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I used to be impatient. Then I learned a very awesome bit of slang. "**** it."  It works for everything. Ummmmmmmmm....  he said ****.  Tattletale!   
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krupa
That's your pic? nice |
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Hey Krupa...
you never did post the picture that you said you were doing and using me as a model??? Whats wrong?  Are you afraid it will scare small children.  
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Are you Impatient....I struggle with this... How do we fix it?? Impatience isn't necessarily a bad thing unless it is out of control or negatively affecting you in some way. If it is a problem for you and you're having trouble with it, perhaps try to figure out why it is you are so impatient. |
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I feel I am TOO Patient
but IM not sure if its genuine patience, because IM not sure how to define genuine patience,, I just know I am very slow to anger or any type of negative emotion really, but once someone 'takes me there',, watch out,, |
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I just know I am very slow to anger or any type of negative emotion really, but once someone 'takes me there',, watch out,, What she said. 
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I feel I am TOO Patient but IM not sure if its genuine patience, because IM not sure how to define genuine patience,, I just know I am very slow to anger or any type of negative emotion really, but once someone 'takes me there',, watch out,, That sounds more like tolerance maybe? |
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I feel I am TOO Patient but IM not sure if its genuine patience, because IM not sure how to define genuine patience,, I just know I am very slow to anger or any type of negative emotion really, but once someone 'takes me there',, watch out,, yay, you're the dangerous type.... 
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I feel I am TOO Patient but IM not sure if its genuine patience, because IM not sure how to define genuine patience,, I just know I am very slow to anger or any type of negative emotion really, but once someone 'takes me there',, watch out,, That sounds more like tolerance maybe? ahhh,, tolerance vs patience,,, a great debate topic,,lol |
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I am very impatient... because... I want it ALL...  and I want it NOW!!  Damnit!!  Not gonna happen. At least not in this lifetime.  Im not po!!  Just alittle restless!!  Come on!!! YOur laggin!! 
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I am patient
occasionally I am not but that's the exception - like if I think Ima get in trouble at work or something like that One thing I notice is that sometimes people will try to push patient people to get a reaction, to see "what it takes" to get you to react this is just wrong on so many levels. I just make a note of who these people are and avoid them - that's different than being kept waiting for a genuine reason |
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I'm actually a pretty patient person things don't get to me I can wait for them to happen most of the time.... Well unless it is something I'm really excited about and then just can't wait for it to come together.
I think a lot of times patientence comes from living life and understanding that at times things will happen on their own time not ours. Just learn to reap the rewards when they do hapen..
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Edited by
JOHNN111
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Thu 06/09/11 07:49 AM
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I'm patient... Until I think the person is doing it on purpose to aggravate.
Politically correct or not, my jewish customers seem the most impatient. Please, No offence to anyone here, 2 of my best friends are jewish. That being said, I've asked my jewish friends why it is common for customers to ask a question, NOT wait for a reply or cut you short and ask another question....then ask the original question over again. This rapid fire questioning approach tests my patients to it's limits. I truly feel as if they're mocking me and my business or trying to catch me in some lie or something. The answer I got.... John don't take offence to it, it's just the way we're raised. That helped a little. When you work with the public, it's a constant test of patience and demographic patterns develop over the years and navigating through different nationalities, personalities and beliefs requires extreme patience. |
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I'm a very patient person. I just don't like waiting in line.
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I used to be impatient. Then I learned a very awesome bit of slang. "**** it." It works for everything. I though it went TWO tears in a Bucket, Fukket?  I did not type that the computer did.. 
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I'm patient... Until I think the person is doing it on purpose to aggravate. Politically correct or not, my jewish customers seem the most impatient. Please, No offence to anyone here, 2 of my best friends are jewish. That being said, I've asked my jewish friends why it is common for customers to ask a question, NOT wait for a reply or cut you short and ask another question....then ask the original question over again. This rapid fire questioning approach tests my patients to it's limits. I truly feel as if they're mocking me and my business or trying to catch me in some lie or something. The answer I got.... John don't take offence to it, it's just the way we're raised. That helped a little. When you work with the public, it's a constant test of patience and demographic patterns develop over the years and navigating through different nationalities, personalities and beliefs requires extreme patience. I don't know. But I am Jewish and I'm not like that. I do know people who aren't Jewish who are like that, though. So, I doubt it's a Jewish thing. |
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I'm patient... Until I think the person is doing it on purpose to aggravate. Politically correct or not, my jewish customers seem the most impatient. Please, No offence to anyone here, 2 of my best friends are jewish. That being said, I've asked my jewish friends why it is common for customers to ask a question, NOT wait for a reply or cut you short and ask another question....then ask the original question over again. This rapid fire questioning approach tests my patients to it's limits. I truly feel as if they're mocking me and my business or trying to catch me in some lie or something. The answer I got.... John don't take offence to it, it's just the way we're raised. That helped a little. When you work with the public, it's a constant test of patience and demographic patterns develop over the years and navigating through different nationalities, personalities and beliefs requires extreme patience. I don't know. But I am Jewish and I'm not like that. I do know people who aren't Jewish who are like that, though. So, I doubt it's a Jewish thing. Hey I am jewish too. But I always respect others when I am out in public...I am a courteous customer...I am loud and funny though but never rude to my servants...
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Ahahaha
Loud & funny types (sigh) We couldn't ask for anything better in a customer... for real. |
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Ahahaha Loud & funny types (sigh) We couldn't ask for anything better in a customer... for real. Hey at least I am not rude, besides, who couldnt use a good laugh during their shift....laughter is healthy for ya, u betcha kiddo! Wink wink.(sarah palin) |
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A big part of patience is replacing negative words with possitive ones. Can't, don't, won't, words like these can be replaced with can, do, will. In speaking I have even replaced cuss words and have noticed a big change in my thinking. Not that cuss words are bad, it's just that I was only using them in a bad way. Instead of looking at what we hate about a situation we can look at what we like about it, or what we can learn from it. Ever talk to someone and catch yourself using almost all negative words about a topic, or listening to someone doing the same. Well this has a huge effect on your thinking and actions. I call this my negative/possitive meter. Something I learned in College and I never forgot it. <lol> Replace the word "forget" with "remember". Instead of telling someone "don't forget about our date Saturday"...tell them "remember our date Saturday". A positive sets deeper than a negative
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