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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too i agree with u only if she was truly born a lesbian, but i disagree this his situation because i believe her past has made her turn like this. |
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Edited by
Bushidobillyclub
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Mon 06/27/11 02:51 PM
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i have met a couple that have been through the same but it's been going on for 7 years for them and they are happy... wondering if we could last 7 months... wont know til we try. we havent end it yet because we both know it wont end as bad as people think. again, i understand her very well, so if this goes sour, im already prepared for it long before this got this serious. |
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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too i agree with u only if she was truly born a lesbian, but i disagree this his situation because i believe her past has made her turn like this. Then she needs HELP... if her past has her that **** ed up, and you care so much about her, help her help herself. |
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Then she needs HELP... Don't we all? 
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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too i agree with u only if she was truly born a lesbian, but i disagree this his situation because i believe her past has made her turn like this. Then she needs HELP... if her past has her that **** ed up, and you care so much about her, help her help herself. the reason y i am still with her is because i want to help her. i told her that if one day i dont see myself of any help for her problems, i wouldnt be by her side. and if she's able to find herself at the end, then i dont care about the outcome. |
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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too i agree with u only if she was truly born a lesbian, but i disagree this his situation because i believe her past has made her turn like this. It could be.. but if that were the case that just becouse of past exsperience.. i would have the right to "bobbit" every male I see.. I am frankly sick of hereing people say well you cant hold me acountable becouse of what happened in the past... I have seeen to many people use that excuse to be selfish and do what they want |
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well i dont think u would think the same for our situation if u knew everything imru2
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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too i agree with u only if she was truly born a lesbian, but i disagree this his situation because i believe her past has made her turn like this. It could be.. but if that were the case that just becouse of past exsperience.. i would have the right to "bobbit" every male I see.. I am frankly sick of hereing people say well you cant hold me acountable becouse of what happened in the past... I have seeen to many people use that excuse to be selfish and do what they want We are all a product of our past..it doesn't give anyone the 'right' to do 'bad' things, it is however, a reason for some behaviors. He is younger than my oldest son, I'm going to go out on a limb and say she is prolly close in age. That means she is still very young and can get help working through her sexual issues. She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. |
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Just my take on this.. but I see no differnce that if this was a man saying I can't leave my wife..for what ever reason.. but I want a mistress too.. and the fact that she can have intrest outside the bedroom but you can't is like having her cake and the iceing too That would cause me to have serious trust issues with myself much less someone else. My hat is off to people who could accomplish that. It was cool when I found that out though. It did shut me down for three days when it happened and it was just Online that it happened. It was like, wow, I still have some morals. It helped me to define my own limitations. For me the marriage was soon dissolved by us both because we realize there really wasn't a marriage. Because we both had grown different to each other. I would say we both had a perfect indifference to each other. She was able to find someone more like her and I found someone more like me. They are still doing great. |
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She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! |
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well i dont think u would think the same for our situation if u knew everything imru2 you are right there I dont know the whole thing.. if it is problems from her past she does need help.. going out to have sex with whom ever will not do it for her.. and neither will useing you for a crutch or safety net... |
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when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! Sounds like the quintessential co-dependant relationship to me. Who knows? Sometimes these things just have a way of working themselves out. |
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This could be a dream come true if you play it right. My rule of thumb in this is if she wants yo to share her with another women she has to be able to share her with you! Now I am not saying you should swing but one guy and two women when it works right can be the SHIZZNIT!
NOW FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO CALL ME A PIG... good for the goose, good for the gander. Some women like to have more than one guy. It is all about personal taste and how one plays into their relationships. For all concerned: Be careful you don't bite off more than you can chew! 
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She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! I wont go into detail, but a lot of us have had horrible things happen to us.. but its up to us to make sure that even though we were victimized that we don't stay the victim.. What she is doing now may seem harmless but what will this behavior escalate to if she doesnt reach for help now? I can't speak for anyone but myself.. but I know what it took for me to feel all right within myself.. |
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when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! Sounds like the quintessential co-dependant relationship to me. Who knows? Sometimes these things just have a way of working themselves out. quintessential co-dependent? the heck? lol im a marine... not that bright |
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She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! Went through that with my wife that passed away. She wasn't lesbian and she wouldn't even let me fight for her. She said it was her fight and she some how managed to find some inner strength because I was actually starting to feel sorry for the guy after a while. I got her out of that environment and we were very happy till she passed away. |
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She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! Went through that with my wife that passed away. She wasn't lesbian and she wouldn't even let me fight for her. She said it was her fight and she some how managed to find some inner strength because I was actually starting to feel sorry for the guy after a while. I got her out of that environment and we were very happy till she passed away. this is turning really deep... been helping.... |
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wait wait wait, she says she's ok at the fact that i should find some other girl to mess around with, just not a threesome. she says if we do go with a threesome, i do her and i cant touch the other girl, but if i go on a date with someone, she'll be ok with it. (she doesnt know that for sure, she thinks it can go both ways. seems the last thing you two need is to involve other people your dysfunctional sexual relationship... |
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wait wait wait, she says she's ok at the fact that i should find some other girl to mess around with, just not a threesome. she says if we do go with a threesome, i do her and i cant touch the other girl, but if i go on a date with someone, she'll be ok with it. (she doesnt know that for sure, she thinks it can go both ways. seems the last thing you two need is to involve other people your dysfunctional sexual relationship... [/quote good point... but it's ok if the third party knows everything... that couple of 7 years i talked about the first page, we are meeting up with them for dinner this weekend. hopefully get some answers this weekend |
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She could have had terrible things happen to her, you don't know. when i think about all the terrible things that happened in her life, it just makes me want to grab my guns and kill every single ****ing damn horny lame-excuse-for a man out there! Went through that with my wife that passed away. She wasn't lesbian and she wouldn't even let me fight for her. She said it was her fight and she some how managed to find some inner strength because I was actually starting to feel sorry for the guy after a while. I got her out of that environment and we were very happy till she passed away. this is turning really deep... been helping.... We thank you for sharing. 
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