Topic: Do you judge people?
GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Tue 03/08/11 11:26 PM
We all judge, but judging is not just a bad thing. You can judge people that are good also, you see the people working at homeless shelters or the people who go overseas to help the victims of a natural disaster...you judge them as good people. It is what you do with your judgments that is good or bad. I would hope to not condemn a person just from a bad mistake, but on the other hand I would not want to turn a blind eye to someone I judged as good and they might have a bad side.

axl_rose40's photo
Tue 03/08/11 11:47 PM
I HAD the tendency to judge people according to their actions.

Then came wisdom thru a lot of experiences/dealings in life/teachings from my parents. Now, I learn to really understand where the person is coming from - and get to know what prompts him/her that resulted to the actuations. Result: INTERPRETATION of the action, NOT the person who acted it out.

markc48's photo
Wed 03/09/11 12:24 AM
I wont judge you as long as you pay your rent and dont tear up my place.

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Wed 03/09/11 12:56 AM
I have moods. Sometimes I judge people and sometimes I am way too understanding. I have multiple personalities. It depends on who is driving.


Lili_M's photo
Wed 03/09/11 02:03 AM

I think one means they try not to pass judgement. Sometimes it is hard. Good lord have you ever been to a Walmart.......smokin


rofl
Worse yet a K-Mart yikes scared

I do judge.
But judging and imposing your judgment on someone are two different thing.... I don't impose my judgment...I offer my opinion

They can sort it out however they like.



no photo
Wed 03/09/11 02:37 AM
yup and so do you and you and you and you and you. Everyone does how else do you get a first impression?

ajagirl's photo
Wed 03/09/11 05:09 AM
No, I don't judge people.

no photo
Wed 03/09/11 09:54 AM
No, I don't judge people.
I can't let that pass. You're telling us that when you see one of these new members post, "Hi ladies. I have a 9 inch d*** and I'm looking for a woman with double DDs who wants me to stick it in all her holes", you tell yourself, "I'll bet this guy is as classy and respectful as any other guy and probably has his head screwed on right. He just used a poor choice of words.

sparkey01's photo
Wed 03/09/11 10:02 AM
I try not to judge others, but sadly to say I do some times.
Then I step back and take a deep breath and ask myself why.
As I wouldn't want someone to judge me without knowing me, I try to do the same with others.

ron62449's photo
Wed 03/09/11 02:15 PM

I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge."


I just hate judgemental people!

Ron

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Wed 03/09/11 03:06 PM


I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge."


I just hate judgemental people!

Ron


laugh laugh laugh laugh

Sounds like an oxymoron to me.

no photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:07 PM

No, I don't judge people.


I judge that to be a Load of crap.



Jill298's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:23 PM


No, I don't judge people.


I judge that to be a Load of crap.



:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Jill298's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:25 PM
of course I judge. Everyone does at least to some extent. Everyone also compares others to themselves, their actions, way they dress, talk, etc etc.
Just like EVERYONE lies. I lied a few minutes ago when someone asked me how I am today, and I replied "great". That's when he probably lied and said said he was great too lol.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:28 PM
I don't judge, and honestly don't give a **** whether you believe it or not.

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:31 PM
Edited by Mayhem_J on Wed 03/09/11 03:47 PM
I don't judge....I'm a equal opportunity hater. I pretty much dislike everybody.




Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:40 PM

No, I don't judge people.
I can't let that pass. You're telling us that when you see one of these new members post, "Hi ladies. I have a 9 inch d*** and I'm looking for a woman with double DDs who wants me to stick it in all her holes", you tell yourself, "I'll bet this guy is as classy and respectful as any other guy and probably has his head screwed on right. He just used a poor choice of words.


where is this man you speak of. . . just wondering?? lol

Chazster's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:14 PM
Lets not pretend we don't all have a couple things when we see in our mind we just say WOW. Maybe its a bad wow. (Wow I can't believe they are wearing that, they are that fat/thin, tall/short.) Maybe its a good wow. (Wow nice car/body/clothes/etc.)

Those are all judgments. Maybe at the end of the day we don't treat them different but we still think something.

Cheer_up's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:19 PM

Most people make judgments. They just don't like to admit it.

People who preach "You shouldn't judge" or say "I don't judge" are full of crap.

Yep, that's a judgment.

I'm sick of being told that I should not "judge."

This is a thread for passing judgement without guilt.

Have at it.
Matthew Chapter 7 verse 1 in the Bible says Stop Judging that you may not be judged ............to me the only true judge is God ....you say we all judge people? well there is different boundaries of judging you can be a judge at a sports event you can judge a food event or a judge of law but to me on judging a person myself i don't judge till i see a fact i try not to listen what others say about the person i see for my self so in that sense i do not judge a person i look to the facts and see reality with my own eyes first so when people say they don't judge people some mean that they accept a person for them self to the boundaries again race,fat ,skinny ,tall ,short,mental problems,some accept these people like i do and not judge about that ,now theres them people because you don't want to be around cause they hurt people all the time or abusive and you saw it so you may say watch out for that person cause you saw the facts , and thats reality , so before you yell and say load of crap some can be telling the truth that they don't judge ,in certain situations you follow:)maybe they judged a race in the past but did not judge that person cause they were in a wheel chair they accepted them , so really it all comes down to the definition and situation and the boundaries of judging :) have a good night hugsss:banana: waving :thumbsup:

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:24 PM
I notice, and I may comment...judging by a first impression is what we all do. Judging another's life stlye choices I will not do..it's none of my damn business. We would all be served to walk a mile in another's shoes before we make harsh judgements.
And I could give a rats azz if anyone here believes me or not.
So there. :tongue: