Topic: What Is the most important thing you...
GLG2009's photo
Wed 11/17/10 08:22 PM
It is a waste of money for people looking for a REAL relationship.noway

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 11/17/10 08:30 PM




that the more I like someone the farther away they live ... it's a law ... frustrated

brokenheart{{{Sherrie}}}A truly saddening distance of 4770 kilometers to be exact.:cry:Thankfully,I've found peace in knowing that you are in my mind,heart,soul & spirit for all of my days.I love you my dear friend.Godspeed!Steven :wink: :heart: smooched flowerforyou



Awwww (((Steven))) ... if only you lived closer :heart: smooched flowerforyou


I :heart: U my friend!

:heart: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtduW2pQgQc:heart:



lovely flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Thu 11/18/10 03:42 PM

It is a waste of money for people looking for a REAL relationship.noway


Thats why this site is here, it free:smile:

Monier's photo
Thu 11/18/10 03:52 PM
Edited by Monier on Thu 11/18/10 03:54 PM
Either online or in person, the best ones always stand out or have a glow to me, so to speak. I try not to become so jaded that I can no longer see it.

The one thing that I've noticed is that after you've been talking to or even been seeing somebody for awhile that you met online, you tend to forget about their profile. I find that especially funny since we tend to judge others initially by what they've written.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 11/18/10 04:31 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Thu 11/18/10 04:32 PM

I find that especially funny since we tend to judge others initially by what they've written.



I think a lot of people don't even bother with wanting to even read a profile, and judged by their pic's. That is one of the things in life I learned not to do.

diz08's photo
Thu 11/18/10 06:08 PM
I have learned A LOT. Fisrt online date was a wonderful guy but he was like 4'9. I felt like I was taking a kid to dinner and Im sure he was uncomfortable too.
Second guy was a complete con man with a silver tounge.
Third time was the charm! I meet my bf online and we have been together for over two years. This one is a keeper! And he has taught me a lot.
So my advice is , its just like the real deal. People put out what they want you to see, and then when they think you are comfortable... BOOM! Out comes the bad in the person.
Be brave but be SMART!

no photo
Thu 11/18/10 06:13 PM

Most will lie to you to make themselves look better.


funny - even tho in truth, they r prolly WONDERFUL just the way they r

that's what makes it so ironic!

TheShadow's photo
Thu 11/18/10 06:25 PM

I have learned A LOT. Fisrt online date was a wonderful guy but he was like 4'9. I felt like I was taking a kid to dinner and Im sure he was uncomfortable too.
Second guy was a complete con man with a silver tounge.
Third time was the charm! I meet my bf online and we have been together for over two years. This one is a keeper! And he has taught me a lot.
So my advice is , its just like the real deal. People put out what they want you to see, and then when they think you are comfortable... BOOM! Out comes the bad in the person.
Be brave but be SMART!


Being on the net anyone can be what ever they want. Just like someone else said on this thread. It's learning how to weed out the ones you don't need in your life.

chelsea466's photo
Thu 11/18/10 06:53 PM
Go with your gut!

Rachel78745's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:01 PM

Most will lie to you to make themselves look better.

How is that different than RL? lol

redhead44613's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:03 PM


Most will lie to you to make themselves look better.

How is that different than RL? lol
Very true.frustrated

Rachel78745's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:09 PM
I met my ex on a auto forum, we got into an argument over alternative energy sources. If we had not met in this way we never would have met. He was not even close to my type physically but his personality and intelligence got me pretty quickly. I think the best bet to find people are local forums and sites. That way you are speaking to people in your own area.

no photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:10 PM
Edited by Haley1243 on Thu 11/18/10 07:11 PM
That I cannot type in the dark.


Hunt and peck!frustrated
Hell I can't type in the light for that matter.

kc0003's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:11 PM

I met my ex on a auto forum, we got into an argument over alternative energy sources. If we had not met in this way we never would have met. He was not even close to my type physically but his personality and intelligence got me pretty quickly. I think the best bet to find people are local forums and sites. That way you are speaking to people in your own area.

damn...that means i have to move!

no photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:15 PM
it's a great opportunity to learn more than u would normally about someone before u actually meet them

no photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:15 PM
I've learned that apparently a lot of 50 year old men are attracted to 25 year old women......grumble and the 23- 30 somethings, for the most part, dont seem to be ohwell

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Thu 11/18/10 07:25 PM

I've learned that apparently a lot of 50 year old men are attracted to 25 year old women......grumble and the 23- 30 somethings, for the most part, dont seem to be ohwell


Yeah watch out for those dirty old men.............smokin

TheShadow's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:31 PM

it's a great opportunity to learn more than u would normally about someone before u actually meet them


The forum is, in time people tend to show themselves. I've learned a little by being on the forum.

Rachel78745's photo
Thu 11/18/10 07:37 PM


I met my ex on a auto forum, we got into an argument over alternative energy sources. If we had not met in this way we never would have met. He was not even close to my type physically but his personality and intelligence got me pretty quickly. I think the best bet to find people are local forums and sites. That way you are speaking to people in your own area.

damn...that means i have to move!

why? don't you have local forums? If not you should start one :)

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Fri 11/19/10 04:56 AM



I met my ex on a auto forum, we got into an argument over alternative energy sources. If we had not met in this way we never would have met. He was not even close to my type physically but his personality and intelligence got me pretty quickly. I think the best bet to find people are local forums and sites. That way you are speaking to people in your own area.

damn...that means i have to move!

why? don't you have local forums? If not you should start one :)

Hi!Rachel.I'm pleased to meet you btw.I truly love to have a chuckle w/ my morn.cup of java so let me start by saying Thank You!Now to answer your Q,Yes!this site has local forums however I can tell you w/ iron clad certainty that the Mass Forum is virtually a ghost town.Well being the neat freak that I am I feel compelled to visit there quarterly and do a bit of dusting & sweeping just to keep things tidy.lol;)Throughout my 4 yrs. here there have been 3 teenagers that posted once in there & were never heard from again.Perhaps it was my doppelganger Mr.Bear that scared them off.Who's to say?;)From what I've read many others have the same results w/ their local forums.Distance is a formidable obstacle as I & Sherrie mentioned earlier.I'll close then by saying that I have forged some wonderful friendships here though & the forums are usually entertaining.I wish you the best of course.Godspeed!Cy :smile: flowerforyou