OOH YEAH !!!! I completely forgot about the Adam and Eve situation !!!!

it's a good thing that women never cheat, but allowing us to is a good feature...

don't matter if ya forget, it's build into your dna....your subconscious remembers

Hey for all we know she sliced it and peeled it and put it in a fruit salad. Thanks for making me know I am naked women.

Sin was created by man...we wouldn't have sin without mankind. Sin is also a dated concept that rarily applies today, worked better back before A.D. happened...and even then it didn't work all that well.

The entire concept is really kind of silly to me, sorry, I'm sure I didn't add anything to the conversation.

...in my opinion a person who cheats ought to be kicked to the curb,obviously they have no respect for their vows,their wife or themself..i can understand someone being unhappy with their home life but there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it..


..especially if children are involved not to mention the new strains of stds,if they want to risk their life is one thing but,to risk the life of another is just plain inconsiderate and selfish..not to mention if children are involved possibly leaving them without a parent...

..in conclusion not all men love sin ..some of us know how to keep our johnson where it belongs...

Seems to me.....

Dictating to someone else how they will live thier life seems like the sin.

If someone loves you, they wont cheat. Pretty simple.

But maybe we thought that happy ending wasn't cheating.

The "actual" truth is that man cheats because his penis tells him so. Really. Little thinks for the big head. It's really simple.

Hmmmm well to be totally truthful, I would have to put it on the husband, mainly because if a man is gentle and loving to you, you always feel like making love to him, how can you not.,
But if you have a husband who thinks he deserves to just be laid becuase he feels like it , well suck it up, we where made differently, we take a little time and love and you can have what you want. You just need a peek and you are ready to jump, so if you put the work in to loving your wives, you will never have to ask for it, it will be waiting.

For some reason, get me a beer and come and sit on me never really turned me on..


Well thats my experience anyway.. Not sure about anyone else.

i have had this chat with another person (oh quiet sudays at work)
first of all if the man needs another woman in his life then whats wrong with the woman he is spending most of his time with?
surely if he caired about HER why would he risk hurting her and he obviously is bored with her because he hasnt tried to fix the problem.
i have been put in this situation of my ex girlfriend was very very distant after we were together for a while and we were close. She then near enough cut me out her life but still called and told me she loved me, one night while out with a coupple of friends i bumped into a girl who used to be my nabour and we hit it off, but before we advanced past chatting i told her where i was at (mood killer i know) and we just carried on chattin, the following day me and the GF chatted about what was going on, her responce was "dont hurt him please"
my friend was sleeping with her behind my back why because she missed me apparently???????

what im getting at is men AND WOMEN do this but its not engineered or blaimable on another party YOUare the one that makes YOUR desisions for YOU.
YOU made the choice to cheat not them.
hope that makes sence

yEP yEP yep YEP yep

Josie, you are one of my biggest influences to sin.

I'm recently dealing with this issue myself. Although he told me his reasons & that it had nothing to do with me. Whether I believe him or not being with him is the happiest I've ever been in my life. After he cheated I retaliated & slept with his best friend. Two wrongs doesn't make it right. I figure it's best to let sleeping dogs lie. I'm not just settling. I'm still living & loving. **** happens...deal with it & move on!!

Really I have no idea why people do it, I thought if you loved someone you couldnt be interested in anyone else like that. Its not that you cant see them but how can you love someone and hurt them. What is wrong with just saying Ok I am not happy and then leaving, not playing up and then saying you arnt happy. I really dont htink I will ever understand it.

"Do you agree that it has been argued that some woman make it unpleasant for a man to be himself, either she is too critical, demanding, nagging, always in a bad mood, makes him feel like she is alway disappointed in everything he tries to do for her ??????????? "

I have to say there is some truth to this comment with a good friend of mine. His wife treats him horribly and he did end up having an affair. He ended the affair and for at least a year she treated him well, but now she is back to treating him like dirt (this confirmed by his kids, friends, co-workers, family, etc). So, I imagine he will have another affair. He won't divorce as he doesn't want her getting half his house and part of his pension, so the poor man is stuck with her and her menopausal tantrums.