Who is the most heart destroyer between men and women?

Apparently, I am a destroyer of man hearts

50/50 is the best answer you're going to get. It happens, no one sex is more responsible than the other, if you really want to get to the thick of it...it would really fall on both parties involved in the relationship.

I think my Blow up doll destroyed my last 4 relationships!! Not sure why!!

yep definately both, it is human nature, There will always be both men and women who destroy, and both men and women who love

Every action causes a reaction so both are equally at fault.......I have broken hearts thinking that setting them free was the best thing to do, but still stand behind my decisions because if I hadn't made the decision that I made and they had styed behind for me they wouldn't have known one way or the other whether they could have made their dream come true or not.......and if they had stayed they would have blamed me for holding them back.....so I stand by it even though they said I broke their heart....which saddened me because I loved them enough to set them free

I have a saying I have used for about 13 years now. And it applies here too.

"It takes two to argue."

I think lies and dishonesty are.

just a dead end way for oneself to think, created by even trying to base any reality on it, by giving such notions VALUE in the self mind.

for what thoughts self values, decideds ALL THAT ACTUALLY HAPPENS TO SELF.

reality.

the way one thinks about how itself feels creates the total reality one experiences, or what happens to oneself, as self had infinity other possibles to choose from, to attain what itself wanted, if it's self interest was wished to be achieved.

for what can be slighted, lest it feels another did not give to self what it wanted for itself?

that has no bearing in any equasion of love does it?

give me head, i give you fucck mentality.

tell me i am awesome, and rub my head like a puppy, and i will pat your puppy head, and tell you all words of praise for you, lol...

i mean if one is going to declare it's HEART has been violated.

the very saying is an illusion.

said instead of saying, you DIDNT GIVE ME WHAT I WANTED, OR EXPECTED YOU TO GIVE ME, IN RETURN FOR WHAT I GAVE YOU.

so, was it the heart that was broken, or the mind, which conspires, plans, decides, pre-meditates how to get what SELF WANTS FOR ITSELF, or then heart, that whisper how to care about another beyond one's own self interest in the matter?

if one loved another, than what they gave to self has no basis in the equasion of love to start with.

self interest bartering is not love.

thats a buying and selling people mentality, as slave mentality, of others are candy machines, and if they don't dose out the desired words and actions, they fuccked self.

well, self should not enter into collusion with other's who do the same, or the same shall repeat time and again.

W o m e n !!!!!! !

It takes two to get along....it takes two to love.......it takes two to produce a child....it takes two to do a lot of things.......it takes two to make the Earth move......to dance along.....

That's right. That's why it all depends on both people, not just one or the other.

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. If two people really want to work something out, they will recognize this and act appropriately. But if only one wishes to do so, then it's game over.

Either one of them will tear your heart out and take a big bite out of it while you watch, then just before you die stick it back in again wait for you to heal and tear it out again.

Men of course..........they have no heart therefore they are destruct-proof

Hmm, I didn't know this was a competition.

Woman by far! I just want a nice one to settle down with and have aa family.

You are too funny. Like men don't ever break a woman's heart. Excuse me while I laugh.

yaa ofcourse women the heartbreaker

And at times do we not break our own hearts by not listening to what the other does and does not want.....and in so doing become the ruination of our own relationships and hence break own own hearts.....so therein lies the parameter of self heart breakage??

Well said.