Topic: Two questions
Jess642's photo
Fri 05/20/11 05:54 PM

1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?
2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


1a.....only you know if you have an ugly outlook.
1b.....it actually isn't about you...you could be anyone at 3 am to a drunk person.

2.....because you are a rescuer, you are drawn to the lame ducks, somewhere in it all, you feel powerful, the 'hero'...and then you flip and want the emotional support, find it isn't there, and come unstuck.



Do the internal work, and you will draw to you, your own herd.

wux's photo
Fri 05/20/11 05:56 PM

im a third shift manager at a gas station


O, I'd love to have a job like that!!!

What a gas....

wux's photo
Fri 05/20/11 05:58 PM
Edited by wux on Fri 05/20/11 06:01 PM

And came home early to find her tied down to the bottem of the pool.


How in the f can anyone tie themselves to the bottom of the pool?

wux's photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:02 PM

Hung in there dude, I feel for you!!


OP, spegeln does NOT mean he is a blind gay man. Or maybe he does. Better ask him than listen to me.

no photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:05 PM

i don't have an answer for you, but it is always disturbing to hear that drunk people are at a gas station.


unless they are the passengers...one could hope (but it's not likely)

this thread topic is too overwhelming for me

wux's photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:07 PM
Edited by wux on Fri 05/20/11 06:07 PM

1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?
2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


1. Wherever you go, make sure I'm always beside you. You'll forever look gorgeous. (In comparison.)
Because everyone is drunk at three am. At least those of us who are out driving cars.

2. why? Coz girls don't like dating ugly guys who wish for being hit on by other girls, drunk or not, every single day, at three a.m.

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Fri 05/20/11 06:11 PM

1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?


If you're working at a job where people come in drunk, I think you've just answered your own question. Unless you're working in a hospital or some kind of rehab clinic.


2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


Don't automatically assume there are any other kinds out there....

shades


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Fri 05/20/11 06:14 PM


1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?


If you're working at a job where people come in drunk, I think you've just answered your own question. Unless you're working in a hospital or some kind of rehab clinic.


2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


Don't automatically assume there are any other kinds out there....

shades




well hellooo mr, optomismflowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:19 PM


And came home early to find her tied down to the bottem of the pool.


How in the f can anyone tie themselves to the bottom of the pool?


I wondered this, too.

mylifetoday's photo
Fri 05/20/11 06:22 PM


im a third shift manager at a gas station


THANK YOU THERE IS ALWAYS DRUNKS AT 3 IN THE MORNING HOPEING THAT I WON'T CUT THEM OFF FROM THEIR LAST DRINK!


What kind of a gas station is this?

You serve drinks to suicidal girls on a gas station at 3 am?


No, that is why they are hitting on him. Trying to get him to sell them alcohol at 3AM when it is against the law... Sex sells... or in this case, buys...

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Fri 05/20/11 06:28 PM



1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?


If you're working at a job where people come in drunk, I think you've just answered your own question. Unless you're working in a hospital or some kind of rehab clinic.


2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


Don't automatically assume there are any other kinds out there....

shades




well hellooo mr, optomismflowerforyou


This is how I have fun! Some people just play horseshoes or jump off the garage roof. This is easier.

animedude's photo
Fri 05/20/11 07:46 PM
cinder blocks and rope in a 8 ft pool. Swam down and cut it as soon as i got home.

mylifetoday's photo
Fri 05/20/11 08:26 PM

cinder blocks and rope in a 8 ft pool. Swam down and cut it as soon as i got home.


The only way I can see this happening was she had herself tied up and waited for you to get home. Then threw herself in expecting you to rescue her.

Did you hear a splash when you got out of the car???

animedude's photo
Fri 05/20/11 08:44 PM
never had thought about that... its been 4 years now. I dont remember. All i can think of was I stabed myself rushing to cut the rope.. And took her to the hospital as soon as I got air in her. And her stepmother slapping her..

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Fri 05/20/11 08:53 PM




1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?


If you're working at a job where people come in drunk, I think you've just answered your own question. Unless you're working in a hospital or some kind of rehab clinic.


2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?


Don't automatically assume there are any other kinds out there....

shades




well hellooo mr, optomismflowerforyou


This is how I have fun! Some people just play horseshoes or jump off the garage roof. This is easier.



well for a real challenge u could try jumping off the garage roof while playing horseshoes

mylifetoday's photo
Fri 05/20/11 08:55 PM

never had thought about that... its been 4 years now. I dont remember. All i can think of was I stabed myself rushing to cut the rope.. And took her to the hospital as soon as I got air in her. And her stepmother slapping her..


What made you look in the pool as soon as you got home? I assume that was not a normal routine.

animedude's photo
Sat 05/21/11 05:16 AM
I have this thing when something bad is going to happen I get this really sick feeling. It happened alot when I worked for a Temp service cause everytime i got this somethings wrong sick feeling the company i would be working for would lay a lode of people off. I got that feeling driving home and didn't see her so I check the whole house. I check the bathroom first if i remember right thinking she was there. This was about a month after the roof jump. So I was would check the house everyday. She had just got back from Lakeshore then for about 2 weeks. That mental hospital doesn't help people it just watches them for a few days and releases them. She needed help. She really did.

krupa's photo
Sat 05/21/11 06:24 AM
Edited by krupa on Sat 05/21/11 06:27 AM
Dude....walk away. Seriously. If she needs someone to constantly save her, get her a Saint Bernard then drive the hell off. Thus far, I ain't seen anything here that shows you get anything positive out of the situation for yourself.

At this point, you are well aware of her patterns and you keep going back to a screwed up situation. At some point you will have to realize that you KNOW she is damaged goods....the question then becomes....Why have you settled for less than what you are worth?

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Sat 05/21/11 06:36 AM

1. am I just ugly? why do i only get hit on when girls come in to my job drunk?
2. Why is it the last 2 girls i have been with are nuts or want to kill themselves?
that's 3 questions...just saying...

mylifetoday's photo
Sat 05/21/11 12:24 PM

Dude....walk away. Seriously. If she needs someone to constantly save her, get her a Saint Bernard then drive the hell off. Thus far, I ain't seen anything here that shows you get anything positive out of the situation for yourself.

At this point, you are well aware of her patterns and you keep going back to a screwed up situation. At some point you will have to realize that you KNOW she is damaged goods....the question then becomes....Why have you settled for less than what you are worth?


You need to read earlier posts.

She is dead.