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Topic: 3 things i think you should not ask a lady lolll
Lunali Joined Mon 02/14/11 Posts: 361	Tue 02/15/11 08:21 PM
Probably the MOST insulting question I have ever been asked (keep in mind I was working in a store geared for video games): "Can I speak to a GUY about this?" Or another personal favorite, "I'm sorry, but why would they hire a girl?" But, I've worked in a lot of different places, but those were probably the questions that ticked me off the most.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:30 PM
First never ask a Lady how much does she weigh cause they always take it the wrong way most of the time they may say why i not that fat lolll even if you meant in in a nice way by saying i meant your in good shape at that weight , never ask a lady her age as she may think that she looking old and take it to heart the wrong way ,even if you meant wow you look awesome at that age lollllll ,never ask a lady do you color your hair? she may think something is wrong with her hair or the color is not right lollllll , ok what you all think am i right??????? lolllllll hey i just giving advice to guys that don't know that lolllll ,and lady's sometimes us guys make a comment but not to hurt your feelings or insult you but to complement you so don't snap at them guys till you know what they thinking not saying i ask them Questions cause most of time i don't sometimes the age i might say :))))) oh BIG HUGSSSSSSSSS to all the Ladys and cheers ^5s guys Have a great day all or night depends where you are :)No OFFENCE to no 1 :)just a thought i was thinking and saw people do :))) Actually its good advice. I am insulted when asked my weight as I do weight lifting and I am heavier than I look. My age isn't too much of a deal but really would rather a man not ask. Again for hair colour; its no ones business but mine. Well a Honest lady here but remember but remember he may just be asking you cause he loves the way you look and the guy does not know how to say it in a proper manner see i gave some advice to a few budys they thanked me later cause what ever they said their lady's were taking it wrong and the more they talked the worse it got haha i said let them talk and tell them boy your look in really lovely shape you must work out to look that nice ,something like that not how much you weigh cause you look great lolll but thanks for your openness on how you feel big hugsss cheers

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:37 PM
If a man tells her how great she looks before she is able to ask any questions about how she looks, there will not be a problem at that level. Some women feel it is a shameful thing to be less then thin or more than 25 years old. It is a taught response they learned from their mothers and elder women in their family. Well thanks for you honesty and comment here i know thats why i made this thread too cause some you can hurt their feelings even if the guy don't mean too and then boom the relationship can be over before it starts lollllllll :))))) thanks my friend

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:41 PM
Always ask her if she was born a woman. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL well i glad i never had that prob but that may get you a slap too HAHA but i know what you mean some you can't tell unless they drink the beer faster then you haha then maybe ask hahaa

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:43 PM
At my age,68, my hair is naturally white...Had a guy ask me if I colored it that color.. Now, why would I do that..lol Well maybe he thought you looked really beautiful and young and thought you wanted the hair white not sure haha funny question see what i mean :))))) thanks for comment

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:48 PM
no need to ask a woman if she colors her hair, cos the ALL do LOLLLLLLLL you think they all do? the reason some may take offence is they may have gray hair coming in and they think you can see too and feel insecure haha thanks for comment cheers

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Tue 02/15/11 08:52 PM
no need to ask a woman if she colors her hair, cos the ALL do Oh, and by the way.....no I don't!!! Never did, never will!

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 08:55 PM
Is your Grandma hot? Is your Mom hot? Is your daughter hot? .......they tend not to think it is as funny as I do. Well maybe they want you to say your looking really hot lollllllll instead of their family, i know you probably mean thats why they are so hot but some lady's don't catch on fast that way cheers

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 09:00 PM
Never ask for her money Never ask her to Co-sign a loan for you Never ever ask her if she needs new batteries LOLLLLLLLL thats a new thread to start haha kidding ya theres a lot you got to watch what to say haha at least i am open to lady's but never asked to borrow money or co sign as for batteries she wouldn't need none if she had me haha thanks for comment

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 09:09 PM
Hell I'm 52 do I color my hair hellllllllllllll yeah if I did not I would be more gray headed then moses......started turning gray at the tender age of 16 sweet huhh..... I just wish I had invested in dye many years ago heck would have made a right nice profit by now How much do I weigh none of ya dammed business........ see for you ,You can answer 2 of 3 but still not good questions to ask lady's even if they the tough lady's them you may get a slap or may swear at you or drink in the face lollllllll Thanks for your comments and i didn't know you dyed your hair looks great but also thought your younger then 52 so thats a good thing:) my friend BIG HUGSSS and your right your weight is your business haha

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Tue 02/15/11 09:15 PM Edited by indianadave4 on Tue 02/15/11 09:18 PM
Slight variation: 1. How much do you weight? 2. How old are you? 3. Are you going throught menopause? Top three winning questions. Shshsh the last one hell yeah I'm going through menopause but............I don't turn into the devil nor did I start hating sex either hell I rather enjoy it more............ But then make note MENopause and what it starts with............see it is men that cost us most of our problems Women+Men=problems I knew I'd heard of new math before, hmmm. However, algebra allows the two terms on the left side of the equation to be reversed.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 09:18 PM
Probably the MOST insulting question I have ever been asked (keep in mind I was working in a store geared for video games): "Can I speak to a GUY about this?" Or another personal favorite, "I'm sorry, but why would they hire a girl?" But, I've worked in a lot of different places, but those were probably the questions that ticked me off the most. Well i can see how that would be insulting to you as if the guy is more smarter then you i think thats rude too ,cause he never even gave you a chance you should of gave him to speak to a dumb guy in the store if you knew 1 lollll then he try and come back to you and say oops sorry i busy for a minute haha ,tell you the truth i rather hire a lady then a guy in stores cause they have way more patients in stores and they love to shop and talk so they to me would be better cheers thanks for comments

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 02/15/11 09:20 PM
no need to ask a woman if she colors her hair, cos the ALL do Oh, and by the way.....no I don't!!! Never did, never will! well i agree 100% some just love to be natural thanks for comment

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Tue 02/15/11 10:04 PM
Hmmmmmmmm I must not be a lady, i am 42 years old, 62 kilo's no idea what that is in pounds, my hair is only died by the sun, and if I thought I looked fat in a dress I sure wouldnt have it on. So I would be pretty dumb to need to ask if I looked fat. Dont see the problem here, honestly is always easiest and if you cant ask a simple question like how old are you or how heavy you are, then maybe the poor woman is very insecure and doesnt like herself, So find someone who does and have fun, dont walk around on eggshells. Who knows, its not like we weigh nothing or arnt getting older so its not like we should care who knows, If we weight a 100 kg's and you pick us up, you will soon find out how heavy we are. or maybe its a little like asking a man how long his doodle is, why cant we just get an honest unembarrassed answer. i just dont undertand, if someone asks what size bra you take whats the big deal. inscurities are very amusing LOLLL Oh well i ask them about anything too in a nice way cause some just take it the wrong way haha but i know you sweety HAHA i can ask you anything and you can ask me anything haha see your a open down to earth sweety that don't worry so much i really like that about you HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS MY SWEET FRIEND:) LOL hmmm now I will have to think up lots of things to ask you

Lunali Joined Mon 02/14/11 Posts: 361	Wed 02/16/11 01:01 AM
Probably the MOST insulting question I have ever been asked (keep in mind I was working in a store geared for video games): "Can I speak to a GUY about this?" Or another personal favorite, "I'm sorry, but why would they hire a girl?" But, I've worked in a lot of different places, but those were probably the questions that ticked me off the most. Well i can see how that would be insulting to you as if the guy is more smarter then you i think thats rude too ,cause he never even gave you a chance you should of gave him to speak to a dumb guy in the store if you knew 1 lollll then he try and come back to you and say oops sorry i busy for a minute haha ,tell you the truth i rather hire a lady then a guy in stores cause they have way more patients in stores and they love to shop and talk so they to me would be better cheers thanks for comments Well, I was GOOD at my job, since I have a lot of gamer magazines, I play a lot of different games, and on and on. Haha, but my manager, who was also a girl, would just point to me when someone pulled that, "She can answer your question perfectly fine. Treat her with respect or get the hell out of my store." Was usually what she said, she was pretty awesome.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Fri 02/18/11 07:35 PM Edited by Cheer_up on Fri 02/18/11 07:39 PM
Hmmmmmmmm I must not be a lady, i am 42 years old, 62 kilo's no idea what that is in pounds, my hair is only died by the sun, and if I thought I looked fat in a dress I sure wouldnt have it on. So I would be pretty dumb to need to ask if I looked fat. Dont see the problem here, honestly is always easiest and if you cant ask a simple question like how old are you or how heavy you are, then maybe the poor woman is very insecure and doesnt like herself, So find someone who does and have fun, dont walk around on eggshells. Who knows, its not like we weigh nothing or arnt getting older so its not like we should care who knows, If we weight a 100 kg's and you pick us up, you will soon find out how heavy we are. or maybe its a little like asking a man how long his doodle is, why cant we just get an honest unembarrassed answer. i just dont undertand, if someone asks what size bra you take whats the big deal. inscurities are very amusing LOLLL Oh well i ask them about anything too in a nice way cause some just take it the wrong way haha but i know you sweety HAHA i can ask you anything and you can ask me anything haha see your a open down to earth sweety that don't worry so much i really like that about you HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS MY SWEET FRIEND:) LOL hmmm now I will have to think up lots of things to ask you LOLLLLLL sure just ask when you message in private haha cause depends what you asking jo jo ....................haha you little devil you

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 02/18/11 07:37 PM
yes u r on target - but in general, asking personal questions is rude unless there is a real "need to know"

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Fri 02/18/11 07:42 PM
yes u r on target - but in general, asking personal questions is rude unless there is a real "need to know" ok you tell them guys how you feel you go girl lolllllllllllllll

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 02/18/11 07:52 PM
yes u r on target - but in general, asking personal questions is rude unless there is a real "need to know" ok you tell them guys how you feel you go girl lolllllllllllllll I've never been a shrinking violet in the face of rudeness. it's unpardonable in my opinion - especially to ones elders or between partners in a relationship

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Fri 02/18/11 07:58 PM
Hmmmmmmmm I must not be a lady, i am 42 years old, 62 kilo's no idea what that is in pounds, my hair is only died by the sun, and if I thought I looked fat in a dress I sure wouldnt have it on. So I would be pretty dumb to need to ask if I looked fat. Dont see the problem here, honestly is always easiest and if you cant ask a simple question like how old are you or how heavy you are, then maybe the poor woman is very insecure and doesnt like herself, So find someone who does and have fun, dont walk around on eggshells. Who knows, its not like we weigh nothing or arnt getting older so its not like we should care who knows, If we weight a 100 kg's and you pick us up, you will soon find out how heavy we are. or maybe its a little like asking a man how long his doodle is, why cant we just get an honest unembarrassed answer. i just dont undertand, if someone asks what size bra you take whats the big deal. inscurities are very amusing LOLLL Oh well i ask them about anything too in a nice way cause some just take it the wrong way haha but i know you sweety HAHA i can ask you anything and you can ask me anything haha see your a open down to earth sweety that don't worry so much i really like that about you HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS MY SWEET FRIEND:) LOL hmmm now I will have to think up lots of things to ask you LOLLLLLL sure just ask when you message in private haha cause depends what you asking jo jo ....................haha you little devil you No Way , I am a good girl