So I had a mutual match with someone that was from the same area. So, I decided to converse with that person. I sent a message responding to her. I basically asked what part of town she was from. I told her where I went to school and asked her where she had gone to school at?

Pretty basic questions. But, as a response I get " So its true?? you are trying to judge me by where I grew up and where I went to school. that is hilarious "

What idiot would think I would be trying to judge by those questions? How would you even?

I told her that she has serious self esteem issues and that she should not even bother trying to converse with someone until she gets over her insecurities.

SOME PEOPLE!!!! NO BRAINS

so, did you get a date with her?

MOST people...no brains!! Too funny!

haha this topic and all responses are great.

wow, a man who contacts his mutual match,,,,,,,her loss

Hey, you're lucky. Mine always just say "I am to be liking your structure."

sorry to laugh about your situation, but that was funny. WOW, i guess beware next time, good luck. Maybe ask what is your favorite color next time, for a more intelligent response?

I hope you told her, you were just making an effort to get to know her, but fricken forget it...its obviously impossible.

Yeah, I am sure she will be wanting
to know everything else wrong with her.

Thank God for immedieate red flags...

i would have told her 'well, yeah, someone that looks like you left this $100 on the lunch table...'

i dont see it as a problem by asking where they went to school at
thats nothing wrong with that
in fact there was a guy that i was talking to on another dating site
as to find out i had went to school with him. and i recall that his mom used to own a small store in town and he didnt seem offended over that he was just suprised that i remembered....

There are guys that email you here???? And, they respond to Mutual Match????

If you can't ask a simple question without offending someone, than that person is certainly not one you really want to get to know. just a simple, normal question. Imagine if you made a statement that was just something to make conversation on a date...and she went on a rage about it because she took a different view. Be glad one e-mail let you know about her before you were in the middle of a date. Especially if she actually lived in your neighborhood.

I don't see anything wrong with what you asked, she evidently has problems communicating..better to know now than on a date... there are lots of crazies out there...lol

nO...

Sooo.....what's her name?

Oh, whew. I'm glad because I thought it was just me.