I asked the question to the community because I found out the ladies likes to have rich men by their sides who'll lavish monies and gifts for them.
I really know the answer but I find it very difficult to find a girl at the internet because I always tell my-would-be girl-friend the truth about myself. Telling them that I'm poor makes them run away from me. But in my mind, I want to have a serious relationship and marry her afterwords.

Members can you help me out or do I join the queue of the deceiful men?

HappyDays77

Hmmm i dont think it has anything to do with money, it has to do with getting to know someone, taking the time to listen and see if you like them.

If you look at the reproduction statistics, you will find that poor people are having lots of children so being poor does not seem to indicate a problem in finding a mate.

Perhaps your real problem is telling jokes. Find some good ones and learn to tell them well.

If all else fails, learn to cook. If you cook for them you don't have to take them out to dinner!

Ive never fallen in love with a rich man yet

I think most people wrongly assume that everyone they could possibly be interested in and meet could be easily found on the internet.

Depending on exactly what you are looking for, it could be a very long time or possibly never finding the one, unless you are just going to settle for less, or are just looking for one thing.

..so are we talking about having money or getting laid,of course if you could find a hooker with a deferred payment plan,or one that converts food stamps..than what ..problem solved... and as

far as dinners..for that i keep a supply of le t.v dinners,a little candle light a quick flip of the le t.v dinner onto a plate and voila..of course it's always best to use the good silverware..no spork here..let's her know you care..i'm talking individual plastic knives and forks for that real special evenings..

for the evening conversation it might be best to talk about things you know she's interested in like sex and who will win the super bowl,the latest bad azz video game like call of duty..things you know will peak her interest in you..

..after dinner perhaps some instant coffee in individual styro foam cups again note the good stuff being used,make sure to offer her some cream or sugar that you absconded with from the nearest 7-11..they love a man who is frugal and opportunistic..

..now these are just a few of my trade secrets feel free to use any or all ..and your welcome...

I am worth 3.6 million dollars that the IRS knows about.

This could be true love.

Money is only important to those that don't have it. There isn't any way that I'm going to advertise what I have for fear that they are only in it for the money.

If one of the first things you tell someone is that you live in a cardboard box, what do you think is going to happen?

If you join the decietful men you will have even more problems. Women are not stupid and the truth always comes out

Sounds like you are going after the wrong type of women

Or maybe you need to take a look in the mirror- be honest with your self on the real reason your single?

The "looks" goes both ways, and I've seen "cougar" profiles that ain't all that.

And humor is only important to those who have any.

What does this have to do with the OP wanting to know if women are only interested in rich men?

I agree with StillLooking....I think he should take a long hard look in the mirror and determine what the REAL reason is for why he is still single. I'm sorry...I just don't buy (no pun intended) that all women are only after rich men. Of course, I can only speak for myself, but the amount of money someone has does not factor into my dating decisions at any time. My current boyfriend works construction and is unemployed for most of the winter due to work slow downs but it doesn't affect how I feel about him.

Just my $.02

touche!

All I can say is that if a Sugar Momma showed up on my doorstep......I wouldn't turn her away.

The more important question is if any Momma showed up on your doorstep would you turn them away........

Maybe its the fact that you don't know them and they dont know you and you already are mentioning marriage.

Probably has more to do with you rather than money or any other **** excuse most people use when it is really just them.

Money can come and go and does not truly make me content, happy and smile on the inside and outside.

I've had money, I've dated "money",
I've been 'broke' and I've dated "broke".

In hindsight~it seems the less money there was involved the more quality the relationship.

Personality, humor, respect, compassion and love ~ if those qualities are there, they are there no matter what, at some level at least.