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| Topic: How good does it feel to finally quit cryin over that ex! | |
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I am pretty much there, I seee light. I don't know anyone in this State, but I know me! |
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I am over the last one and feels great! No matter how relationships end it always takes time to re group.
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She wasn't an ex, but leaving my best friend was very hard.
We did a lot of caring, and sharing. It hurts when that stops. About over her now. But I gained alot from her, which can never be erased, or taken away. I am a much better person now, thanks to her! :D 
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I didn't cry over my ex as he hit me so was glad he was gone. Well, maybe I cried tears of joy.
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FAN-****-ING-TASTIC!
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Edited by
Alterette
on
Wed 06/29/11 11:42 PM
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It took me a long, long time ... we had three kids together and he was my best friend.
When the smoke cleared, we each realized on our own that we missed each others friendship. We were both smart enough to see it, brave enough to tell each other, kind enough to forgive. Now everyone, especially the kids, are happy. He and his 23 yo daughter, whom I'm still close to, are coming to visit us in October. Feels great. |
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When I embraced the truth of the relationship - what it really was as opposed to what I wanted it to be it was really much easier to let go.
My heart expanded and I could love them more but on a different level. I will wish him well always and be grateful for all that we shared. Many of the experiences were painful but I learned so much about me through them. I am happy you are finding your way through - it is a much more empowered place to live from.... 
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I havent cried over an ex since I was 16...why cry? If its done its DONE!! KAPISH?
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"Cavalier" doesn't suit some....who are ACTUALLY very sensitive.
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We are human and one of our greatest assets is our capacity of emotion. If we aren't feeling, we are cut off from a large part of ourselves. If we can't allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we can't truly allow anyone to love us ... and by default doubt we can fully love others. My motto is feel the pain ... deep and hard ... process the emotion and then move on from a place of gratitude. It is when we try to stuff it or pretend it isn't there that we just prolong the healing. |
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I cried over my last one... tears of relief though... i was like "get out of my apartment, you leech!!
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We are human and one of our greatest assets is our capacity of emotion. If we aren't feeling, we are cut off from a large part of ourselves. If we can't allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we can't truly allow anyone to love us ... and by default doubt we can fully love others. My motto is feel the pain ... deep and hard ... process the emotion and then move on from a place of gratitude. It is when we try to stuff it or pretend it isn't there that we just prolong the healing. Yeah I used to believe what you were saying until my heart not only got ripped out but stomped on. You get to a point in your life that you no longer allow anyone in as its personally not worth putting yourself through anymore pain. |
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I am pretty much there, I seee light. I don't know anyone in this State, but I know me! Try a little bit more and you'll get over it very soon... happy for you 
Hang around the forums and get to know new people. It will help you a lot. Cheers 
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I wish I new how it felt, cause I still am
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Everybody has that "One". Unfortunately for myself, my ex was just that. Only after a few months of not having her in my life did I come to realize that. But I walked out on her, 6 times too many. Not till recently did I understand that I only hurt myself by leaving. Imagine that, I walked out thinking I was hurting her but. . . I wanted her, to be with her and her kids cause I simply liked being with them. . . so who'd I really hurt?
  Gonna be upset for a bit about this one.
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Don't know, hasn't happened yet, I think I rationalized most of em.
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It does feel nice to not cry over an ex, I will admit. But it would be great if they would stop popping up and begging for me to return to them...
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I must admit, a bit of spite sex IS cool!!
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We are human and one of our greatest assets is our capacity of emotion. If we aren't feeling, we are cut off from a large part of ourselves. If we can't allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we can't truly allow anyone to love us ... and by default doubt we can fully love others. My motto is feel the pain ... deep and hard ... process the emotion and then move on from a place of gratitude. It is when we try to stuff it or pretend it isn't there that we just prolong the healing. Yeah I used to believe what you were saying until my heart not only got ripped out but stomped on. You get to a point in your life that you no longer allow anyone in as its personally not worth putting yourself through anymore pain. I hear you and am sorry that happened to you. I've been betrayed, ripped apart, stomped on, financially ruined and taken advantage of too. I still believe what I wrote ... it is truth for me. We each live our own. |
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We are human and one of our greatest assets is our capacity of emotion. If we aren't feeling, we are cut off from a large part of ourselves. If we can't allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we can't truly allow anyone to love us ... and by default doubt we can fully love others. My motto is feel the pain ... deep and hard ... process the emotion and then move on from a place of gratitude. It is when we try to stuff it or pretend it isn't there that we just prolong the healing. Yeah I used to believe what you were saying until my heart not only got ripped out but stomped on. You get to a point in your life that you no longer allow anyone in as its personally not worth putting yourself through anymore pain. I hear you and am sorry that happened to you. I've been betrayed, ripped apart, stomped on, financially ruined and taken advantage of too. I still believe what I wrote ... it is truth for me. We each live our own. Don't get me wrong as I think what you say makes sense. I am glad that you believe in what you wrote and would never tell you not to. Maybe because of my age I am cynical and I kept up that hope for years. I am tired of it all personally but I do wish you well and that you find the true happiness that you deserve. 
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