If a man runs over a woman or a woman runs over a man I guarantee you neither one of them understands love. I wonder how many people besides me have had relationships that didn't argue? You guys are scaring me.

Disagreeing is a beautiful thing if we are united but arguing is for the birds. If you argue that means your having a hard time dealing with the other person having an opinion right? Or have I been living in a fairytale all of my life?

I hope you realize I'm not talking about bad moods or discussions. I'm talking about honoring the other person and their values equal to your own.

When I hear someone say passive I automatically think passive on one side and aggressive on the other. If this is true and I'm not missing something please give me passive.

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U ARE HILARIOUS LOL

BUT YEA, I'D SAY IT WAS A HARD TIME EXCEPTING EACH OTHERS OPINION. HE SAYS I JUST DON'T GET IT OR UNDERSTAND. BUT HECK, I DO NOW!!!!!! HOPE HE FINDS WHAT HE'S LOOKN FOR, MAYBE HE CAN FINALLY BE HAPPY!!!

you'll likely get better answers to your question if you don't provide an answer yourself. the question was best ended at "Why is it that some men want a PASSIVE woman?" jeez.

I want someone balanced. The whole, yin-yang thing. Sometimes it's good to be passive, sometimes aggressive for both of us.

Now, where's that riding crop!

I guess we all own a different meaning to the word "passive". My definition of passive is NOT someone who gets walked over, but someone who has the confidence and knowledge that enables them to remove themselves emotionally from a potentially volatile situation.

I have been with "bulls in china shops" who would unleash their fury over petty things. Friends, Family and co-workers would feel her wrath at any given moment.

-If you want to be seen, Stand up!

-if you want to be heard, Speak up!

-if you want to be appreciated, Shut the f@ck up!

Cheers

well JEEZ...i wanted opinions!!! lighten up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW

oh i stay light. if you want opinions, quit offering your own. but okay, here's my onionated answer to your original question.......NO. not just so they can run over that woman and control her? now did that help???

see, now u being a smart@@@

but i guess...........

whip me and i'll bite

perhaps because there are some women who want to be 'controlled',,,


with much privilege comes much responsibility and some women willingly forego the privilege/responsibilities of decision making and running things

uh oh, someone's getn naughty up in here. hmmm

no offense to anyone, but i think that's why my ex said he wanted a white woman. i think that's why he was hinting at that.

WOW!

this ex was ignorant of the truth,plenty of white women would rip him a new one, and plenty of black women willing to be 'passive' too,, just not for any old joe(myself included)

yea, i know!!!

girl, someone needs to rip him a new one PERIOD lol. dude stepn to me like i'm another dude...i told him u gonna step to me like i'm a dude, then i'ma step to u like u a female. lol this man obviously has problems, i know i have some anger problems cause of things i've been thru.....BUT THIS MAN clearly needs help. BEFORE HE STEP TO THE WRONG ONE AND THEY KILL HIM.

<-------------flower child. Make love not war

Most women are naturally passive and insist men be the aggressors. Women do their best to look good then sit PASSIVELY waiting for the men to approach them and start a conversation.

Moreover, for a relationship to be successful, one partner must be more passive than the other. There must be a leader and a follower. This is well known even in the gay community. However, that doesn't mean the woman must be the passive one in all relationships. On the contrary, I know people that are very happy with the woman being the aggressor in their relationship.

It's my view though that most women want to be passive and have a "real man" that she can respect and look up to. A man that will put her in her place when she acts like a brat. A man that can fight for her honer.

Or, maybe she just likes a spanking once in a while.

not me, cause my ex was ready to hit me if he could. he says some women just need a good slap, WISH HE WOULD. that would be the worse mistake he ever made in his little life.

but i'm just saying, a man shouldn't treat his woman like trash and ready to beat em up when they get in an argument. he wanted someone who don't say anything about anything, just come over and chill. well i hope he finds that woman, cause that's not me. i do have to voice my opinion about what's going on with me and that man. he don't care, all he cared about was smoking and drinking one right after the other, and staying high and playing..........yes this was a grown man in his mid thirties.