Topic: Do Women Lose there Femininity
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Sat 01/29/11 06:48 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 01/29/11 06:50 PM

Do Women Lose there Femininity on the bedpost over night ??


no but we can store some of it there for you - in readiness for the next round! How does that sound?happy

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Sat 01/29/11 07:03 PM

Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.
YES,,,,women become their grumpy old-man,,,after twenty years together,,and their grumpy old man becomes their tender care givers...


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :banana:


So WE switch ROLLS!!!!!!!!bigsmile jk

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Sat 01/29/11 07:05 PM


Do Women Lose there Femininity on the bedpost over night ??


no but we can store some of it there for you - in readiness for the next round! How does that sound?happy
works for me :wink:

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Sat 01/29/11 07:10 PM

I just took the feminine test and scored 71%. Here are the comments. You are in touch with your feminine side.
Sensitive, intuitive, and caring are all words that describe you.
You tend to go with how you feel. You trust your intuition.
And you're just masculine enough to relate to both men and women.

Here is the link. http://www.blogthings.com/areyoumasculineorfemininequiz/


I got 79%. And I'm ollllllllllllllld! :banana: laugh

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Sat 01/29/11 07:25 PM


I just took the feminine test and scored 71%. Here are the comments. You are in touch with your feminine side.
Sensitive, intuitive, and caring are all words that describe you.
You tend to go with how you feel. You trust your intuition.
And you're just masculine enough to relate to both men and women.

Here is the link. http://www.blogthings.com/areyoumasculineorfemininequiz/


I got 79%. And I'm ollllllllllllllld! :banana: laugh
WOW,,,,,,,,,,I mean WOW,,,I took it and scored a 190 and
surprised




scared my pecker fell-OFF,,,,,,,,,,,

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Sat 01/29/11 07:25 PM
Edited by iam4u on Sat 01/29/11 07:26 PM
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Sat 01/29/11 07:25 PM
Edited by iam4u on Sat 01/29/11 07:26 PM
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Sat 01/29/11 07:29 PM



I just took the feminine test and scored 71%. Here are the comments. You are in touch with your feminine side.
Sensitive, intuitive, and caring are all words that describe you.
You tend to go with how you feel. You trust your intuition.
And you're just masculine enough to relate to both men and women.

Here is the link. http://www.blogthings.com/areyoumasculineorfemininequiz/


I got 79%. And I'm ollllllllllllllld! :banana: laugh
WOW,,,,,,,,,,I mean WOW,,,I took it and scored a 190 and
surprised




scared my pecker fell-OFF,,,,,,,,,,,


noway shocked surprised scared rofl

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Sat 01/29/11 08:56 PM




Defining femininity is like trying to hit a moving target. It seems different in differing cultures and changes with the times.

All I meant to say is that to me, femininity in the classic sense is attractive. It offers something in quality that I don't possess.

To me it implies warmth, caring, and is spiritually nurturing in nature.

Do some women seem to lose some of these qualities as they age ?

I'd submit that it's been my experience that they do...



absolute nonsense - if u just wanna chase young poon go right ahead but don't insult entire generations of women in order to justify it - we don't care we want you to be happylaugh


Damn; you are on fire. You go girl!!!!:thumbsup:


not on fire as allergic to generalizations and it kinda bothers me when men act like they know more about us than WE doslaphead


Just my way of saying that I like how you speak your mind. Unfortunately our society has a sheep like attitude. We were raised with racism, sexism, and to be afraid on anything that is different. I think the only difference between young women and older women is that we aren't naive to think prince charming is out there. With the divorces, deadbeat dads, midlife crisis men, the abusers, and of course those that die; women have no choice but to be stronger so they can take care of themselves. As for being cold or unfeeling that isn't true; I can say for me that after being hurt; I am just more cautious about who I give my heart to. It doesn't make me less feminine; just wiser.

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Sat 01/29/11 09:17 PM
personally i feel like with this generation women are showing a little more masculine tratis and men showing more feminine traits; men are seemingly becoming more sensitive, women are more aggressive and independant (they were before, but im talking bout they will stomp a btch if they try to mess with their pay). there's nothing wrong with it though, perrsonally i think it may just make us closer to one another gender wise

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Sat 01/29/11 10:06 PM




Defining femininity is like trying to hit a moving target. It seems different in differing cultures and changes with the times.

All I meant to say is that to me, femininity in the classic sense is attractive. It offers something in quality that I don't possess.

To me it implies warmth, caring, and is spiritually nurturing in nature.

Do some women seem to lose some of these qualities as they age ?

I'd submit that it's been my experience that they do...






absolute nonsense - if u just wanna chase young poon go right ahead but don't insult entire generations of women in order to justify it - we don't care we want you to be happylaugh


What specifically is "nonsense" about my statement? Where do you get that I'm insulting "entire generations", or that my objective is to chase anyone ?

Your assumptions are absurd.

I'm just speaking frankly and honestly, for myself.


I respectfully think you opinion is absurd and dont feel I made an assumption. I was jokng as is clear in the use of an emoticon that is laughing about the comment on younger ladies. Apologies if you did not understand that. That is what those emoticons indicate in a communication where facial expression and tone of voice are not possible.

I think your over reaction to my statement shows that I have struck a nerve because it may be difficult to accept that I have a valid point regarding disassociating a woman's strength/toughness from her femininity.

- but yes ur statements were a generalization about women who are older, and insulting bordering very close to gender bashing if not outright gender bashing. I for one do not appreciate them. Not only am I not less nurturing and feminine as I have aged, I become even more so.

Perhaps I misunderstood you, but I don't think so, and I dont feel like rereading the thread. Again I remain of the opinion that it is misinformed to view the strength women CAN develop with age as something as not feminine when in fact the two are unrelated. As in the examples of very feminine but also very strong or "tough" older women that I already cited. I used public figures to illustrate the point but doubtless there are many of us Older tough women who are quite feminine.

W/e dude - doesnt really matter what u thinkslaphead I don't care that we don't agree. But I can't imagine generalizing that younger men or older men are this or that - seems silly. Good luck to you with whatever it is you seek


I made no generalizations. I stated "some women seem to lose some" and I was speaking from my own experience with those women. I made no general statements about all of women kind.

It seems you are reading much in my statement that isn't there.

I spoke personally and in regard to the OP's question, but you speak for everyone? "doesnt really matter what u think"

You didn't strike any nerves. I don't know you and you don't know me so thankfully there's no love lost.
I simply disputed your very pointed and absurd assumptions/accusations about me.


"absolute nonsense - if u just wanna chase young poon go right ahead but don't insult entire generations of women in order to justify it - we don't care we want you to be happy"

The OP did not put the question to women only, but to anyone willing to venture a response.

My response concerned MY opinion from MY personal experience.



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Sat 01/29/11 10:15 PM

Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.


That's BS

Women grow stronger, wiser, and MORE femine as they get older.

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Sat 01/29/11 10:18 PM


Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.


That's BS

Women grow stronger, wiser, and MORE femine as they get older.


:thumbsup:

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Sat 01/29/11 11:05 PM
I agree with you. Its too bad that some men are so quick to label a woman without really getting to know her. I am strong too but I certainly am not insensitive or uncompromising. Really, where do men get these silly ideas from?



day time soap operas , I think


Any man who watches soap operas is WAY too feminine for my taste!

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Sat 01/29/11 11:11 PM
I agree with you. Its too bad that some men are so quick to label a woman without really getting to know her. I am strong too but I certainly am not insensitive or uncompromising. Really, where do men get these silly ideas from?



I blame their mothers. :tongue: oops

I kidd, I kidd...

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Sat 01/29/11 11:16 PM


Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.


That's BS

Women grow stronger, wiser, and MORE femine as they get older.


flowerforyou

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Sat 01/29/11 11:36 PM
To be real with the post...
Women will age the same as men,,,so with THAT,,,
Some can be more nice,,or more grumpy,,,
But THEIR Femininity will ALWAYS BE THERE,,,,IF THEY USED THAT,,when they were younger,,,because many ladies show THAT a bunch,,and MANY hardly ever show THAT side of them much?
But to say that AGE,,,has a baring on THAT,,,,no-way!

EVERYONE,,,grows older in THEIR own qualities of health and their peace
within their minds and hearts...MOST,,,will remain to be who they always lived,,,AS.....:wink: flowerforyou

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Sun 01/30/11 12:06 AM
I think AllenAqua has some good points and jlyric also has good points. Our definition of what feminine or womanly is a big contrast to what it was 60 years ago, which was different from what they considered it in the 18th century (better not read or vote, or your husband will backhand you), and it goes on and on.

All points aside, I would like to point out that as a nurse, I see the aging process more closely than most. Women fart, complain, and yell more as they age, they piss themselves every time the laugh or cough, and there's not much reason to be feminine (it's not exactly something you're "born with", we have to work on it to fit into society's stupid norms) when your whole body is hurting and your spine is curved. Likewise, men lose their manly qualities as they age, they are weaker, needier, can't get an erection by themselves and lose the ability to do many things by themselves.

These are, of course, generalizations (everyone has that grandma or that uncle whose 100 years old and still takes care of themselves and goes out dancing), but the point is, we all have non-endearing qualities that creep up on us as we age, so trying to keep us in the realm of "masculine and feminine" is absurd. The qualities we manifested in our younger years tend to be the lasting ones, so if you weren't feminine to begin with, chances are you won't be feminine at 40, 60 or 80. Same goes for masculinity.

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Sun 01/30/11 11:05 AM
hey, I found someone's femininity.

Anyone want to claim it before I sell it on ebay?

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Sun 01/30/11 04:41 PM

I agree with you. Its too bad that some men are so quick to label a woman without really getting to know her. I am strong too but I certainly am not insensitive or uncompromising. Really, where do men get these silly ideas from?



I blame their mothers. :tongue: oops

I kidd, I kidd...



rofl rofl