good guys do still exist - im with a really great one now!!

bah u dont want a nice guy so stop your yap yap, i hav never talk about sex or nothing just try to get to know a person n them to know me n they end up ignoring me so shut up w/ the i want a nice guy cuz NONE OF U DO!

well im new here myself but i know for a fact that sex isnt first priority for me the first thing on mylist is to make her happy honestly in my book sex is the last thing to do on the list but only when she realy is ready and yes there are good guys out there still u just have to get past the jerks and idiots that make all us guys look bad

welcome here

the same happens to me too its frustrating..i wish they would not be in such a rush and get to know me not scare me.. so I hear ya

Yes, good guys still do exist. The problem is that most of us good guys that actually treat girls the way they should be treated often ended up losing girls because, while they say they want a good guy, too many actually long to be with a bad guy. Oh well, the right one will eventually come along for all of us.

WTG Go Gator...

Yeah there are good guys out here...

of course we do
at least i think we do
i mean im not imagineing my self
i think?

We are still out there.

Don;t let the jokes or the gruffness fool you... under a rock, soft ground can still exsist.

Then you step in it...

Welcome to the site!

My biggest problem after hearing this is most woman no point intented here, but a good number only want to play games, use guys, then act like there all dogs and there all wanting is sex, who's to say woman or most of them aren't using guy's for just for sex and move on to the next, I've heard of it happening.

I may think of my self as a nice guy, but yes I can be right out honest and rude if you ask for it I'll tell you how it is, bottom line I don't play games I am not a guy who wants just sex and leave you hanging, I don't want to just bang you and leave.

I rather have something grown into a loving and trusting relationship as well as friendship, then just sex and mind games and all that.

Yes some guys out there just want to bang you in run and then before you know it some times a kid comes out of it etc and that's sad and wrong etc.

All I can say is I don't say a whole lot, I'm rather shy and I pretty much keep to my self, which tells me why I most likely do not have any type of relationship right now.

But all in all if I ever got asked out then I must say I would give any of the right woman I would want to date or anything like that a chance, I haven't been given a chance and I haven't taken a chance either.

So I guess it's a catch 22 here.

But back to the topic at hand yes there are good guys and there are some who you say just want to have sex and leave etc.

Which is too damn bad.

the fortune cookie told me i was a nice guy, and gave me winning lottery numbers too...!

the last (lady) I dated, stated up front that when she ready I would get the message. took her out three times treated her nice then after the third time, she said get lost you have not tried to get in my pants, I think you are gay. what the hey.

Welcome to JSH I believe there are a lot of nice and caring guys on here that would like to meet you. I wish you the best in finding that special individual.

Whats SEX?????

Oh, and welcome

Yup

They are out there ... somewhere

We are here! Just tired of being used! Welcome! Come on in! Good hunting!

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are there good girls o deserve good guys?

No...they died out. The year was around 1930.....sad story.