Topic: Do Men .........
actionlynx's photo
Sun 12/19/10 01:52 PM
It depends on how little or how well you know each other.

In the examples L2P mentioned, the pick up is the first meeting....You get to talk for awhile, learn something about each other face to face. In today's world, that is what the first date is all about, so the pick up in his scenario makes it unnecessary.

Once I know someone, usually well enough by the second date, I will meet them at the door, walk them to the car, open car door, etc. I used to do that in high school. Back then, I already knew the girls to an extent before asking them out.

Now things are different....dating has changed. There are many women that don't want a gentleman or chivalry. Those women just want someone who is chill and laid back. They might even take offense to having a door opened for them, or having a man buy her a drink.

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Sun 12/19/10 01:53 PM

I agree with most,,but really I think if you cant make the time to be old fashion,and meet people on your own theres a problem,,friends help turns in to trouble,,the net gives you false hope,,and church gives you good girls soon to turn bad,,lol,,but really where did we go wrong when it came to love at first sight,the bump into someone in a store, the oh what time is it,,see all this leads up to the date where you do get that door open for you and the chair pulled out and pushed in,,the kiss good night when he turns and you think,,wow whens the next time I can get the door open,,and the respect being treated like a woman...


love Im in love....lol:tongue:

TheShadow's photo
Sun 12/19/10 01:55 PM




Well when dating from online and meeting someone for the first time it's really not the best idea..

Knowing someone the "old" way they should and if they don't then I wouldn't waste my time...


What makes meeting someone the old way any safer than the net? "Idnt women meet crazy men the old way too?


You actually get to spend time with them and kind of see who they are. Being the net. you can be anything you want someone to believe you to be?

People can lie about who they are in person can't they?? From past experience people have lied d about who they are in person.


Ill end thislaugh

For me, i rather be able to see face to face then sit for months looking at a pic and typing.

krupa's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:03 PM
Sure I will meet you at your door.

A single rosed clenched in my teeth..
Zorro mask and cape
No pants
Mariachi band playing "Let's Get Physical"

oh yeah.......

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:05 PM





Well when dating from online and meeting someone for the first time it's really not the best idea..

Knowing someone the "old" way they should and if they don't then I wouldn't waste my time...


What makes meeting someone the old way any safer than the net? "Idnt women meet crazy men the old way too?


You actually get to spend time with them and kind of see who they are. Being the net. you can be anything you want someone to believe you to be?

People can lie about who they are in person can't they?? From past experience people have lied d about who they are in person.


Ill end thislaugh

For me, i rather be able to see face to face then sit for months looking at a pic and typing.

actionlynx's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:06 PM

Sure I will meet you at your door.

A single rosed clenched in my teeth..
Zorro mask and cape
No pants
Mariachi band playing "Let's Get Physical"

oh yeah.......


And here I thought you were more the flamenco type, to display it prominently then make it bounce and jiggle only to end with a thrust.

I guess I was wrong. laugh

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:07 PM





Well when dating from online and meeting someone for the first time it's really not the best idea..

Knowing someone the "old" way they should and if they don't then I wouldn't waste my time...


What makes meeting someone the old way any safer than the net? "Idnt women meet crazy men the old way too?


You actually get to spend time with them and kind of see who they are. Being the net. you can be anything you want someone to believe you to be?

People can lie about who they are in person can't they?? From past experience people have lied d about who they are in person.


Ill end thislaugh

For me, i rather be able to see face to face then sit for months looking at a pic and typing.

LOL just didn't make sense the difference between lying about who you are in person over the internet and as far as I know there has only been one internet killer. There has been many in person and they seem harder to catch in person than online so far......JMO.

ron62449's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:09 PM

My date meets me at the door, holds my hand ( to make sure that I don't fall) walks me to the car, opens the door for me, hands me my seatbelt, then gives me a bunch of kisses before he shuts my door. smooched


After the date, he will open my door, help me out of the car, holds my hand again, and walks me back up to my door. blushing


"hands me my seatbelt". When I mentioned this a few years ago on a forum i was ridiculed. Sometimes those seatbelts are so far back it can hurt your shoulder to reach back for it. I guess the person thought I buckled her in.

I like this, it bothers me when she doesnt let me.
to the guy who asks "if she picks me up?" Open her door and help her with her seat belt anyway.

Ron

TheShadow's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:21 PM

LOL just didn't make sense the difference between lying about who you are in person over the internet and as far as I know there has only been one internet killer. There has been many in person and they seem harder to catch in person than online so far......JMO.


Man! your going to keep this going aren't ya:tongue: laugh


Ok, lets put it this way. I have met a couple women off the net and looking at the pics and actually seeing them were way off. So, in meeting someone through a friend you actually get to see if your really interested in them or not. Being the net is a whole different thing. The lying part does work either way, but people tend to express it more being on the net then being confronted.

krupa's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:21 PM
Preach on Brother Ron!

I mean, I try to be a gentleman and hike up her pants or loosen her bra to make her safer and some chicks just flip out for no reason!

Go figure

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:30 PM

Sure I will meet you at your door.

A single rosed clenched in my teeth..
Zorro mask and cape
No pants
Mariachi band playing "Let's Get Physical"

oh yeah.......

G rated Babe I have kids.........but I would like it LOL

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:32 PM

Preach on Brother Ron!

I mean, I try to be a gentleman and hike up her pants or loosen her bra to make her safer and some chicks just flip out for no reason!

Go figure

Always the gentlrman........how could anyone resist a date with you

krupa's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:38 PM


Preach on Brother Ron!

I mean, I try to be a gentleman and hike up her pants or loosen her bra to make her safer and some chicks just flip out for no reason!

Go figure

Always the gentlrman........how could anyone resist a date with you


Good evening April! My, you look so lovely. Ooohhhhhh, that blouse looks very constrictive...allow me to make you more comfortable by removing it and shooting whipped cream on you before I buckle your seat belt for you.....

(Seriously, what amature horndog invented the "Let me buckle your seatbelt for you"? How totally unsmoothe is THAT?)

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 03:05 PM



Preach on Brother Ron!

I mean, I try to be a gentleman and hike up her pants or loosen her bra to make her safer and some chicks just flip out for no reason!

Go figure

Always the gentlrman........how could anyone resist a date with you


Good evening April! My, you look so lovely. Ooohhhhhh, that blouse looks very constrictive...allow me to make you more comfortable by removing it and shooting whipped cream on you before I buckle your seat belt for you.....

(Seriously, what amature horndog invented the "Let me buckle your seatbelt for you"? How totally unsmoothe is THAT?)

More power to him I say.....esp. if the women accepted it and took it as a compliment.....r u complaining aren't u reaping rewards out of this "tradition"........laugh laugh laugh love laugh blushing

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 12/19/10 03:18 PM
There's a bar called "The Door"?????????

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Sun 12/19/10 03:38 PM

My date meets me at the door, holds my hand ( to make sure that I don't fall) walks me to the car, opens the door for me, hands me my seatbelt, then gives me a bunch of kisses before he shuts my door. smooched


After the date, he will open my door, help me out of the car, holds my hand again, and walks me back up to my door. blushing



Is it extremely windy where you are at?

There's a bar called "The Door"?????????


hahaaaaaaaaaaaaalaugh

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Sun 12/19/10 03:39 PM

Pick their dates up at the door anymore?



Yes indeed I do. bigsmile

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 12/19/10 04:34 PM

Pick their dates up at the door anymore?


Why would anyone pick up fruit at the door?

Seakolony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 04:38 PM


Pick their dates up at the door anymore?


Why would anyone pick up fruit at the door?

It was delivery not DiGiorno

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 12/19/10 04:40 PM



Pick their dates up at the door anymore?


Why would anyone pick up fruit at the door?

It was delivery not DiGiorno


Oh, well, in that case I guess I would have to get the dates at the door.