Topic: Do men act differently towards blonds?
msharmony's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:18 PM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 03/02/11 06:18 PM
not everyone looks good blonde, but people get attention for many reasons, not all of them good, and sometimes they assume its for another reason


someone with EXTREMELY dark skin might dye their hair blonde and assume the attention was on the blonde hair,,well DUH

when you stand out, you get attention, some can do it with a hair color, and some with other features,,,and not all attention is good attention


,,,,,

rlynne's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:19 PM

Honestly If i walk through a club, with
long blonde hair, curves showing, a bit of boob out and swing my hips in a shorter outfit, , a large number of the general population of men do look,

I don't mean to be rude, but duh.


so would the women...we just won't go up and try to hit on you


shapely legs

full lips

a tiny waist

and wide hips

give her big any colored eyes with long thick lashes

straight white teeth

and a large bust line

she could have long hair short hair no hair intentionally of any color so long as its not falling out in patches and she is going to get looked at and hit on

its more about your air of confidence and whether you maintain grooming yourself

I have been invisible before and I have always been blonde..check any region ya like its still blonde

And I got told on one particular occasion... that nobody should be out to have a good time with a frown on their face and worries on their mind..yeah they threw in the cheesy pick up lines but they were right
you walk out without a care, be open, and fun-loving and you will attract people...no matter what you look like

newarkjw's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:25 PM
On behalf all the blondes. Peroxide does chemically create additional air that has been scientifically proven to flow through one said blondes ears. Bless there hearts.....smokin

josie68's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:29 PM

Honestly If i walk through a club, with
long blonde hair, curves showing, a bit of boob out and swing my hips in a shorter outfit, , a large number of the general population of men do look,

I don't mean to be rude, but duh.



Ummmm I didnt take it as rude , but duh
thats what the thread was about and so i answered it,
Duhtongue2
and what exactly does duh mean.what
Like you's use it all the time but what does it mean, is it sort of like "your dumb" or what

josie68's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:30 PM

On behalf all the blondes. Peroxide does chemically create additional air that has been scientifically proven to flow through one said blondes ears. Bless there hearts.....smokin


Damn I am naturally blonde, but seemto still get that additional air flow through those ears.. it can almost be a cyclone at times.:wink:

no photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:31 PM
Yeh, I think "duh" means something like: "That's obvious dum dum."


krupa's photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:33 PM


Honestly If i walk through a club, with
long blonde hair, curves showing, a bit of boob out and swing my hips in a shorter outfit, , a large number of the general population of men do look,

I don't mean to be rude, but duh.



Ummmm I didnt take it as rude , but duh
thats what the thread was about and so i answered it,
Duhtongue2
and what exactly does duh mean.what
Like you's use it all the time but what does it mean, is it sort of like "your dumb" or what


"Duh" has two meanings....

"Duh"...I am stupid. (generally accompanied with a slap to your forehead)

"Duh"...You are stupid. (accompanied with a slap to the back of their head.)

no photo
Wed 03/02/11 06:38 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Wed 03/02/11 06:39 PM
Ah yes!! The GIBS slap to the back of the head.

It's sort of endearing.

"I love you but that was stupid, Smarten up!!"


no photo
Wed 03/02/11 07:38 PM

Smart blondes tend to turn guys off, I've noticed.


smart blondes, is that one of them there oxymorons, or was it smart bomb

no photo
Wed 03/02/11 07:42 PM
Edited by artlo on Wed 03/02/11 07:49 PM
I this case, "duh" means "I don't think you thought that through". It wouldn't matter what color your hair. I think that you would be a sensation looking like that.

Shayna1978's photo
Wed 03/02/11 07:55 PM

not everyone looks good blonde, but people get attention for many reasons, not all of them good, and sometimes they assume its for another reason


someone with EXTREMELY dark skin might dye their hair blonde and assume the attention was on the blonde hair,,well DUH

when you stand out, you get attention, some can do it with a hair color, and some with other features,,,and not all attention is good attention


,,,,,


I'll second that, I looked like a banana cream pie shat on my head.

josie68's photo
Wed 03/02/11 07:56 PM
Edited by josie68 on Wed 03/02/11 07:58 PM

I this case, "duh" means "I don't think you thought that through".


Hmmm no it was definately well thought through,

My daughter is tall, with large boobs, and longish brunette hair, we have often gone out together, and she does get noticed.
I am small or short, just at 5ft 3 i have what aparently is an hour glass figure , when i choose to show it, i can have my hair from my shoulders to my waist depending what i want.
and what i was pointing out was that the two of us together do get looked at, however, I am treated differently to her.

Amy is approached as a young attractive women.
I am approached more like a child, with baby talk and sexual advances. Do i mind , no not realy i ignore what I want to and have fun. Obviously if i dress with my hair long and a shorter dress i know what is going to happen, However it is obviously not because i am younger or more beautiful,

Her boobs are big
Mine are normal
Her figure is very curvey
Mine is mediumly curvey
she is tall
I am tiny
She has dark hair
I have blonde hair.

She is 21
i am 42.

She shows more boob but is still approached differently.

So my Statement was a thought out statement, Aimed directly at responding to the thread...DUH

Hmm althought the other difference is that Amy would probably knock anyone out who was rude to her
Where i would giggle and ignore it.

no photo
Wed 03/02/11 07:57 PM

I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women

no photo
Wed 03/02/11 08:04 PM
Ahhh. I didn't realize there was another person in the picture for comparison. That changes everything.

josie68's photo
Wed 03/02/11 08:13 PM
I didnt actually know i needed to put her in as it was just an observation when i went out.
Obviously anyone will look at something that is dressed up, but it does appear that the blonde hair does stand out more in comparrison to the brunette when you go out.
However it may just be that in the darker rooms with the artificail lighting that it may be brighter. i know that with disco lights at times my hair almost glows and appears fluorescent. so it does catch the eye, if you highlight this with black and gold accessories, then of course it will be eye catching.
Hmmm hope that sounded more thought out and not quiet so simple minded.
However i do not usually like to talk as though there might be something stuck between my ears as it can scare people off and cause confusion.tongue2

josie68's photo
Wed 03/02/11 08:15 PM


I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women


Hmmm i dont.

I prefer mentongue2

Shayna1978's photo
Thu 03/03/11 02:14 PM


I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women


FYI Oriental is a racist term, they prefer 'asian'. I think the bleach blond asian has that 'sexy/slutty' look going for them.

no photo
Thu 03/03/11 03:16 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Thu 03/03/11 03:17 PM
I don't think "oriental" should be thought of as a "racial" term. That's plain ridiculous.

Same goes for "Mexican."


mrheartfelt's photo
Thu 03/03/11 03:21 PM


I have run into some Blond women that have no clue(airheads). I have run into others that are really sharp. I have also heard men say blondes are easy, but, truthfully, I could not tell you.

I don't act differently towards any hair type. I want them to treat me with the respect I deserve and I will treat them the same way. That is really what we are after anyway is to be treated as equals, is it not? JMO.waving waving waving

eileena9's photo
Thu 03/03/11 03:39 PM



I prefer red heads.


i prefer natural blonde oriental women


FYI Oriental is a racist term, they prefer 'asian'. I think the bleach blond asian has that 'sexy/slutty' look going for them.


They do prefer Asian but I was told it is because "Oriental is FURNITURE.....PEOPLE ARE ASIAN!!!!" (This was told to me by the person whom the 58 yr old Chinese female co-worker, screamed at.)