If you're letting women talk you out of using a condom, you cannot blame the women solely for what happens next. Use some common sense.

I cant blame the woman for lying about using birth control? I can't blame a woman for pretending to be pregnant?

I cant blame her for talking me out of it but I can blame her for knowingly trying to get pregnant when telling me she is taking all nessicary procautions not to. I blame her for lying. If she said she wasn't taking her birth control I'd of tucked it back in my pants and drove to the store.

I said you can't blame them solely for what happened next. Meaning, you chose not to use a condom. That was your choice.

So if I tell a woman I'm wearing a condom and don't, it's her fault for not being on birth control if she gets pregnant?

You were just whining about a woman lying to you. Why would you do the same? She can also see if you put one on. If you're really worried about pregnancy, the smart thing to do is wear a condom. Take some responsibility for what you chose not to do.

Way to dodge the question.

You're not taking responsibility for what you chose not to do. If she told you she was on birth control and wasn't, that's a sh*tty situation. But, you're able to prevent the pregnancy from happening if you take responsibility into your own hands by wearing a condom. If you don't, then it's the fault of both of you.

Safe sex or abstinence come to mind

Everyone eventually stops using condoms. They get a little expensive when you are having sex with the same person on a semi-daily basis for an extended period of time. She took the responsibility of maintaining birth control to prevent pregnancy, then she chose to stop taking it. I don't see where anything changed on my part to stop her from taking her birth control and preventing the pregnancy.

There's a lot of people who may be adults physically, but mentally and emotionally they are still children. Unfortunately these people are able to reproduce and enter into other adult situations they are not capable of handling.

that's just bad momma jamma mojo right there, lookin4, it happens unfortunately, and like you said, lesson learned.

edit: and totage, just realized that was you , like the new pic!

JUST ""LOOK"" WHAT HAVING SEX HAS DONE TO ALL OF US?


ITS TURNED US AGAINST OUR SELVES,,WE CAN'T KEEP THINKING THAT SEX WILL CURE OUR MINDS AND HEARTS TO FEEL BETTER!


IT CAN'T KEEP GOING ON WITH NO FEELINGS INSIDE TO MAKE IT MORE..

WHY,,,OH WHY DO WE LOVE SEX SO MUCH??

WHY DO WE HAVE TO DO THAT?


Hey,,,get off the freakin soap box and come-back down here ya freakin JERK-OFF,,,

HEY,,YOUR SELF,,WHO YA CALLING A JERK-OFF..

YOU DUDE,,IF THE CONDOM FITS?

WELL I AIN'T NEVER!!!!

YEA,,,THATS WHY SHE CAN SAY OR THINK SHES PREGNANT,,DAHHH

Excuse me for a minute here fellas,,,but I don't believe either of YOU have all the tools to BE what your talking about using








YOUR RIGHT,,,

Where's the REST OF OUR BODIES AT...


maybe we should BOTH just stick to being these little faces and NEVER opening our mouths,,, GREAT IDEA,,,,

aside from the fact that it does take two to…(well, you know) there is also the matter of being responsible for your own actions; whether or not one is being lied to. as the old saying goes, “if you’re not planning against it, you might as well be planning for it.”

perhaps she was trying to “trap” you, for whatever reason, the truth is that you yourself didn’t make sure to prevent it from happening. what you did was take someone’s word for it, bad judgment on your part.

instead of trying to figure out why she, (or anyone would do this) I might look at the reasons you believed her in the first place…ie, (what kind of person did you think she was? how long had you known her? how well did you know her? what kind of relationship did you have before you started having sex? what did each of you hope to get out of the relationship?) from there you may find the real issue here.

I need to insert the applause hands here,,,,ALL very TRUE KC..

I know, huh.
HAWT !!!!

'insert' is poor choice of words given the subject matter T...

I think the delusion is that it buys more time for them to change their partners mind and it gives them something more permanent to bond over than what they may have at the time (sex and 'fun')

KC,,YOU migh have a point there,,,lol

Thanks, it's an old pic.

i hate to point out the obvious T, but someone had to...