!! I rather shovel and get ready for my grave!!!

I rather live under a freeway bridge than live in a loveless marriage.

are u sure that is what u truly want