Topic: Why?
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Mon 01/10/11 08:32 AM

wow ,talk about feeling the love ,its just all over this thread or is it ratpack that Im feeling. hey all you folks that have been ruleing the forms, why do ya all ratpack a person when one dont agree with a post there seems to be the pack mentality here and you people attack , but maybe its all done with love in your hearts.
I guess more time will tell.:smile:


Yeah because the OP acting like a complete tool and insulting people that didn't agree with him had nothing to do with it.

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Mon 01/10/11 08:42 AM
ok ,like I said,next please lol

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Mon 01/10/11 08:44 AM
whoa

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Mon 01/10/11 08:55 AM

Dont Mingle drunk?...hahahahaha THAT is a good one!

I dont know about the being obligated to say Yes to everyone just because they contact you....no one is required to just spread em just because someone shows an interest.



Um, oops.
I wish someone would have explained this to me when I signed up.

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Mon 01/10/11 10:03 AM


Dont Mingle drunk?...hahahahaha THAT is a good one!

I dont know about the being obligated to say Yes to everyone just because they contact you....no one is required to just spread em just because someone shows an interest.



Um, oops.
I wish someone would have explained this to me when I signed up.
and what part are you refering to ? being drunk or spreading em lol sorry just had to askblushing

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Mon 01/10/11 09:10 PM
Omg!! I have a opinion and I'm the tool...lol
I am only being a tool to those people because they make no sense.
Why is it that when a person posts. they are automatically complaining? Can't a person just voice a opinion without judgement from someone who knows no better then me.

This is funny !! i am really getting a kick out of stirring this pot. MORE!!! PLEASE!!!:banana:

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Mon 01/10/11 09:12 PM
oh yah I forgot.... Whaaaaah whaaahhhhh!!!! WHHHAHHHH!!!!!!!...lmao!!!

And for those that have other negative responses...... Blah Blah blah... shut up and fix me a chicken pot pie!!!! lolslaphead

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Mon 01/10/11 09:17 PM
are they stillgiving you crap man?

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Mon 01/10/11 09:18 PM
nah... it don't smell that bad.. ! think its just old chocolate.... lol!!!

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Mon 01/10/11 09:20 PM
lol. i hear ya man

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Mon 01/10/11 09:22 PM


My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?


Well first off I am not alone! I have alot of friends and companions to keep me company. I do not know why I come on here....? It seems like a waste of time. Especially when you have a match and they don't respond!!!!

So my comment was correct!! I did have the right insult.. " that is why your single and alone"


Speak to someone when they talk to you or your never going to meet someone.


So leave...it isn't that difficult, click the deactivate profile button and be gone. This is exactly what I'm talking about, someone can't get a date on this site so they come in flinging **** at everyone...and then wonder why they can't get a date.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:24 PM

lmao!!!.. ok you have 12424 post!!! I have news for you.. You are the giggly texting teenage type with that many post. And if your life is to busy to repond to the emails .. maybe you should cut down on your post and respond to the people who are interested in you.


Wow..Someone has been hitting the rudeness bottle tonight.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:28 PM



My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?


Well first off I am not alone! I have alot of friends and companions to keep me company. I do not know why I come on here....? It seems like a waste of time. Especially when you have a match and they don't respond!!!!

So my comment was correct!! I did have the right insult.. " that is why your single and alone"

Omg!!! here we go again.. lol . I don't remember me ever saying anything about getting a date . I think you may need to read the original post. It was in regards to responding to mutual matches ! Now it has blown up in to what it is now. They should call it gossip.. not mingle.


Speak to someone when they talk to you or your never going to meet someone.


So leave...it isn't that difficult, click the deactivate profile button and be gone. This is exactly what I'm talking about, someone can't get a date on this site so they come in flinging **** at everyone...and then wonder why they can't get a date.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:34 PM
There are some people that used to be on here but they have either found someone, or they are too busy to be on here 24/7. Or they will come on for a few days then disappear for a couple of months. I have a mutual match from 3 years ago. I know for a fact that he is happily taken...


And there are a lot of people on mingle that are taken or have found their other half, but they stay because we have become a family and we do not want to leave. Just because you have matched up with someone, doesn't mean they have to talk to you.

I am sorry that you are so upset by this. I do hope that your day goes better.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:37 PM




My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?


Well first off I am not alone! I have alot of friends and companions to keep me company. I do not know why I come on here....? It seems like a waste of time. Especially when you have a match and they don't respond!!!!

So my comment was correct!! I did have the right insult.. " that is why your single and alone"

Omg!!! here we go again.. lol . I don't remember me ever saying anything about getting a date . I think you may need to read the original post. It was in regards to responding to mutual matches ! Now it has blown up in to what it is now. They should call it gossip.. not mingle.


Speak to someone when they talk to you or your never going to meet someone.


So leave...it isn't that difficult, click the deactivate profile button and be gone. This is exactly what I'm talking about, someone can't get a date on this site so they come in flinging **** at everyone...and then wonder why they can't get a date.



Again, you don't seem all that happy with the site regardless of the reason...so leave, or stay, either way...quit bitching about something that is free and isn't forcing you to stay.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:39 PM

There are some people that used to be on here but they have either found someone, or they are too busy to be on here 24/7. Or they will come on for a few days then disappear for a couple of months. I have a mutual match from 3 years ago. I know for a fact that he is happily taken...


And there are a lot of people on mingle that are taken or have found their other half, but they stay because we have become a family and we do not want to leave. Just because you have matched up with someone, doesn't mean they have to talk to you.

I am sorry that you are so upset by this. I do hope that your day goes better.



My day was great when I posted this originally. I was just hoping for a response like yours. Thank you for you non judgemental opinion

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Mon 01/10/11 09:40 PM
Because being a whiney little girl is going to help you attract women? ... shut up and focus on the ones who do respond.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:46 PM





My advice is not to be so sensitive. A non response has no reflection on you. Its a big internet with so many people. It is easy to get distracted with everyday life and the big internet.

I think being single and alone is not the insult you intended it to be...why else would you be here as well?


Well first off I am not alone! I have alot of friends and companions to keep me company. I do not know why I come on here....? It seems like a waste of time. Especially when you have a match and they don't respond!!!!

So my comment was correct!! I did have the right insult.. " that is why your single and alone"

Omg!!! here we go again.. lol . I don't remember me ever saying anything about getting a date . I think you may need to read the original post. It was in regards to responding to mutual matches ! Now it has blown up in to what it is now. They should call it gossip.. not mingle.


Speak to someone when they talk to you or your never going to meet someone.


So leave...it isn't that difficult, click the deactivate profile button and be gone. This is exactly what I'm talking about, someone can't get a date on this site so they come in flinging **** at everyone...and then wonder why they can't get a date.



Again, you don't seem all that happy with the site regardless of the reason...so leave, or stay, either way...quit bitching about something that is free and isn't forcing you to stay.


Im just not happy with people like you that are so judgemental and so quick to voice a opinion about a subject they have no idea what is even going on. Nevermind ... you are not worth typing another lette...............

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Mon 01/10/11 09:47 PM

Im just not happy with people like you that are so judgemental and so quick to voice a opinion about a subject they have no idea what is even going on. Nevermind ... you are not worth typing another lette...............


Oh, you hurt my feelings.

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Mon 01/10/11 09:50 PM

Because being a whiney little girl is going to help you attract women? ... shut up and focus on the ones who do respond.


don't need help. I do just fine:banana: I just wanted to voice my opinion and certain people want to make the topic into more then what it was. But thats ok. Drama is my friend :)