I split up with my girlfriend bout 4 months ago was with her for 3 years and d agred to b good friends. I work a lot and recently i have been put on the sick due to injury so i have been doing a lot of thinkin (not good) and im stil in love with her and want another go at the relationship and it realy geting me down now :*( need cherinp up and taking my mind off her any ideas x

get under someone else.

Remember why you guys broke up

And if you get lonely don't let that make you give it another go

If you think it was best to break up in the first place

Good luck!

just start knocking em out forget about her real quick

i had been in a on again, off again, on again relationship with a woman for a little over five years. one day as we were breaking up for the umteenth time i told her i loved her. she looked me in my eyes and said, "costumbre es mas grande que amor". we haven't tried getting back together since. love is a very powerful, but tricky emotion because it comes in so many forms. love has many levels and people confuse those levels and try to transfer or interchange them. don't ruin a good friendship by trying to turn it into a relationship

(loose translation- a habit is greater than love)

think your a 100% rite. If i got back with her i wouldnt work. Fink it coz im off work and geting lonely and i was with her 4 3 years thats y i fink of her. Thank you, you made me realise im nt in love with her just got nothing else to do. Big help :D x x

Thats alot to lose(3yrs)..Love is the worst(to lose)it can and will drive you(not actually drive)to do things to keep from thinking of her(when not with her)good luck with this..was you and her mom close(did you two get along?)if so...go see momma when no one is around and tell her how you really feel


























it might just have a very happy ending...good luck

Glad i could help a little

Thinking too much can be so unhealthy

Been there myself bro

I think its part of being sick. I know I always seem to be lonely when I don't feel well. You are always thinking about someone. I don't know if it's a mental thing or some chemical thing in the body but I always get like that.

that's very nice cuddle! Mamma always know's best how to handle situations of the heart.

OP being alone can suck, especially if you are sick & bored. I miss having someone around to talk to, but rarely get bored because I keep my self busy so the time passes easier! Find something to do to pass the time, like mingling with the rest of us!

Getting out of a relationship can be a cultural shock even if it is a bad one. Reverse cultural shock can be weird, too. Take it from an old hitch hiker; There is no place like home no matter where ever that place may be.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture_shock

Wise words.

or on top of

Fanx to you all for the advice spoke to my ex and we defo nt going to work but she said she wil help and when im better we off to a gay bar fanx again x

Hey man it's gonna be alright!

good advice - even for the author of it

hey romeo

Take a trip to Disney World. Or the Bunny Ranch. Either will do.

most people feel an emptiness of sorts after a break up - especially when u get a lot of down time like u have now with this time off work - and thinking is fine

go ahead- remember the good things - it will warm ur heart to remember the good about everyone who comes into (and out of) your life - those reminiscences are part of letting go...you have to think & remember almost as though you are grieving for what could have been - you have to do this in order to be ready to move on and be free for a new relationship

you have to let go in order to find a new love and what you said in your post tells me that u r in the early stages of letting go. Many people mistake this as a sign that u should get back together - because you r thinking about her. No, that is just natural. We all think about where we have been before we move on - but like Romeo said, as you think u will eventually come to the part about remembering why u broke up

I have been there too. Me and my ex were together for 3 1/2 years and have a child together. When he left I thought my world was crashing and falling apart. We tried to be friends but it was only hurting me even more. Now when we see each other we are pleasent for the sake of our daughter. The best thing in my opinion was that we stopped being friends. It made it easier for me to move on and get over him. If your lonely hang out with other friends. That will help take your mind off her as well. Once you go back to work that will help as well. Go for a small walk everyday. Even if it's just to the coffee shop and back.

Sorry I kinda rambled on. Hope that helps.

there are a million peeps in this world, choose another one. you look too young to be settling for "possible second chances"