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hello everyone my oppion might not count but how can u trust someone just like me I let my guard down it never fails I get hurt everytime my heart can't handle being hurt again this guy I'm dating I'm giving a second chance n I know whats going to happen. Like I said its hard for me to trust my heart is so shattered n crying inside n noone hears me please give me some advices thank u renee well first of all, your opinion counts...at least as much as anyone else's around here  it's road that is sometimes rough, the heart what did Linda Ronstadt say - it was perfect: Sometimes the heart is just like a wheel you can bend it but you can't mend it You have to give it away renee (ur heart) or else u spend life wondering what would have been....could have been instead of living. sometimes I get so mad at the time I've wasted giving my ex BF second, third, forth etc etc on & on ad nauseum more chances. but I was living I moved on and am ready to live again...whatever that will mean ultimately - I hope it includes love in my life i thought she said love is a battlefield... |
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hello everyone my oppion might not count but how can u trust someone just like me I let my guard down it never fails I get hurt everytime my heart can't handle being hurt again this guy I'm dating I'm giving a second chance n I know whats going to happen. Like I said its hard for me to trust my heart is so shattered n crying inside n noone hears me please give me some advices thank u renee Gosh, Renee, it sounds like you should retreat from this guy. You clearly dont want to be involved with him. I agree with MM, when he said, 'Youre the person that comes first' ...this is not selfishness, it is just the truth. I recommend flyin solo for a period, til you can enjoy your own company and be happy. Then you can be strong enough to enter into a relationship that most certainly WILL potentially hurt again. How else will you find the right one? Gotta let go and move on. "i thought she said love is a battlefield... " Thats Pat Benatar man. oh...it a great song, whoever sings it... |
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hello everyone my oppion might not count but how can u trust someone just like me I let my guard down it never fails I get hurt everytime my heart can't handle being hurt again this guy I'm dating I'm giving a second chance n I know whats going to happen. Like I said its hard for me to trust my heart is so shattered n crying inside n noone hears me please give me some advices thank u renee well first of all, your opinion counts...at least as much as anyone else's around here it's road that is sometimes rough, the heart what did Linda Ronstadt say - it was perfect: Sometimes the heart is just like a wheel you can bend it but you can't mend it You have to give it away renee (ur heart) or else u spend life wondering what would have been....could have been instead of living. sometimes I get so mad at the time I've wasted giving my ex BF second, third, forth etc etc on & on ad nauseum more chances. but I was living I moved on and am ready to live again...whatever that will mean ultimately - I hope it includes love in my life i thought she said love is a battlefield... get ur 80s ladies straight precious I think that was Pat Benatar - who I saw perform with - you won't believe this - Martina Mcbride - they were awesome |
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Can you really trust anybody? Yes, but you must be prepared when your heart gets ripped out from your ribcage and stomped on right in front of your eyes. |
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I trust everyone until I'm given a reason not to....
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Can you really trust anybody? sure, God, family, self |
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Can you really trust anybody? Yes, but you must be prepared when your heart gets ripped out from your ribcage and stomped on right in front of your eyes. So true....I always trust, but now I feel that I am not a good judge of who is trustworthy. I trust my intuition and the last time it let me down. I'm sitting and pondering and I guess you just take your chances and pick yourself up when you're wronged. |
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I'm not responding to the OP's situation here, just putting a spin on the idea of trust in general...
Your family and even your best friend will betray your trust at some point. The question is whether the relationship can bounce back from it. That's up to the people involved, and if only one does not make an adequate effort, things will never be the same. Still, the rift can heal stronger than it was before, making the relationship better instead. In the end, does it mean enough to you to fight for? That's the question you need to answer for yourself. And that's often why people need time to sort things out. |
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It usually takes me a while to trust people. I'm quite wary of strangers until i get to know them. I'm very good at sussing people out, too. I can see through people's persona's.
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Edited by
msharmony
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Fri 04/01/11 01:33 PM
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I'm not responding to the OP's situation here, just putting a spin on the idea of trust in general... Your family and even your best friend will betray your trust at some point. The question is whether the relationship can bounce back from it. That's up to the people involved, and if only one does not make an adequate effort, things will never be the same. Still, the rift can heal stronger than it was before, making the relationship better instead. In the end, does it mean enough to you to fight for? That's the question you need to answer for yourself. And that's often why people need time to sort things out. my family has never betrayed my TRUST, I guess it depends upon the subjective idea of trust though, similarly, God and myself have dealt honestly with me and not betrayed my trust,,, mine is honesty, they have never been dishonest with me or about me |
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Can you really trust anybody? |
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You can trust God. Unless you're an atheist and then you're just outta luck.  |
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