Topic: What Is the most important thing you...
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Fri 11/19/10 09:31 PM
Edited by GLG2009 on Fri 11/19/10 09:32 PM

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Fri 11/19/10 09:33 PM


It is a waste of money for people looking for a REAL relationship.noway


Thats why this site is here, it free:smile:


I agree. I this site.

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Fri 11/19/10 09:35 PM
i still say friendship honesty an happiness

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Fri 11/19/10 11:33 PM
That is appears to be cougar season. laugh

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Sat 11/20/10 08:03 PM

Have learned by being on a dating site looking for a relationship?


That most men my age don't have a clue what they really want.grumble

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Sat 11/20/10 08:32 PM
Yes I agree MEN my age don't know what the HELL they want they say one thing, then turn around and say something different . I am glad I am not the only one that thinks that!!!sad

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Sat 11/20/10 08:48 PM


it's a great opportunity to learn more than u would normally about someone before u actually meet them


The forum is, in time people tend to show themselves. I've learned a little by being on the forum.


well even just with messaging and phoning that goes on pre-meeting - I mean usually IRL you see each other - make eye contact - feel and act on the attraction & learn about each other later. Online, you never know if that spark is gonna be there till u meet, we often (at least I do)talk before we meet-rather than after

the difficult part for me is when the conversations & messages go really well, but the spark is not there when we meet. have had that happen a few x - IDK if i'll ever get used to that aspect

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Sun 11/21/10 09:42 AM

Yes I agree MEN my age don't know what the HELL they want they say one thing, then turn around and say something different . I am glad I am not the only one that thinks that!!!sad


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Sun 11/21/10 03:30 PM
Must write more than HI and want sexsmokin

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Sun 11/21/10 03:42 PM



the difficult part for me is when the conversations & messages go really well, but the spark is not there when we meet. have had that happen a few x - IDK if i'll ever get used to that aspect


When I first joined dating sites this happen to me too. Although that only happened a couple times. Now I wont meet anyone with out seeing them on web came first. That alone well give the other besides yourself to see if you wont things to go further or not.{/b]

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Sun 11/21/10 04:11 PM

that the more I like someone the farther away they live ... it's a law ... frustrated

bingo

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Sun 11/21/10 04:13 PM
Must post picture.

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Sun 11/21/10 04:15 PM
Edited by rara777 on Sun 11/21/10 04:17 PM


that the more I like someone the farther away they live ... it's a law ... frustrated

bingo


I agree.

Welcome to the United States and to mingleville, Stefy flowerforyou

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Sun 11/21/10 04:39 PM
That I need to know myself much better and that people are much different when you have the chance to write your thoughts and that BS is the same here as in person. I like the games and the people! I think finding love is just something that may or may not happen regardless of where you look.

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Sun 11/21/10 04:59 PM
That being friends is cool,but when it comes to the distance thing, for me or someone else to leave behind their lives to be together just don't seem right. Maybe if all my kids were grown up but still don't think I could leave my friends and family behind

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Sun 11/21/10 05:07 PM

That being friends is cool,but when it comes to the distance thing, for me or someone else to leave behind their lives to be together just don't seem right. Maybe if all my kids were grown up but still don't think I could leave my friends and family behind


I actually did that about 3 years ago to raise my little boy. It's been hard in some ways, but in others as far as my son goes. it's been worth it.

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Tue 11/23/10 11:25 PM
I've learned that sweet words are more deceiving than the look of a personfrustrated frustrated frustrated

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Sat 11/27/10 02:56 PM
They lie, scheme and misrepresent themselves(men as well as women). Just be aware of what is going on and be sensitive to feelings (yours and theirs). History does repeat itself. An old saying(let the buyer beware) applies here too. Also applying here: Watch out for the other guy!!!

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Sat 11/27/10 02:59 PM




the difficult part for me is when the conversations & messages go really well, but the spark is not there when we meet. have had that happen a few x - IDK if i'll ever get used to that aspect


When I first joined dating sites this happen to me too. Although that only happened a couple times. Now I wont meet anyone with out seeing them on web came first. That alone well give the other besides yourself to see if you wont things to go further or not.{/b]


Webcams!! Indespesable piece of modern technology. Weeds the idiots ouT without even meeting them!! And, you get to stay away becuse faces don't lie and the webcam catches your every move!!!!

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Sat 11/27/10 03:09 PM
Relationships, or basic friendships are alot like Golf.

Most people can't follow-through.