Ladies can u remain single?

Absolutely; I have been all my life.

Shshs got this down packed and counting.....

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I could and i would have happiness, but I wouldn't mind the company either...with its ups and downs

I wouldn't mind company with ups and downs either.

I just found out I should have

I already did twice today! I think my exs have a sort of contest going on who can make me tell them NO the most times...lol

I am single but wouldnt mind the right man cus i know i will be happy then but single life is alrite just has its ups and downs

No thanks, I want to wake up in someones arms and have someone to hold me and share my life with

That's how I feel too Josie. I don't mind living single...been doing it for 20 years minus a couple long term boyfriends; but I'd rather wake up to a smiling face and have someone to share coffee with, if they so choose.

Not me. I like having my bed all to myself. Would rather not share it with some yutz.

Ladies /Gents...whats so difficult about it if he/she wish to live alone.
(unless remaining virgin)

I agree with Winterblue and Josie. Being single has it's benefits: no arguments over...the TV wand (I always get it); who takes out the garbage (I always have to - no one else is there to do it!); who gets the last Oreo Cookie (I do - or it goes stale). However.... I find that I:

Don't mind giving up the TV wand to someone I love;
Don't mind taking out the garbage all the time (especially if she gives me a kiss when I get back);
Giving her the ENTIRE last Oreo Cookie, cream bit and all! (Simply because if I don't, I know I'll never hear the end of it).

In short: single life has it's benefits. But a shared life - now for me that's a gift! And it's why I'm here...Oreo Cookies and all. T :)

Actually it's not difficult living alone. I think its just society that says its wrong to want to be alone which I find silly. Not everyone is meant to be paired up and I just wish people would accept that rather than giving the crap pep talks that there is someone for everyone.

not the marrying kind but wouldn't mind a frequent "guest"

I wouldn't mind sharing all the chores after doing alone all these years

Happily single right now, but wouldn't be opposed to dating someone who wasn't a total nutcase

well i can tell you this much
my mom was married to my dad for 21yrs before they divorced
and she dated several who had wanted to marry her which she didnt
she was with the last guy before my daughter was born and they were together untill my daughter was about 11yrs old
he was a good guy but he got on our nerves where it got to the point we all couldnt stand him
you figure after 32yrs my mom would had remarried but she didnt have any desire..

i have been divorced for 22yrs
havent found someone to boost that mural
or should i say TRUST