Topic: Do you judge people? | |
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We all judge, but judging is not just a bad thing. You can judge people that are good also, you see the people working at homeless shelters or the people who go overseas to help the victims of a natural disaster...you judge them as good people. It is what you do with your judgments that is good or bad. I would hope to not condemn a person just from a bad mistake, but on the other hand I would not want to turn a blind eye to someone I judged as good and they might have a bad side.
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I HAD the tendency to judge people according to their actions.
Then came wisdom thru a lot of experiences/dealings in life/teachings from my parents. Now, I learn to really understand where the person is coming from - and get to know what prompts him/her that resulted to the actuations. Result: INTERPRETATION of the action, NOT the person who acted it out. |
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I wont judge you as long as you pay your rent and dont tear up my place.
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I have moods. Sometimes I judge people and sometimes I am way too understanding. I have multiple personalities. It depends on who is driving.
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I think one means they try not to pass judgement. Sometimes it is hard. Good lord have you ever been to a Walmart....... Worse yet a K-Mart yikes I do judge. But judging and imposing your judgment on someone are two different thing.... I don't impose my judgment...I offer my opinion They can sort it out however they like. |
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yup and so do you and you and you and you and you. Everyone does how else do you get a first impression?
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No, I don't judge people.
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No, I don't judge people. I can't let that pass. You're telling us that when you see one of these new members post, "Hi ladies. I have a 9 inch d*** and I'm looking for a woman with double DDs who wants me to stick it in all her holes", you tell yourself, "I'll bet this guy is as classy and respectful as any other guy and probably has his head screwed on right. He just used a poor choice of words.
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I try not to judge others, but sadly to say I do some times.
Then I step back and take a deep breath and ask myself why. As I wouldn't want someone to judge me without knowing me, I try to do the same with others. |
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I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." I just hate judgemental people! Ron |
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I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." I just hate judgemental people! Ron Sounds like an oxymoron to me. |
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No, I don't judge people. I judge that to be a Load of crap. |
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No, I don't judge people. I judge that to be a Load of crap. |
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of course I judge. Everyone does at least to some extent. Everyone also compares others to themselves, their actions, way they dress, talk, etc etc.
Just like EVERYONE lies. I lied a few minutes ago when someone asked me how I am today, and I replied "great". That's when he probably lied and said said he was great too lol. |
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I don't judge, and honestly don't give a **** whether you believe it or not.
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Edited by
Mayhem_J
on
Wed 03/09/11 03:47 PM
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I don't judge....I'm a equal opportunity hater. I pretty much dislike everybody.
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No, I don't judge people. I can't let that pass. You're telling us that when you see one of these new members post, "Hi ladies. I have a 9 inch d*** and I'm looking for a woman with double DDs who wants me to stick it in all her holes", you tell yourself, "I'll bet this guy is as classy and respectful as any other guy and probably has his head screwed on right. He just used a poor choice of words.
where is this man you speak of. . . just wondering?? lol |
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Lets not pretend we don't all have a couple things when we see in our mind we just say WOW. Maybe its a bad wow. (Wow I can't believe they are wearing that, they are that fat/thin, tall/short.) Maybe its a good wow. (Wow nice car/body/clothes/etc.)
Those are all judgments. Maybe at the end of the day we don't treat them different but we still think something. |
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Most people make judgments. They just don't like to admit it. People who preach "You shouldn't judge" or say "I don't judge" are full of crap. Yep, that's a judgment. I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge." This is a thread for passing judgement without guilt. Have at it. |
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I notice, and I may comment...judging by a first impression is what we all do. Judging another's life stlye choices I will not do..it's none of my damn business. We would all be served to walk a mile in another's shoes before we make harsh judgements.
And I could give a rats azz if anyone here believes me or not. So there. |
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