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I delivered 3 into this planet!! Then I got tied---woohoo According to some of the men in that thread, that would be a red flag. |
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Well i was with my ex for 12 years...married for ten. It's bound to happen --------
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I delivered 3 into this planet!! Then I got tied---woohoo According to some of the men in that thread, that would be a red flag. Then tie a red flag on me to...  |
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i like the color red...
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Fri 06/10/11 08:28 PM
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 A big part of patience is replacing negative words with possitive ones. Can't, don't, won't, words like these can be replaced with can, do, will. In speaking I have even replaced cuss words and have noticed a big change in my thinking. Not that cuss words are bad, it's just that I was only using them in a bad way. Instead of looking at what we hate about a situation we can look at what we like about it, or what we can learn from it. Ever talk to someone and catch yourself using almost all negative words about a topic, or listening to someone doing the same. Well this has a huge effect on your thinking and actions. I call this my negative/possitive meter. I like the way you think |
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Hi Winter Isn't it wild how that works. It's so true. I've been doing this in front of my suppliers and we have gotten so much more done and the quality is higher as well. Things turn into an issue we can fix instead of just being an issue that keeps cropping up. Some of my folks have turned into real problem solvers as a result. That's great! It's nice to learn something, use it, <when you are using it, you are teaching it as well> and watch people adapt it and use it. It brings a smile to my face 
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So when I get tired of waiting for that so called Phone Call, that so and so says, after work, do I say, He's makin' that money, good for him, or poor guys getting some extra rest, he mustve been tired after work, poor guy, or should i say, He's probably out with someone else, and he said he was going to call, where the hell is he???? Im not gonna wait all night----or am I, because the phone never rang...  I believe it's very disrespectful to not follow through on something you told someone that you "were" going to do. On the other hand, if it was a "I'll try" or "maybe" then there is no point to sit by the phone and wait. If the earlier is the case, then he has no respect...and do you want that in your life? One of my motto's is "do what you say and say what you mean". I'm not excluding "life" in general. Things come up and a phone call to explain is deserving. |
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No, it's a flat out, Im busy with work right now, but I WILL CALL YOU TONIGHT when i get home.
OR I'll TEXT you when i get off.... and then neither happens---this happens a lot with a lot of guys too, not just one in particular...guys in general, either have a short memory span, or very little respect for their friends. Do they treat their guy friends the same as well. if so do the guys friends get mad. I get mad when my girlfriends say they are gonna cruise by after work and dont, or if they say I am going to call you at 8pm and dont, I still get mad. It's not just a CRUSH thing, it's just people who are flakey and selfish----I dont have patience for them. |
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A big part of patience is replacing negative words with possitive ones. Can't, don't, won't, words like these can be replaced with can, do, will. In speaking I have even replaced cuss words and have noticed a big change in my thinking. Not that cuss words are bad, it's just that I was only using them in a bad way. Instead of looking at what we hate about a situation we can look at what we like about it, or what we can learn from it. Ever talk to someone and catch yourself using almost all negative words about a topic, or listening to someone doing the same. Well this has a huge effect on your thinking and actions. I call this my negative/possitive meter. I like the way you think And I love the way he looks. 
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You are way too sweet!!
My ego run-ith over. |
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OH NO...not an over flowing ego!! YIKES!!!!
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You know how us guys are, doesn't take much!!
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yeah..after all, your just a man
hurry, squash the ego before it grows : ) |
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I looked at the jam in my toenail. I'm fine now.
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oh good... whew
did ya take it out? |
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Of course not, I need to learn humility.
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You are way too sweet!! My ego run-ith over. and flow-eth onto thee mingleth! |
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I looked at the jam in my toenail. I'm fine now. ewwww! You ruined any future fantasies, I possibly could've had! |
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Of course not, I need to learn humility. I hear ya... is why I leave my belly button lint |
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