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 I don't think looks are as important to women when finding a man as they are to men finding a woman. Just the nature of the beast, I guess. "cough" BS...i think i disagree... She is MORE than right. Male looks play such a small part, and, if you go with the Charles Bronson theory, the uglier the better. I find being good looking vs being sexy fascinating about men! I think Russel Crow, Jack Nicholson, Robert DeNiro, and Kurt Russel some of the most attractive (sexiest) men, but they are not exactly good looking men with perfect features!  I don't care about size, shape, etc...If I thought he were attractive I would date him! |
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   (((Vivian)))
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I have dated at both ends of the spectrum but typically prefer guys that are a little bigger.
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as a fat man, it's been my experience that only larger women are interested in me. probably feel they can't do any better. the thinner women don't seem to want a guy that's got some extra tonnage. their loss. . . . Date a fat girl. so i should compromise my preferences because i haven't found a mutual attraction with someone? . . . no don't compromise ... but do be open ... I can't tell you how many times I have heard, 'you are not typically my type but I am really attracted to you'. You might be pleasantly surprised by just being open. You are cute - all shapes of women will find you attractive...thin ones too... Preferences are just that ... preferences ... |
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no don't compromise ... but do be open ... I can't tell you how many times I have heard, 'you are not typically my type but I am really attracted to you'. You might be pleasantly surprised by just being open. You are cute - all shapes of women will find you attractive...thin ones too... Preferences are just that ... preferences ... thanks for the compliment hopefully you're right, but in my experience it's not been true. not yet anyway. . . . |
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 Behold Princess Leah and her photon laser gun. Looking good. |
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I don't think looks are as important to women when finding a man as they are to men finding a woman. Just the nature of the beast, I guess. "cough" BS...i think i disagree... She is MORE than right. Male looks play such a small part, and, if you go with the Charles Bronson theory, the uglier the better. Charles Bronson was a very handsome man. I have some stakes in this, as my mother tells me she visited him in his dressing room during a rehersal of "All is bum, but taters are tasty". Mom passed away a very long time ago, but some family legends which I started five minutes ago ask if I was spawned from Bronson. The guy who lived with us and I was forced to call dad was handsome, too, but I could never stand him. Looks like Mom digged handsome men. But she was short and fat. Not hairy, but still, dark haired, cut very short. I liked "My Favourite Death Wish". I think that title resonates with me just like the blade of a knife that has hurtled through the air and came to rest with point first into a tree, two nanoseconds ago. |
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Let's turn the tables a bit. In referance to the fat chicks thread thought we'd swoon in on the guys a bit!! Some, (note I said some) men seem to think a few extra pounds adds character. But, let a woman be a few pounds overweight & oh, boy!!! Honey, those aren't love handles...Now, this is in jest so don't go getting your underwear in a tizzy guys!!  Nope, I wouldn't date a fat guy as I just wouldn't be attracted to him. Now if a guy is carrying a few extra pounds; then yes I would date him; thats if I were still dating. Thanks for being honest. I wanted to point out that you wrote this and noone said anything about it. In the fat girl threads you got yelled at by many women if you said you didn't date fat girls. I see the scales are not equal lol. |
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I have a bumper sticker on the back of my Prius that says
"No Fat Dudes" |
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Let's turn the tables a bit. In referance to the fat chicks thread thought we'd swoon in on the guys a bit!! Some, (note I said some) men seem to think a few extra pounds adds character. But, let a woman be a few pounds overweight & oh, boy!!! Honey, those aren't love handles...Now, this is in jest so don't go getting your underwear in a tizzy guys!! Nope, I wouldn't date a fat guy as I just wouldn't be attracted to him. Now if a guy is carrying a few extra pounds; then yes I would date him; thats if I were still dating. Thanks for being honest. I wanted to point out that you wrote this and noone said anything about it. In the fat girl threads you got yelled at by many women if you said you didn't date fat girls. I see the scales are not equal lol. I also noticed that myself. Point being (some) of us women can be brutal & you poor guys get's to put up with us!!!! 
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I don't mind what size a guy is, as long as they love me. I sound corny
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Ok, I weigh 400 lbs plus. Do I think anyone wants to date me????I hope so but ya never can tell. I hope that the ladies will look into my heart cause I have alot of love to offer someone. I have dated two ladies and they said nothing. If you looking for muscles, fast cars, and big money, well you're too shallow and stay away from me please.
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Ok, I weigh 400 lbs plus. Do I think anyone wants to date me????I hope so but ya never can tell. I hope that the ladies will look into my heart cause I have alot of love to offer someone. I have dated two ladies and they said nothing. If you looking for muscles, fast cars, and big money, well you're too shallow and stay away from me please. I want to point out that weight isn't always about looks but also about life style. Some people have a very active lifestyle and really like outdoors and sports etc and someone who couldn't keep up wouldn't be a good match. It doesn't always mean they are shallow. |
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I hate the word "fat"
I consider the individual if he's sweet, decent, and fun to be with -then yes. I would date a heavier man...  |
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I hate the word "fat" I consider the individual if he's sweet, decent, and fun to be with -then yes. I would date a heavier man... yes but fat and heavier isnt the same thing. I mean Arnold is heavier but its all muscle. XD |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Tue 05/17/11 01:59 AM
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Well, there are "heavier" men and there are "fat" men. I have dated heavier men, they are like a big comfy teddy bear.
Fat men would be more like getting close to a water balloon. If you aren't careful he could roll down a hill. (Ralphie Mae and larger) Too fat is if he trips and falls, you have to call 911. Too fat is you let him drive your car and he can't get out of it. |
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it ant the size of the man or woman it should be about the size of the heart and personality u shouldnt go by whats on the outside its about what is on the inside
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it ant the size of the man or woman it should be about the size of the heart and personality u shouldnt go by whats on the outside its about what is on the inside Bingo!!
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I hate the word "fat" I consider the individual if he's sweet, decent, and fun to be with -then yes. I would date a heavier man... yes but fat and heavier isnt the same thing. I mean Arnold is heavier but its all muscle. XD insulting 
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Edited by
mylifetoday
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Tue 05/17/11 06:34 AM
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I agree with the overall impressions here.
It is the person that is important. I really don't know what I find attractive. I fall in love with the woman's mind and personality. From what I have seen, being attractive is more about your view of yourself than of how others see you. If you are proud of who you are mentally, physically and emotionally, the opposite sex will find you attractive as well. Confidence is sexy. Think I heard that from a woman not too long ago... |
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