Aint nothing wrong with a plush gal.

A woman who b*tches about her weight is waaaay more of a turn off than the weight it's self.

I seriously dated a pair of big girls (they were best friends and we were all cool with it) It was one of the most fun times in my entire carreer as a slut. Neither one was exceptionally attractive (still decent looking)...but, damn if they just didnt have really happy attitudes and THAT was awesome!

......sigh......I sure do miss being smothered by 4 big boobs...good times!

No that didn`t.

Thank you and yes that is my picture. It took a lot of work to heal and lose weight but it certainly was worth the effort.

Let's go to dinner!

Sweets have always been my downfall.

We have alot going on in our lives right now. He is trying to start up a onling MMORPG gaming company, and I am going to school. THere are 5 people living in a 3 bedroom house right now. So I know it's hard and stressful right now. I just don't want other things comming between us. We are working hard for the family but what good is it if the family is no longer together?

No, I really don't worry much about my weight. I eat right , I work out...I'm a pretty healthy ole broad. If someone else doesn't like my weight they can just movce on..

Well i am a sweet and fun guy lollllllll:) smiling

I would rather have some meat on my bones, I don't worry about my weight, yes I admit I love my snack food so what, if people don't like it to damn bad.

Put simply,if there is more weight, for some of us that have to worry about high blood pressure and that type of thing(African Americans in particular).So, certain foods we love(bacon,pork products etc)are the root causes. Too much sodium is another problem. So, those folks really have to watch what they eat and how much as will as when. In closing, weight is a big issue.

thats the way to tell them:)smiling

i aggree bro if its health reasons you need to look after that first cheers :) and i love bacon sometimes too lol on pizza its great have a great week cheers

thats a good way to look at it people should accept people for themselfs :) thanks for your reponse and you don't look old to me:)

I think most girls have some kind of body conscious problem.
ME ===I know I'm a lil pudgy But hell I think I look pretty good. And as far as a guy wanting me to be in perfect shape, he better be there first, before he puts expectations on me.
I love food, its should never be a burden to eat, It should always be a celebration. I love sweets, they are wonderful.

I'm healthy and thats all that counts, Whats a few extra pounds?

Besides, you might "break" a really skinny girl !

I totally agree with you. The number one killer is heart attacks with overweight people. Other problems are diabetes, constant cold/flues, kidney failure, strokes,gall bladder disorders, and can even increase the risk of cancer. Makes one think.

I know I need to lose weight....I'm 5'11" and 210lbs and have always been around 185lbs. I'm going on a diet for myself and no one else. The better I feel the better I live. I see some remarkable and inspiring stories here and you all should be proud

We were not all blessed to look like Barbie dolls.Or even close,but if we had been.What good would that be. This way we have choices,preferences and the awesome ability to look deeper into who we really are.
What a shame when that has been lost along the way.
J.M.2cents.

thanks cheer & hugss back to ya! I feel great and if I keep up the good work there its likely that I will prevent diabetes. I am insulin resistant which generally leads to diabetes. It's extremely hard to lose weight because your body is producing insulin constantly & telling your cells to store fat. Eventually, the insulin producing cells wear out and you lack the ability to make insulin = diabetes!

My glucose/insulin ratio has dropped considerably over the last year. Liver function has returned to normal & my cholesterol/triglyceride levels are nearly normal so I feel WONDERFUL. I do water cardio twice a week, yoga every Thursday, walk my dogs 3-4 days a week and ride horses trying to maintain an hour a day of exercise.

Since I started the regular exercise routine I have really started feeling well & good about myself! I also use to take a serotonin supplement for depression and I am no longer in need of it. YAY
I am happier and healthier than I have ever been in life!!! I focus on getting healthier instead of what my actual weight is on a scale though and workout because it makes me feel good not because I wanna lose weight. Don't get wrong I wanna lose some more of it, but its too depressing to focus on the numbers and well, fun, when I just focus on me!

Nope anyone don't like it I let them worry about it. I've been the same weight since I was 40 so not like I'm gaining and I don't eat junk. I do watch the colesteral and sugar and salt because the Dr tells me too but that is about it.

Well you don't look overweight to me But keeping it in check is good