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Would you like to be married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage at the sametime.Or would you prefer to be single and remain lonely all your life without getting married |
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Loneliness FTW
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Where has everyone's posts gone? I wouldn't choose either. It would make no sense.
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Edited by
Totage
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Mon 07/18/11 03:26 PM
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NVM, misread lol
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I'm glad I met a great gal and got married! We had many wonderful years (decades) together before it fell apart.
To have never had that - no way! 90% of it all was wonderful! Right now, I'd prefer a partner! But I'm also finding surprising relative comfort going solo. I think after one of these crushing blows to the soul one has to let time do its magic, and see if trust and the ability to give your all to another is still possible. So to answer your original question - in my case, my partner was only "the wrong person" for a relatively short time, and so much good came for the relationship I could never wish for anything different, only a better ending to "us". "'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all." - Tennyson FantasyArtMan |
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I'm glad I met a great gal and got married! We had many wonderful years (decades) together before it fell apart. To have never had that - no way! 90% of it all was wonderful! Right now, I'd prefer a partner! But I'm also finding surprising relative comfort going solo. I think after one of these crushing blows to the soul one has to let time do its magic, and see if trust and the ability to give your all to another is still possible. So to answer your original question - in my case, my partner was only "the wrong person" for a relatively short time, and so much good came for the relationship I could never wish for anything different, only a better ending to "us". "'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all." - Tennyson FantasyArtMan Agree! It is always nice to be able to give it a try than not at all and wonder about it all your life. |
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Edited by
Spidercmb
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Tue 07/19/11 06:44 AM
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"'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all." - Tennyson Owner of a lonely heart Much better than a Owner of a broken heart It's your move, FantasyArtMan. |
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Why would someone choose either one?
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"'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all." - Tennyson Owner of a lonely heart Much better than a Owner of a broken heart It's your move, FantasyArtMan. Haha! Love the refs, Spidercmb! And a good point as well. Nothing too grand about a broken heart! But at the risk of carrying a broken heart through life (albatross!), I wouldn't give up all the majesty and wonders of being deeply in love - even if it was a only a dream - oh what a lovely dream, while it lasts! On the otherhand, let's see how long this broken heart stuff lasts! Maybe I'm underestimating the true pain... FantasyArtMan |
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I'm glad I met a great gal and got married! We had many wonderful years (decades) together before it fell apart. To have never had that - no way! 90% of it all was wonderful! Right now, I'd prefer a partner! But I'm also finding surprising relative comfort going solo. I think after one of these crushing blows to the soul one has to let time do its magic, and see if trust and the ability to give your all to another is still possible. So to answer your original question - in my case, my partner was only "the wrong person" for a relatively short time, and so much good came for the relationship I could never wish for anything different, only a better ending to "us". "'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all." - Tennyson FantasyArtMan Agree! It is always nice to be able to give it a try than not at all and wonder about it all your life. |
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holy cow-neither is a good choice!
and I feel like i'm living both of them! 
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Is better you try and see what is out there than wondering. I loved once and he was my first lover and end up heart broken, I gave him 100% we had a good time with crazy love that was 3yrs ago but I still love him any time I try to love someone I always see his picture in my face, whenever I try to think about someone he stack in my thoughts, when I try to kiss someone he comes in my mind and stop before my lips goes, when I try to touch or someone else to touch me I stop before my fingers or his fingers touch. He is stuck in my life what can for him to get him out of my mind? we have a little girl together and I am like I live with him. He lives in me without being with me.
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Would you like to be married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage at the sametime.Or would you prefer to be single and remain lonely all your life without getting married First of all, I don't think marriage is a requirement to avoid loneliness. Having said that, I WAS married to the wrong person, and I will never get married again. So, given the choices you've presented, I will have to go with the latter. |
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Would you like to be married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage at the sametime.Or would you prefer to be single and remain lonely all your life without getting married i dont think i can stand unhappy marriage. but did rather try nd share my experance then imagine it 4d rest of my life |
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Would you like to be married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage at the sametime.Or would you prefer to be single and remain lonely all your life without getting married First of all, I don't think marriage is a requirement to avoid loneliness. Having said that, I WAS married to the wrong person, and I will never get married again. So, given the choices you've presented, I will have to go with the latter. A wise thought again sir. You need your own show. "I don't think marriage is a requirement to avoid loneliness" From what I have heard the majority of people who are married are lonely. Marriage and loneliness are not necessarily connected vs disconnected. I have just recently become serious about marriage again but it has nothing to do with me being lonely. It has everything to do with the act of being in-love. |
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<<< married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage >>>
Living with that situation would be devastating to me...I rather would escape from her..and from home...I would go to forest and will live alone not alone actual...I will have many friends out there...deers, wild cats, butterfly, birds, and trees... |
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Would you like to be married to the wrong person and be unhappy with your marriage at the sametime.Or would you prefer to be single and remain lonely all your life without getting married First of all, I don't think marriage is a requirement to avoid loneliness. Having said that, I WAS married to the wrong person, and I will never get married again. So, given the choices you've presented, I will have to go with the latter. A wise thought again sir. You need your own show. "I don't think marriage is a requirement to avoid loneliness" From what I have heard the majority of people who are married are lonely. Marriage and loneliness are not necessarily connected vs disconnected. I have just recently become serious about marriage again but it has nothing to do with me being lonely. It has everything to do with the act of being in-love. It's true, I was VERY lonely throughout most of my marriage. That was much worse than the last 2 1/2 years being alone. At least now, I can do whatever I want to do, when I want to do it, and no one is trying to turn me into a domesticated farm animal. |
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It's true, I was VERY lonely throughout most of my marriage. That was much worse than the last 2 1/2 years being alone. At least now, I can do whatever I want to do, when I want to do it, and no one is trying to turn me into a domesticated farm animal. I think the forest animal from above is a far more cheerful idear. I would try to turn you into a fine chipmunk. Too many mosquitoes in the forest. And I love chipmunks but they don't do well as authors. |
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It's true, I was VERY lonely throughout most of my marriage. That was much worse than the last 2 1/2 years being alone. At least now, I can do whatever I want to do, when I want to do it, and no one is trying to turn me into a domesticated farm animal. I think the forest animal from above is a far more cheerful idear. I would try to turn you into a fine chipmunk. Too many mosquitoes. I would try to turn you into a mosquito eating chipmunk. Yeah, but do you know how much ketchup it takes to kill the taste of those things? |
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It's true, I was VERY lonely throughout most of my marriage. That was much worse than the last 2 1/2 years being alone. At least now, I can do whatever I want to do, when I want to do it, and no one is trying to turn me into a domesticated farm animal. I think the forest animal from above is a far more cheerful idear. I would try to turn you into a fine chipmunk. Too many mosquitoes. I would try to turn you into a mosquito eating chipmunk. Yeah, but do you know how much ketchup it takes to kill the taste of those things? You and your high maintanence domesticated needs. When you've been through what I've been through, you learn to be very careful about these things....! |
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