Is it just me, or do most of the Asian girls on these sites prefer white guys? If this is true , then it must be an example of the worst sort of racism out there- that which is against your own race. You'd never ever find a white lady who doesn't like white guys would you? It seems like a huge betrayal, and it's just so they can obtain the status symbol of having a white guy.

Actually there are many white girls that prefer to date outside of their race. Just like other races....there are some that date within and without of their race.

It isn't racism. It's just preferences and what they are attracted to. Just like some people prefer to date a certain height, weight, gender, hair color, etc.

All kinds of people date outside their race. Why would that be considered racism?

can you point some out to me please? I've always thought just the opposite...

I disagree. There seems to be a large number of asian women who say they are not attracted to asian guys. By definition this is discrimination based on race. You'd never find a white woman who says that about white guys.

Since when is LIKING someone not of your own race....racism?

Maybe you should go look up that word before you use it in a sentence.

Don't know where you are from...but there are plenty of white women that like guys of other races.

Me..I like all races. Its all pink on the inside brother.

Racism

–noun
1.
a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
2.
a policy, system of government, etc., based upon or fostering such a doctrine; discrimination.
3.
hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.

I don't see that they are saying their own race is inferior or they have a hatred for their own race. They just find other races more attractive to them. So is dating only your race racism?

wrong again...lots of white women won't date white guys, you just have to look harder and not cry about it... i'm getting the idea you don't understand what racism and discrimination means...

I'd actually like to find out about the opinions and experiences of other asian guys on this topic. I don't think anyone can appreciate this situation without having experienced it. I'm sure the previous poster would never have been rejected because he is white...well I have been rejected, by asians, because I'm asian. And on more than a few occasions.

People have preferences when it comes to dating. There are going to be women who aren't into you. There's no use in getting upset over it.

haha... i've been rejected for every reason you can think of, and then a few more...but i keep trying, and you will never see me crying about it... just relax, dude..there was a white girl on here about a month ago that posted she wanted to talk with asian guys, that was her thing.. i looked for the post, but i couldn't find it... they are out there, just don't get discouraged and stop trying.it really ain't about where your from, it's more about who you are...

Are you saying a white guy or a black guy can't understand women of their race dating outside of that race?

Here is another example....you only date women? wouldn't that be going against your own gender?

If you only date Asian women....wouldn't that be racist (by your definition) to other races?

Like I said, it's something you can't appreciate without having experienced it. I've asked a few other asian people about this, and they acknowledge that it does occur. I challenge any white guy to come up with an instance where he's been rejected by a white woman because he is white.

One of my best friends (Asian btw), dates mostly white women (because of availability I guess)...he doesn't trip

I've been rejected twice by white women because I was white. They are into black guys. No big deal. I moved on. I now go about stealing your asian women....HA HA HA!!!

....furthermore- you almost never see asian guys dating white women, but asian women dating white guys is a very common. Now whether you call it a "preference" for a certain race or not, the fact is when you choose a partner based on their race it is racial discrimination.

so you think i've never heard a white woman say i only date black guys?
or mexicans? if asian women never dated other asian dudes, why is that 99% of the asian women here are with asian guys? i'm thinking it your bad attitude more than anything else... why would any woman want to date a guy with a bad attitude? i've been looking for asian women for a long time now, and still only dated one. so i fail to see where your coming from...

Actually, I've seen asian men dating white women quite often. I never thought it was a big deal.

How do you know all these women are dating these men solely because they're white? Have you asked all these asian women why they're dating who they're dating?

is that not what you are doing by your own definition??? Only dating within your race?