1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?
2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?

1. No, you are not ugly, but I am wondering what it is you do that girls come into your work drunk.

2. I don't know why you dated girls that were crazy and wanted to kill themselves, but at least now you know the red flags to look for in future dates.

Those are three questions. :)

Two words: Pepper Spray.

im a third shift manager at a gas station

I am wondering if they were alread suicidal,
or did they become that way after being
around you?

only one was but she was that way before me. I just pissed her off lot cause I stopped two of her master plans... falling off the roof of her house which was to low to kill her anyways. And drowning in the pool. I caught her off the roof. And came home early to find her tied down to the bottem of the pool. I thought if I cared for her enuff she would stop. But she left me for some mexican guy and killed herself anyways.

Wow.
That's a lot of baggage to be
carrying around.

Some people are drawn towards those
who 'need' them.
You can learn to recognize this,
and avoid.

I agree with Soufie. Seriously, these type of people have a lot of deep-rooted personal issues that even genuine affection from someone cannot "heal", but they do look for it from other people thinking they can fix "it". The thing is, she has to settle her issues herself, preferably with professional help.

If you don't want a repeat, just avoid the type.

i read your profile.
older women are more forgiving of men being over weight than younger girls are. (generalization-not all older women, but a higher percentage than ones your own age)
the question is, do you like the way you look? are you happy with your own physical appearance? if not, do something to change.
i ask these questions because you remind me of me 13 years ago. if you think you're ugly, women might suggest otherwise but will rarely take any action to prove otherwise (ie. date you, sleep with you). you'll always be the friend, but rarely the boyfriend.
when women are asked what they look for in a man, 90% of them will put confidence somewhere in their top 3. unfortunately, while people will tell you to be more confident, almost none of them will explain to you how to be more confident. confidence comes from within. it's your own measure of success and accomplishment and can also be combined with your outlook on a situation. you have to decide what it is you're proud of and what your accomplishments are. also, success should never be measured against someone else's accomplishments. it should be measured by your own goals and whether or not you've surpassed them. if you measure yourself against someone else you base your worth on them, but in reality you are not them. you haven't lived their life and they haven't lived yours. set your own goals and strive to achieve them. don't worry about how they compare to someone else, they're your goals not theirs.
women also like guys that are motivated to succeed. i hope you have plans on being more than a truck stop cashier. that is a dead end job, and only the drunk chicks with non-working, loser boyfriends and no self esteem will find that an asset.

as far as the crazy women, i've found (and i'm sure i'll catch hell for this) that most of them are flat out nuts. IMO
you'll just have to avoid the ones that should be in padded rooms.


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Hang in there dude, I feel for you!!

Well it sounds like one you knew was suicidal and you dated her so that answers one of your questions.

You are a third shift manager at a gas station thus people are drunk at that time and more likely to hit on people.

sweety...it don't matter how much you care...you will NOT STOP CRAZY from being what it is!!!! Been there, done that, got some t-shirts.

Caring about someone will not make them less suicidal, dramatic, or drug/drink/pill addicted! In order for that to happen they will have to care about themselves!


Find yourself someone sane

i don't have an answer for you, but it is always disturbing to hear that drunk people are at a gas station.

THANK YOU THERE IS ALWAYS DRUNKS AT 3 IN THE MORNING HOPEING THAT I WON'T CUT THEM OFF FROM THEIR LAST DRINK!

what kind of nut do they wanna be a peanut,walnut,macadamia?oh wait they're drunk so beer nuts

What kind of a gas station is this?

You serve drinks to suicidal girls on a gas station at 3 am?

wow...law of attraction in action

What the rest of these just said :) . People are suicidal for a number of reasons. They need to know someone cares enough. I won't doubt that there's quite a few on Mingle2. Maybe they just need an ear at times. Someone who is willing to listen? A few of my friends have been suicidal, but i don't just suddenly call them crazy or whacko, or cut them off, as it's a cruel thing for people suffering with these type of suicidal feelings. Anyway, sometimes you don't know a person truly, until after about a few year, really. Working at 3am is bound to attract sluts. Lol

First things first...

"Am I just ugly"...?

Dude,...stop doing that. If you EVER hope to appear attractive to something other than suicidal slag....focus on you.

Women like confidence. They like self awareness and they like their men flawed. This suicidal chick that you are dealing with...what is the draw? What does she do that makes all drama worth it?

Just know this...most people in your life will fade with time and a lack of contact. Lifelong friends are rare. You can't chose your family but, YOU decide who you spend your time with. If you chose to maintain a relationship with a suicidal drama queen....that is what you have settled for.

Just how I see it.

Seriously.