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Topic: Being in an equal relationship...
GreenEyes48 Joined Thu 08/26/10 Posts: 1319	Sat 01/15/11 07:33 AM
In some relationships the man is the boss...In other relationships the wife seems to call most of the shots...Have you noticed this? I prefer to be in a relationship where both partners operate as equals and best friends...How about you?

wheresthedreamer Joined Fri 01/09/09 Posts: 6	Sat 01/15/11 07:40 AM
Agreed. Equals and best friends. Each individual has strengths and weaknesses. Finding a way to compliment each other with each one's strengths is good. Working together as a team. No one likes to be controlled. So people shouldn't try to control others. Support and encourage each other!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/15/11 08:10 AM
Some people prefer more traditional relationships, where the man is in charge and takes the lead on everything. I am not one of those people. I prefer we both have a say and make decisions on what we'd like to do.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45408	Sat 01/15/11 08:53 AM Edited by soufiehere on Sat 01/15/11 09:48 AM
I would not be in a relationship that was..unequal. I do best in the background, so I am always happy if he takes the reins. But the respect must be equal.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Sat 01/15/11 09:04 AM
50/50

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 01/15/11 09:20 AM
Hmmm I guess that I would like to be equal, but ultimately if a decision needed to be made, I would probably rather leave it to my partner.

sparkey01 Joined Sun 12/06/09 Posts: 1877	Sat 01/15/11 09:22 AM
For me it would need to be equal to work.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 01/15/11 09:23 AM
Hmmm I guess that I would like to be equal, but ultimately if a decision needed to be made, I would probably rather leave it to my partner. How come? I never really understood not wanting to help make decisions.

hiddenmeaning Joined Mon 01/03/11 Posts: 282	Sat 01/15/11 09:37 AM
i prefer to be the door mat to be honest but i do like to have a say in some things

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Sat 01/15/11 09:44 AM
A good wolf pack has an Alpha Male and an Alpha Female! Not an Alpha Male and Beta Female.

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Sat 01/15/11 09:45 AM
I prefer equal relationship

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Sat 01/15/11 09:59 AM
In my last relationship I definitely called the shots. Had to. It lasted for 6 years. I think one or the other is usually dominant, but not usually to the point of being pushy or making important decisions alone.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/15/11 10:17 AM
I prefer total domination. Even better if I get smacked for being slow with the beer.

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Sat 01/15/11 10:18 AM
Hahaha Ruth Or have your allowance taken away for burning dinner.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/15/11 10:19 AM
You get an allowance???

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45408	Sat 01/15/11 10:22 AM
You get an allowance??? Ruthie, our problems are over. If we just marry RowBaby.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/15/11 10:24 AM
You get an allowance??? Ruthie, our problems are over. If we just marry RowBaby. One of many reasons to marry her.

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Sat 01/15/11 10:24 AM
I could handle both of you.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45408	Sat 01/15/11 10:25 AM
I could handle both of you. Dang. She is cocky too. And into muscle cars

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Sat 01/15/11 10:26 AM
I could handle both of you.