Topic: sexual relationship befor marrige..good or bad
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Mon 02/28/11 11:38 AM
lmao.....lol

soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/28/11 11:49 AM

I agree with what you are saying soufiehere.
What I am saying is that I will not give up
my self-respect for someone elses sexual needs.
I do realize it is a personal decision and I
do respect your views flowerforyou


Nor should you..give up your ideals.
They are for you alone.

Not doing, what YOU think is inappropriate
is always right.

(Broad use of the word 'you' in your
first reply sent me flying :-)


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Mon 02/28/11 11:52 AM
Sorry, I guess I did not word that very well.

Hope your day is going well smile2

soufiehere's photo
Mon 02/28/11 12:01 PM

Sorry, I guess I did not word
that very well.
Hope your day is going well smile2

You are a doll :-)

DJL1's photo
Mon 02/28/11 05:12 PM
Speaking of sex...Who is getting married....perhaps the question should who is getting married ?....before or after or not at all, just enjoying life...

krupa's photo
Mon 02/28/11 06:16 PM
Allow me to clue you in to a little something.....

Marriage is the death of your sex life....at least the fun part.

Anyone out there can tell themselves what they need to to feel better....but, I am not lying.....get married...then describe your sex life three years later....

There is a reason that I have had sex with married women....the husbands were no longer interested in the physical aspects of the marriage but, still wanted thier woman to be physically pleased. (note: I never jumped in a married womans bed without her husband approaching me and asking if I would take his woman out for the night)

This all kind of stems back to your sex and love topic Dude

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Mon 02/28/11 07:25 PM

Really you ever seen 2 virgins on a honeymoon? that's something i'd pay to see....."Honey where does it go?" "I don't know i've never done this before" "Call room service maybe they can help"


so that would be a threesome then?

Goofball73's photo
Mon 02/28/11 07:50 PM
Sex is da devil!

DJL1's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:02 PM


hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible?


For me it is not good to have sex before marriage, because God specifically said so in the Bible.


Sex before marriage...do you mean not until you get your state license? When does a marriage occur...? Does it mean that one has to be "churched"? I am not a bible junkie but I think all it said was, one man one women...

What most forget that at one time people lived id small tribes, and everyone contributed to the raising of the children regardless of who had them, it was the nature of life. It is only in the new world of industrialization that we traded in the "we" for the "I'. In a time passed so many children died at birth, including the fact that the elderly of these tribes required sufficient offspring to take of them in their late years.

Yet, if you go back fur enough many men had many wives as many as he could afford....some men had hundred of children....

So to answer your question....there is no imperial answer, only one of responsibility....and the norms that the society you live in has legitimized and you have adopted.

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Wed 03/09/11 06:13 PM
Edited by winterblue56 on Wed 03/09/11 06:24 PM
Sex?? Someone mention sex?? Oooh la la love ohwell


bastet126's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:32 PM
let me break this down.... good, great, okay, let's go for mind blowing sex in a loving, committed relationship, forget marriage, for me, is necessary. call it modern woman, call it sinful, call it nasty self centered indulgence, doesn't matter. my sensuality is part of me, part of all of us, and i allow it to be. period. but, that's just me.

stefy's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:39 PM

let me break this down.... good, great, okay, let's go for mind blowing sex in a loving, committed relationship, forget marriage, for me, is necessary. call it modern woman, call it sinful, call it nasty self centered indulgence, doesn't matter. my sensuality is part of me, part of all of us, and i allow it to be. period. but, that's just me.

You are not alone:smile:

rlynne's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:41 PM

hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible?


sex as a part of a solid intimate relationship is a good thing...knowing that you have a healthy sex life is important in establishing long term relationships....

as for children....you are never ready for them..no matter how you prepare and the parents are both responsible no matter what happens to the relationship married or otherwise...

Goofball73's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:47 PM
I'm dating a chick, then she is getting tapped. End of story. I know. So romantic right? :tongue: laugh

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Wed 03/09/11 06:50 PM

let me break this down.... good, great, okay, let's go for mind blowing sex in a loving, committed relationship, forget marriage, for me, is necessary. call it modern woman, call it sinful, call it nasty self centered indulgence, doesn't matter. my sensuality is part of me, part of all of us, and i allow it to be. period. but, that's just me.


bastet it is really the only interesting way to communicate with a man (who is not family)

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Wed 03/09/11 06:53 PM

I'm dating a chick, then she is getting tapped. End of story. I know. So romantic right? :tongue: laugh


and if she says NO and u GO the next guy will get it by sympathsizing with her about the guy B4 him who was too aggressive:wink:

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Wed 03/09/11 06:53 PM

let me break this down.... good, great, okay, let's go for mind blowing sex in a loving, committed relationship, forget marriage, for me, is necessary. call it modern woman, call it sinful, call it nasty self centered indulgence, doesn't matter. my sensuality is part of me, part of all of us, and i allow it to be. period. but, that's just me.
:thumbsup:

You took the words right out of my mouth.

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Wed 03/09/11 06:54 PM


let me break this down.... good, great, okay, let's go for mind blowing sex in a loving, committed relationship, forget marriage, for me, is necessary. call it modern woman, call it sinful, call it nasty self centered indulgence, doesn't matter. my sensuality is part of me, part of all of us, and i allow it to be. period. but, that's just me.

You are not alone:smile:


and neither are you. drinker

bastet126's photo
Wed 03/09/11 06:57 PM

bastet it is really the only interesting way to communicate with a man (who is not family)


i don't know about "only" sweetest, but one of the MOST interesting...:wink: flowerforyou


((stefy and shrxfn drinker flowerforyou ))

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Wed 03/09/11 07:01 PM


I'm dating a chick, then she is getting tapped. End of story. I know. So romantic right? :tongue: laugh


and if she says NO and u GO the next guy will get it by sympathsizing with her about the guy B4 him who was too aggressive:wink:


You are such a buzzkill tongue2 :laughing: