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Topic: Don't Fool Yourself, Lying is Best! So I've been seeing this girl for a while, and alas, I've found someone better (for me), and I don't have much time to break it off with her. She's a real sweet girl, and I consequently just can't bring myself to be honest for the sake of her feelings. So my question is: What can I tell her to end it? Any suggestions?! It seems that you have made the decision of lying to this girl for the sake of her feelings. Okay, I now know that I am not in the position to ask you to tell the truth because you refused to accept this suggestion. Now, since you seem to be adamant in telling a lie and as you've said you don't have much time to do the usual thing with her, how about telling her that you think you don't deserve her because she is too good for you since you just found out you are a prick. Kind of help her realize you aren't really someone she thought you are. Mind you, I say this without any intention to be sarcastic. You are being true and I am trying to be. |
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This is not rocket science. Honest doesn't mean "hey you are stupid so I'm outta here". Personal attacks are quite unnecessary and frankly speak more about the person making them than the person they are supposed to be about. Honour the time you shared and the woman that she is by being truthful. The truth is that you don't feel enough of a connection on enough levels to see this relationship moving forward. The truth is that you probably rushed into it because you thought she was hot and pursued a physical relationship before you had any clue if you wanted an intellectual or an emotional one with her. The truth is that you you both want and deserve to be happy...it just isn't going to be together. Now man up and be honest with her. She deserves that. Artgurl: 
Artgurl is totally right. You owe it to her to not play games with her, not deceive her, and also to not be needlessly hurtful. ((Massagetrade)) Long time no see
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Ouch, Get it over with, ASAP. it's painful either way...
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Edited by
Beachfarmer
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Fri 07/01/11 11:03 AM
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Oh my GOSH.....YOU ARE SUCH AN OPPORTUNISTIC PIG!
(edit.....the laugh...inappropriate) sorry..had to be said .....as quickly, honestly, and indeed as "kindly" as possible |
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