Topic: how will u know if he really loves u?.
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Mon 05/02/11 07:36 PM
i am just wondering who could tell me if a guy is really into u...

soufiehere's photo
Mon 05/02/11 08:03 PM
how will u know if he really loves u?. uy is really into u...

You never know another's mind completely.
This is a good thing.
You can concentrate on your own.
Be lovable when love finds you.

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Mon 05/02/11 08:05 PM
? How do u know if a guy is into you--- my answer would be that he is only interested in your personal growth and well being. His attention is fully now on you and he has a workable solution for both of you. Maturity in a man is what can I do to better my situation with who I am with.

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Mon 05/02/11 08:55 PM
You know, most guys are after sex. But once that thrill has left our system, and we have tired of it, we begin to look for a woman we can be with.

I know. Seems like it is hard for men and women to find love these days. But, don't ya think we are to blame? I mean, people get together all the time, think they are in love, and then a long relationship/marriage later, they want out. It's like we know we want to be with someone, and we will settle for the first thing that shows any hint of being that awesome relationship.

That being said, a man will be totally into if he just cannot stop thinking about you. Not just sex with you. But the fact that he wants to be with you. You'll invade his mind. You'll make him smile when he thinks of you, and he won't realize he is doing it until someone sees it and points it out to him. He won't buy you things just cause he should. He won't try to be impressive. He will do these things because he wants to treat you special. He'll kiss your cheek and it will have meaning to it. Trust me. There are guys out there who do this. Hell, I know a dude who used to be the biggest player. He got tired of it, met his true love, and you should see him now. I rag him cause by saying he is totally whooped, but he could care less. That woman means the world to him. And he treats her that way.

Yes, there are players. But you can normally spot the games from them. If not, then ask some dude friends you know and they will tell you the score. I will leave with this. If you are asking this question, then chances are he is making the attempt to show you and you are just wary of it.

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Mon 05/02/11 09:15 PM
This is how you know bigsmile


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwGGZTZ-3pM

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Tue 05/03/11 03:04 AM
It is a feeling you have and something you know at the time. By the way he treats you and the ways he shows you. If you always question all of their actions you may miss what is happening........You will know when love is returned in the same way it is received..........

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Tue 05/03/11 06:48 AM
You can never know. You have to trust and it may lead to heart breaks.

Love isn't for sissies.

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Tue 05/03/11 01:16 PM
Really, there's no way of knowing. Just be happy that he tells you he loves you :wink: Then don't forget not to expect too much laugh :laughing:

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Tue 05/03/11 04:25 PM

i am just wondering who could tell me if a guy is really into u...


well OP - his actions and his words match and he looks at you when he talks - he does not let other people distract him from his conversations with you.

Other women do not turn his head

he stays in to watch "the game" (lord knows there's always one some place) at your place instead of going out w/ the "boys" cause he wants to be w/ you

he makes plans and keeps them

he keeps his promises/does what he says he'll do

he calls all the time

and does not disappear once u have been sexual

he can't wait to see you

all the signs are there - if there's any question in your mind- he's not - but that doesn't mean he will not be - as your friendship grows and leans more to romance you will see the signs

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Tue 05/03/11 04:27 PM

You know, most guys are after sex. But once that thrill has left our system, and we have tired of it, we begin to look for a woman we can be with.

I know. Seems like it is hard for men and women to find love these days. But, don't ya think we are to blame? I mean, people get together all the time, think they are in love, and then a long relationship/marriage later, they want out. It's like we know we want to be with someone, and we will settle for the first thing that shows any hint of being that awesome relationship.

That being said, a man will be totally into if he just cannot stop thinking about you. Not just sex with you. But the fact that he wants to be with you. You'll invade his mind. You'll make him smile when he thinks of you, and he won't realize he is doing it until someone sees it and points it out to him. He won't buy you things just cause he should. He won't try to be impressive. He will do these things because he wants to treat you special. He'll kiss your cheek and it will have meaning to it. Trust me. There are guys out there who do this. Hell, I know a dude who used to be the biggest player. He got tired of it, met his true love, and you should see him now. I rag him cause by saying he is totally whooped, but he could care less. That woman means the world to him. And he treats her that way.

Yes, there are players. But you can normally spot the games from them. If not, then ask some dude friends you know and they will tell you the score. I will leave with this. If you are asking this question, then chances are he is making the attempt to show you and you are just wary of it.



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great answer

but u can't blame us for a little wariness

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Tue 05/03/11 07:47 PM
Edited by frece on Tue 05/03/11 07:50 PM
i agree with that specially nowadays where girls fly everywhere and ur guy might just get caught with it...So its really confusing @times