Bill

Life and love is a process. To some love comes early to others it comes later. It's OK to let your desires known but in time (sooner or later) you'll develop everything you need for the love journey and everything will start to look a little different. We all form judgments when we are younger and after a while we see that it is different than what we first thought so don't be too hard on yourself and learn from others who have experience.

Keep in mind also that we are older but don't know that we are old. We still have what is young inside of us but with the experience of getting older added to it. It will make more sense to you as you get older too. So enjoy what the ladies and guys have to say about love and look at it as a good thing knowing that they were in your shoes at one time.

There's nothin to say now. Mg1959 said it all.

Appreciate those words mate

and just what is your problem with black ladies ???

I doubt the fact that this person is being ignored has anything to do with the pigmentation of his skin, rather the country he resides.
Nigeria is infamous for scaming americans for money. It is a horribly poor country and using the internet to scam people out of their money in the name of love has literally become careers for many.
I personally will not respond to anyone outside of the United States for this very reason.
Maybe you can call me a racist, however I have no problem whatsoever dating an African-American. But I have no desire to have a relationship with someone in Ireland either.

Nigerians have a bad (yet well earned) reputation for using love and the internet to destroy peoples lives. I personally will pass.

haa, thats so ironic

seriouslyjustsayhi(unless you're nigerian)...lol


she has a point about the reasons people dont respons

in the case of the op, many people dont choose to strike up a relationship with someone they view as still a 'child' looking for something serious before they really know what something serious really entails

many people also dont choose to have a conversation if there seems a very strong language barrier off the bat


,,i wouldnt assume right away that it is your race, and I wouldnt feel so quick to feel defeated


msg always has insightful and beautiful advice,, you should probably take it and look at this as an opportunity to grow and learn about others (and yourself) and maybe make some friends


dont invest so much emotion into one out of a billion websites (sorry mingle2,,lol)

Is this a dating site...

People like who & what they like at different times in their life.
Who & what they like may change several times in a life time.
Love is blind, and open to possibilities.....
Simply be loving, and whoever will find you it's mutual...

If that doesn't work find a mail order bride, that comes with a warranty....

@seriouslyjustsay not every nigerian use internet to scam, is true that some bad nigerian and other people from any country use nigeria as there country to scam on the internet. Those people are bad people, come to nigeria and see how bad there life is now. I have my work why will i scam people.

Very well said

err.. Thanks

what your sayin is somethin that only you know. The fact is that we cant trust anyone on cyber world. Your country's bad image may be the major reason.

@ seriouslyjustsayHi , it is true dat nigerians r known 4 internet scam , but we're far frm being " horribly poor " ... If u were made 2 believe that our Nigeria is so poor as 2 describe it as horribly poor then I must tell u that is another scam ... But I guess u don't know Nigeria ! I believe d world is ever changing n change is d only contant thing in life need I say dat gud people smtimes become bad & bad people can become gud too . I always keep an open mind, I try not 2 judge everybody based on d perspective of a few believing that every human is created 2 be unique n if we look very well we jst might discover d good in people . I am a Nigerian n am proud to be Nigerian.