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Topic: Do you judge people?
Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 03/09/11 05:48 PM
Most people make judgments. They just don't like to admit it. People who preach "You shouldn't judge" or say "I don't judge" are full of crap. Yep, that's a judgment. I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." This is a thread for passing judgement without guilt. Have at it. Matthew Chapter 7 verse 1 in the Bible says Stop Judging that you may not be judged ............to me the only true judge is God ....you say we all judge people? well there is different boundaries of judging you can be a judge at a sports event you can judge a food event or a judge of law but to me on judging a person myself i don't judge till i see a fact i try not to listen what others say about the person i see for my self so in that sense i do not judge a person i look to the facts and see reality with my own eyes first so when people say they don't judge people some mean that they accept a person for them self to the boundaries again race,fat ,skinny ,tall ,short,mental problems,some accept these people like i do and not judge about that ,now theres them people because you don't want to be around cause they hurt people all the time or abusive and you saw it so you may say watch out for that person cause you saw the facts , and thats reality , so before you yell and say load of crap some can be telling the truth that they don't judge ,in certain situations you follow:)maybe they judged a race in the past but did not judge that person cause they were in a wheel chair they accepted them , so really it all comes down to the definition and situation and the boundaries of judging :) have a good night hugsss On the one hand, I don't care if people judge others and I don't care if they lie or tell the truth about whether or not they judge others. That was not the actual purpose of this thread. If you want to lie or tell the truth, well that's your choice. If you want to judge someone on this thread, or voice your impressions, I invite you to do so. I agree that there are many different kinds and levels of judgment. About your post, I don't care if you don't know how to use a period at the end of a sentence or a capitol letter at the beginning; I would just like to say that your posts are very difficult to read.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Wed 03/09/11 05:49 PM
I don't judge, and honestly don't give a **** whether you believe it or not. Not giving a crap probably has a lot to do with the fact that you don't judge. You don't give a crap.

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Wed 03/09/11 05:56 PM Edited by artlo on Wed 03/09/11 05:57 PM
I don't care if you don't know how to use a period at the end of a sentence or a capitol letter at the beginning; I would just like to say that your posts are very difficult to read. I was just talking about this with a friend today. My theory is that this is a result of so many people doing a lot of communicating by texting. At first, I thouht it might be a resurgence in an interest in e e cummings, but I am now convinced that texting has created a whole new writing protocol. Almost a whole new language. It is hard to read.

scttggry81 Joined Sat 11/27/10 Posts: 171	Wed 03/09/11 05:59 PM
When the Bible thumping quibs start flowing, I judge that it is time to leave a topic and find something more interesting...

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Wed 03/09/11 06:01 PM
where is this man you speak of. . . just wondering?? He shouldn't be too hard to spot.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 03/09/11 06:05 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Wed 03/09/11 06:45 PM
Most people make judgments. They just don't like to admit it. People who preach "You shouldn't judge" or say "I don't judge" are full of crap. Yep, that's a judgment. I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." This is a thread for passing judgement without guilt. Have at it. we, all of us, make judgments everyday. I fail to see how one could survive without doing so - we judge if it's safe to change lanes, cross the street, if we like the coffee, etc that's different than being judgmental which is having an opinion when you don't have enough info to formulate one or it's none of ur business, or on matters of personal preference where there really is no right or wrong - things like that

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Wed 03/09/11 06:31 PM
Most people make judgments. They just don't like to admit it. People who preach "You shouldn't judge" or say "I don't judge" are full of crap. Yep, that's a judgment. I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." This is a thread for passing judgement without guilt. Have at it. Matthew Chapter 7 verse 1 in the Bible says Stop Judging that you may not be judged ............to me the only true judge is God ....you say we all judge people? well there is different boundaries of judging you can be a judge at a sports event you can judge a food event or a judge of law but to me on judging a person myself i don't judge till i see a fact i try not to listen what others say about the person i see for my self so in that sense i do not judge a person i look to the facts and see reality with my own eyes first so when people say they don't judge people some mean that they accept a person for them self to the boundaries again race,fat ,skinny ,tall ,short,mental problems,some accept these people like i do and not judge about that ,now theres them people because you don't want to be around cause they hurt people all the time or abusive and you saw it so you may say watch out for that person cause you saw the facts , and thats reality , so before you yell and say load of crap some can be telling the truth that they don't judge ,in certain situations you follow:)maybe they judged a race in the past but did not judge that person cause they were in a wheel chair they accepted them , so really it all comes down to the definition and situation and the boundaries of judging :) have a good night hugsss On the one hand, I don't care if people judge others and I don't care if they lie or tell the truth about whether or not they judge others. That was not the actual purpose of this thread. If you want to lie or tell the truth, well that's your choice. If you want to judge someone on this thread, or voice your impressions, I invite you to do so. I agree that there are many different kinds and levels of judgment. About your post, I don't care if you don't know how to use a period at the end of a sentence or a capitol letter at the beginning; I would just like to say that your posts are very difficult to read. thats your opinion but if you want everything perfect you would not have made this thread in the first place right ? cause you did not explain the different types of judging but i glad i taught you ,and as for reading it its very simple to read even a 12 year old can read it i know you did cause you answered my question ,so it sure cannot be that difficult LOLLLLLLLLL but i do find it very amusing the way you talk back to people saying to 1 they talking a load of crap ,before you even know facts lolllllllllll yup you sure do judge ,

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Wed 03/09/11 06:40 PM


sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 03/09/11 06:47 PM
and you BAD

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 03/09/11 06:56 PM
I judge not people, I think we are all imperfect but I do sometimes make assumptions of what our imperfections might be IN these threads, I often assume a person has either a successful happy life, or a lonely miserable one

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Wed 03/09/11 07:17 PM
I judge not people, I think we are all imperfect but I do sometimes make assumptions of what our imperfections might be IN these threads, I often assume a person has either a successful happy life, or a lonely miserable one LOLLLLLL i can agree 100% on that unless they just joking but i do see what you mean my friend

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Thu 03/10/11 01:48 PM Edited by Simonedemidova on Thu 03/10/11 01:50 PM
I dont judge people, if they piss me off, i dont hang out with them. We are not all compatible. . . i dont think it is judging by having certain friends and choosing not to hang out with others. However, it does not bother me when people make certain decisions regarding their own lives. . to each their own. .as long as i dont have to be involved. . unless I choose too.

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Thu 03/10/11 01:51 PM
(You can always tell when somebody just got home from work, or just went on their lunch break. You see a sudden flurry of posts).

comptech1 Joined Wed 01/26/11 Posts: 242	Thu 03/10/11 01:54 PM Edited by comptech1 on Thu 03/10/11 01:55 PM
oops

comptech1 Joined Wed 01/26/11 Posts: 242	Thu 03/10/11 01:55 PM
Who me judge , lol I love cat hoarders and chain smokers ... from a distance. EVERYBODY DOES IT... some people are just not as obvious .

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Thu 03/10/11 01:57 PM
You tell me that I sin... You say that I'm bound for hell... So once your judgement condemns you... I shall see you there.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 03/10/11 01:58 PM
(You can always tell when somebody just got home from work, or just went on their lunch break. You see a sudden flurry of posts).

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Thu 03/10/11 02:02 PM
You tell me that I sin... You say that I'm bound for hell... So once your judgement condemns you... I shall see you there. I'm an atheist. There is no hell. I'm more likely to say, "you did a bad. What happens now"?

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Thu 03/10/11 02:09 PM
(You can always tell when somebody just got home from work, or just went on their lunch break. You see a sudden flurry of posts). what are you trying to say Artlo! hmmmmm! Hahahaha..... and if you are bad---you get a spanking---cuz you are atheist!

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Thu 03/10/11 02:13 PM
what are you trying to say Artlo! hmmmmm! Hahahaha..... Not everything I say has a deep meaning. Just a trivial observation. So, how was work today, honey?