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That girl who ran away just had to go pee.

actually she ran away into her friend's arms (man), and then they all looked at me and laughed !

That's when you should have given her an evil smile.

@sweetest girl: thank you ! I think your great...and Im into older women

@leeds: I dont know what to say...I wasnt intending to find my dream girl in that club, I just wanted to have a good time and meet new people...the club I went to had a student night, and its one of the best clubs in the city as everyone says...Im not sure what went wrong

I think you need a evil laugh. Even Bad Horse had an evil whinny!

Your look is 100% American. Too bad the Brits dont appreicate you!

a student night? are u considerably older than the other patrons there? young kids in a club act like idiots sometimes

when I was in college, if an older man not from our school had approached us in a bar we would have been giggling until the sun came up...

@Stephanie: Im glad you do

@Sweatestgirl: Im their age, but maybe because I didnt shave that night I might have seemed older ? but other guys had beards too and they werent treated like I was !!


Im glad you girls are here

Wow that must have been heart breaking.It wasn't u at all.

Yo mate., your attractive not for me but for the ladies., especially with that Stone Cold Steve Austo look.. Bahaha. Just be yourself n hit the chicks in your own way.. Your way of talkin with them is a serious point..

I'm sure not all English girls are like that, but I'd be lying if I said that I haven't come across quite a few with their 'Pride' intact. We get a lot of tourism in Louisiana and I only met 1 or 2 who were cool.

*Hey* That means you are beautiful and unique to your country, I think that's pretty awesome.

Dude. All guys have nights like this. Don't sweat it. Remember. You got dressed up, and you went out and made some moves. So you struck out. Fact is, you still did it. Don't let it get the best of ya. You'll bounce back.

It really easy to solve that... Move to australia, the girls here love Americans and they will snap you up in a second..

How did you approach them? What did you say? Did you walk up and touch them at all?

Australia hmmmm....Im more of a Brazil kinda guy

I can only speak for myself but I think the thing you need is a bit more confidence. Seriously, you're basing your mindset on one night at a club, and it could have been that night was not your night. And the people you met were not ones who were interested in you.

It happens.

Heck, there have been many, many, many women who didn't like my sense of humor. Or who were put up when I dressed my manhood up in Godzilla underwear. Or, who felt that I was an arrogant SOB.

It doesn't matter. You move up and move on.

From my experience, British women are very, very open to sexuality. I think you just had a bad night.

Don't give up.

all of us women are crazy, some more than others....was it a fullmoon or something?

It's def. not you...

One club secret that works anywhere.


Don't look at anybody twice after the first time. Look like you are having fun being alone and try to laugh with anybody you talk to.


Women that see you having fun will either: 1. Want to join in and have fun with you or 2. Want to hang out with you and try to ruin your fun.


Try it

Sounds good to me...I'll give it a shot

You were likely sending singles you weren't aware of through your body language. Women are very sensitive to this, much more so than men.

Women are like mirrors. they'll reflect what you show them. So, if you are nervous and uncomfortable, she'll feel that vibe and become nervous and uncomfortable herself and she'll want to get away from you.

My advice is to go in and talk to as many women as you can WITHOUT ANY AGENDA. Say hello, introduce yourself, shake her hand and ask an open ended question to start a conversation and let it flow.

When you run out of things to say (and you will), tell her it's been a pleasure, but you need to get back to your friends. Take a step away, then go back and say "You know, you seem pretty cool. Give me your phone number and I'll be in touch in a day or so." When you step away she'll feel a sense of loss and will be more likely to give you her number. Also, do not ask for her number. Tell her to give it to you.

Talk to at least ten women every time you go out.

Don't let them get you down. We all get rejected more than not. This isn't hunting, it's fishing.

I almost forgot.

Look her in the eye and don't forget to smile.