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Topic: just yes or no.
artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Tue 04/05/11 08:12 AM
I think that's a great compromise position.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 04/05/11 09:30 AM
yes; 16? no; 4? maybe; 7?

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Tue 04/05/11 09:59 AM
I don't think I can answer that question with a simple yes or no

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Tue 04/05/11 10:38 AM
I'd find it helpful to know why the friend stopping speaking. Did they have a fight or is the friend just too busy or something? If someone gets mad at me for no reason, I'm not rewarding them with a gift, whether I promised it or not.

Veldt_Falsetto Joined Fri 04/23/10 Posts: 159	Tue 04/05/11 01:07 PM
Yea, go give her a knock, say, look, it's done, even if you hate me now, it's yours, do what you like with it :)

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Tue 04/05/11 01:11 PM
Bh a promise is a Promise ....Yes

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Tue 04/05/11 04:47 PM
Yea, go give her a knock, say, look, it's done, even if you hate me now, it's yours, do what you like with it :) Eh, that might work.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 04/05/11 04:51 PM
lets say you have a best friend. and she asks you to make a painting for her. so you do. but you're not going to let her see it or know what it's of til you're done. and throughout the whole process you keep telling her she will eventually get it. you keep working on it. and you promise her that no matter what, even if it's ten years from now, you WILL give her this painting because it's hers. but then she completely stops talking to you. she just ignores you. haven't heard from her in over a month. do you still give it to her? Yes

tweetum Joined Wed 09/22/10 Posts: 67	Tue 04/05/11 05:25 PM
lets say you have a best friend. and she asks you to make a painting for her. so you do. but you're not going to let her see it or know what it's of til you're done. and throughout the whole process you keep telling her she will eventually get it. you keep working on it. and you promise her that no matter what, even if it's ten years from now, you WILL give her this painting because it's hers. but then she completely stops talking to you. she just ignores you. haven't heard from her in over a month. do you still give it to her? YES....coz u made a promise to that person..even if it takes years to finish,u still have to give it to him/her..A PROMISE IS A PROMISE...PROMISES ARE MADE NOT TO BE BROKEN...stops talking to u?ignoring u?not communicating with her?why dont you make first move?try contacting her.ask her the reason..maybe she has a problem..maybe she's sulking..explain it to her that it is not yet finish..

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 04/05/11 05:44 PM
oh you people. I like the ones who just follow directions and give me a yes or no. some who give me more than just a word are actually good explanations. others... uh... don't assume anything damn it. no room for imaginations in here. haha.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 04/05/11 05:49 PM
oh you people. I like the ones who just follow directions and give me a yes or no. some who give me more than just a word are actually good explanations. others... uh... don't assume anything damn it. no room for imaginations in here. haha. LMAO, You post a question and expect everyone to give a simple answer like yes or no Oh, and my answer is YES, be done with it!

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 04/05/11 05:53 PM
you could have kept everything to yourself. and just said yes. goodness. haha.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 04/05/11 06:09 PM
Well, that wouldn't be me. So ha

stefy Joined Sat 11/20/10 Posts: 2946	Tue 04/05/11 06:11 PM
yes

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Wed 08/31/11 07:02 PM
well a few months later, and it got shipped. i keep my word. (:

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Wed 08/31/11 07:07 PM
well a few months later, and it got shipped. i keep my word. (: Bravo, Bianca.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 08/31/11 10:29 PM
good.

Sandelwood4 Joined Sat 08/13/11 Posts: 466	Wed 08/31/11 11:08 PM
I'm actually in that situation. I told my friend I would give her my dream journal when I die. She stopped talking to me (which is not the first time) and I no longer want the back & forth and have let her go. So my answer is NO. I have no reason to believe she wants to have anything to do with me. The deal (promise) is off when someone stops communication.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Wed 08/31/11 11:16 PM
I'm actually in that situation. I told my friend I would give her my dream journal when I die. She stopped talking to me (which is not the first time) and I no longer want the back & forth and have let her go. So my answer is NO. I have no reason to believe she wants to have anything to do with me. The deal (promise) is off when someone stops communication. well if it's just a 'friend' i wouldn't give it to them either. not that i know what friends are, but this person is my favorite person ever. i just had to do it.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 08/31/11 11:16 PM
yes